I'd much much much MUCH prefer not using a condom but I think some form of birth control would be great. Preferably the pill, or possibly the arm implant (though I've heard those can be questionably effective), as conventional condoms and female condoms impede physical stimulation, and things like IUD's pose risks/damage when certain types of 'intense' play is indulged.
I'm admittedly a little turned off by the idea of birth control, in some ways it feels like a barrier between us. But it the responsible thing to do, lol.
Well, I want to wait with sex till marriage, and in that time I would already want to have children, so no, no need. And later probably condoms, if there would be a need. And birth control - no! These things can mess up with woman's health.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I dont believe in birth control. We’d do pullout method until he was ready for kids. I've always felt ready. But after im done having kids, i’ll either suggest a condom or get tubes tied
I don't believe in birth control too. It can cause side effects, and I don't want to risk my spouse health. You have only one health and you should take the best care of it.
@Cubus i agree
I'm happy I have someone who agrees with me, Desii. I believe condoms are better because they don't cause any health issues nor alter woman's body in any way.
Been married 10 years. I'm not worried about STDs, but we always use birth control if we aren't actively trying. If there's no goalie, then, whether you realize it or not, you ARE trying.
We don't have to as I got "fixed" when I was having a c-section with my last child.
Engaged, no condom, she is still on the pill. When we are married, she’s going to stop the pill and we will have kids. Looking forward to it
In marriage no, or only if you already have a child and don't want more, I guess. If you are not married, yes.
Nah I hate condoms and birth control. In my relationship we just do pull out when we are preventing pregnancy
I use a condom because my wife is not on birth control.
Partly I wish I didn't have to use one. But I don't feel entitled to sex without condom just because we are married. We're not sure about using birth control pills etc. I would like to try the cycle method as I really want to have sex without condom. We have tried the pull out method but I find it hard to time the moment and I also enjoy finishing inside.
Yeah, I'd still wear the condom or just ask her to get on birth control if there wasn't a condom. Unless we were planning to have kids then I'd be ok with unprotected. I say the condom cause it's easier to get a hold of personally from my experience and most of all because unfortunately unlike porn real pussy can kill you one day.
Of course not
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I don't want a baby so what else i'm gonna do?
Kind of depends on circumstances.
Do you want kids in the future?
If not go get snipped, but save some swimmers just in case.
You can never say never.
It depends. I'm not currently on the birth control but I'm also not planning to have a baby yet. Usually we don't wear condoms but I track my period and when there's high chances of getting pregnant we use a condom on the safe side.
I'm having the snip soon, then I won't use condoms. We've had 2 kids in 2 years, that's enough.
There wouldn’t be a need for protection if her and I are married/engaged.
If we’re ready for kids no. But if not, no.
We haven’t.
I have never been married, but even in a committed relationship, I have used condoms for a long time. No condom takes a lot of trust now a days. Just too many cheaters
Well in marriage no especially if you know there's another form of birth control and if I'm with somebody for a really long time well I'm going to know if I they have an STD sooner or later I guess regardless
I strictly dislike using condom during sex
Why any reason
@Rahul8124 because condom hinders touching of part to part
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Oh, I would absolutely use birth control. Whether it's a condom or a pill or a vasectomy or all of the above. Whatever is necessary.
@Lucy68 If you don't use any contraceptives, then you only have two options: have a ginormous litter of children, or basically have a sexless marriage.
There is also the option of the guy just pulling out or cycles tracking for the female. There is many more options then the two you listed
@Apple1996. I would NOT be able to pull out even if I tried! I can guarantee you that right now!
condoms are for feminists and whores
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