Not really weird, but if you do find someone just for sex that can make a little weird to try and switch to someone who loves you for something serious.
Lets say your friends with benefits with some guy just for sex, and you start dating... but its going slow and not going anywhere? what do you do, stop the sex and see what happens with person your dating or keep going at it until the serious relationship moves into that area.
Then your caught in a situation of having sex with both of them or cutting the first one off.
Think about the future, how do you switch later? or do you just have sex now, then stop for awhile and look for love? then what if you find a nice guy who doesn't like your past, so you have to keep looking?
I mean if i find love of course i will not have sex both of them. I will be with the one person. If i did, it would mean i cheat. Of course it will not be the case. My past is not business of anyone if someone has a problem of course He can always go. I will always be me. Of course i want someone who has love and sex at the same time but sometimes it is not easy to find. Love is very hard to find. And i need regular sex that’s why i thought this can be the good idea for a while.
I agree love is hard to find and if he doesn't like your past, move on... was just saying, it sucks to find the almost perfect guy and have them not be able to accept my past and lose them over that. Been there and done that.
But it is his problem not ours. Everyone has a past. There is no person who hasn’t got past. He must be with someone who is very religious if He wants to be with someone who hasn’t had sex till marriage or hasn’t got past. He also can have past. We can not do anything about that. If i do not do anything that makes me feel guilty so i have nothing to worry about.
Nah it's not, just don't lead him on thinking it's more than that. Be clear and fair upon ur motives.
I mean you can't have sex without a guy (properly). It's definitely not weird since loads of people use others for sex to please themselves, so not weird at all in my opinion.
Maybe a friends with benefits situation would work better than a relationship and who knows where it can take you!
Like I would be the same, where I'd like a girl to try things with and if we love each other then it's a bonus
Isn't that why most girls have a boyfriend?
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Nah it’s normal, guys do it, girls do it, nothing wrong with it
@ Pink Anon ref update, yes it’s normal and will have peaks n troughs
You don't need a boyfriend to get laid. And you don't need a partner to cum. So yes, that's weird.
Trying to cum by masturbating all the time is not enough in the long time. Some time later you need a man.
Not if you know what you are doing.
Maybe it differs from person to person. It is not enough to do for years for me.
My dear, that's not a boyfriend, that's a fuck buddy, and that's perfectly normal and acceptable.
I think everyone should have a fuck buddy. No one person really can be the all in all for anyone. We humans need to just get a grip on what sex really is.
Go find what you want. Nothing wrong with that.
Just like me lol
With love included the sex will truly be better even if it's over time that it takes to reach the peak of pleasure. I do thou understand how you are feeling. Feel free to message me with any questions you may have.
Of course i know but sometimes i have excess sexual drive and it makes me think that if i do that can i feel satisfied. But i would prefer what you say more. But sometimes find the love is not easy.
Very true. Message me so we perhaps can talk freely and help each other in some way to understand our drives, feelings, desires and outcomes.
Why not form a relationship and have sex in it too?
I could not find it is hard to find of course it is better
Not weird at all. But try masturbating. Even if it’s five times a day.
such a novel idea...
@Pixel343 nah lol. But it never hurts to recommend it.
@gwenhwyfar you can not know How much i do….. it is not enough anymore. I am in dry spell for a long time.
Normal? yes.
Do I think it should be done? No.
Why?
You should value your intimacy and the person you want to be intimate with. www.eviemagazine.com/.../the-real-price-of-low-cost-sex
There is no person what can i do? Do you think it is easy to find someone who is reliable?
I don't see why not, guys do it all the time.
No. Men do it all the time
it's an honest request
It’s not weird, do what makes you happy as long as you’re safe.
I knew a girl in college who just had a very high sex drive. She loved sex of all kinds, had all sorts of sex toys and was completely open about it. A wonderful friend. SO, i would vote No, it's not weird at all, it is rare however.
Why do u think it is rare? Now, many women have fuckbuddies just to fulfill their needs or have one night stands for sexual needs. Why having a boyfriend for sex is rare?
I guess I I should have made clear that I was referring to my observations from 1960-1980, well before the term "Fuckbuddy" was even in use.
Woww yeah it is such a long time ago.
Then you're looking for a fuck buddy.
☝️... If you are into sexting I am available. 🤷♂️ just saying.
Very uncommon to my knowledge.
too bad really.
Guys are wired that way.
Why too bad? Maybe there are girls but they do not confess that.
Let's just say, Utah is a terrible place to be a single 28 year old male. And the tinder, FBD, etc, apps will have you talking to a girl in circles, while she tries to see if you have any sort of sexual interest. A disqualifying flaw. This makes me think that they do not have such a drive.
I'm sure there are a lot of guys who want the same thing. (I'm not one of them, though.)
I don't see anything wrong with this.
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