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Why do men expect females to be perfect with no body hair, yet they get to keep all their body hair and not be perfect?

Damn double standards. Guys are disgusted if a female has any hint of body hair on their legs, vaginas, armpits, etc, but for some reason it's okay for guys to be as hairy as can be and no one says shit. If a guy gives oral and gets hair in his mouth, it's "Ewwwww nasty". If a girl gives a guy with a hairy ass bush, she's not supposed to say shit. It's so dumb.
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  • That is a boy first off not a man. Secondly, grooming on both ends is good hygiene a d should be down especially if your hair causes odors or skin issues depending on your biology. No one should look like a wet dog but you also don't have to be bald. For me personally I don't like bald vaginal shavers because I'm not a pedophile and being with a woman with no traces of hair makes me feel a bit grossed out due to this. Again that's just my preference but there is no such thing as perfect some people male and female simply need to trim certain areas so you don't smell like shit or scratch your SO's parts. I am told I look great with a beard and my partner loves it as well but if I do not maintain it she gets a rash because I've brillo for hair, lol. So as a courtesy I keep it trimmed and I used conditioner to keep the hair more manageable. There is nothing wrong with doing what makes you comfortable yet you also don't want to go around smelling onions or bad fish either. Like I said this goes both ways not just for the l as dies as our hair can be a bit much as well.

    • Apologies for all the typos this was wrote when I was tired. Having just read it to myself I almost had a stroke. The point was clear though.

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  • It's really just a double standard, I don't agree with it either believe me. I think that if the guy is shaving downstairs the girl should too and vice versa. Now I will say that there are parts on a guy that only a guy should shave on and there are parts of a girl that only a girl should shave on. In the end, though, I say if one of you is going full scape then chances are you should too. Personally, I say both parties should at least be keeping the body hair short or just tended to period but that's just me since I've always liked the feeling of not having so much body hair. Partly because I work outdoors and believe me body hair makes things so much worse especially in summer.

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  • Personally, I think hairy legs and hairy armpits are uncomfortable. I like the hair on my head long. Any other hair... Well, it's his choice. I'll trim or wax or not, I give him the choice. Likewise, he shaves his face for me, keeps the hair on his head short, and leaves his body natural which is how I like it.

  • Because to some men a girl with no body hair is seen as more feminine

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  • Agreed. I don’t mind body hair at all. And I actually love pubic hair. I’d be more likely to give a woman oral with a full bush down there vs without. Why, because she looks mature!

  • I don't expect you to be perfect with no body hair. I literally couldn't care less about you having leg hair, or anything else. I just ask that it is kept well managed. I don't want to see ANYONE'S pubic hair sticking out from their bathing suit at a pool.

  • You have expectations of guys, but they aren't physical body attributes.

  • Not true, many guys like women to be natural with body hair.

  • Not all guys expext smooth women and plenty of guys take care of their body hair, its down to preference and for the couple to communicate what those preferences are for each other, and to decide what they are comfortable with. There are plenty of double standards that women hold over men so probably best to pick your battles. The subject of men's and women's body hair is probably the most trivial of them all.
    Now quit your moaning and get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich 🤣

  • this is driven by women as much as men... its fashion and as such goes around in circles

  • This is a bit of a stereotype. There are also guys with different preferences. Personally, I prefer a girl to keep a bush down below and I don't care how she keeps the hair on her armpits.

    My girlfriend keeps her pussy hairy as she knows it's my preference and she finds it easy not having to shave or trim there. However, she indicated to me that she likes me shaved smooth, so I shave my pubic hair (all of it), armpits and chest. That way, we both get what we want, and I can't care much about how I keep it. Whatever she prefers.

    I expect it's a quite uncommon combination though, a couple where the guy shaves all pubic hair away, and the girl keeps a full untrimmed bush.

  • I never understood the 'no hair' attitude by men. For me, the more pubic hair a girl has the better I like it. I used to eat my girlfriend a lot and periodically I would get a hair in my mouth, and that was part of the excitement of eating pussy. Pubic hair is part of the thrill, as I like to separate the hair and then separate the lips, to get to her clitoris.

    I worked with a girl, at Firestone Tire, b4 moving to California. She wanted to see my penis, and I was glad to show her. She did eventually show me her bush, after me begging, but would not show her pussy. (never understood why not) She had a BEAUTIFUL bush, just from what I could see on her 'mound' and I would have LOVED to bury my face it it. Never did get to though ~ damn.

    The whole idea of why men want a shave or lasered pussy, is beyond me. Bring on the thick and curly pubic hair, and underarm hair if you have it.

  • Maybe too much porn. It might be a personal kink, but I am attracted to girls with dense pubic hair from mound to butt crack and equally thick arm pit hair. Downy legs and arms are not an issue. No kidding. I love to nuzzle both.

  • Who tf told you that?

    • Who’s downvoting me? FUCK YOU ALL

  • Everything men think about the way a woman should act is informed by what other women tell us. If we didn't have our mothers, sisters, and female friends telling us that women should be hairless, we wouldn't expect it.

  • Do you really want to go down the “double standard” rabbit hole? Yes I admit this might come off as a double standard but in reality there are literally hundreds of other unchecked double standards women have over men.

    If you want to go hairy than suit yourself. The last I checked it’s legal to ditch the shaver (even in Muslim countries). You are not going to get arrested. Sure you will turn some guys off but hey it’s about “women’s rights” so who cares what those guys can think. It’s something you can control anyway.

    Try telling a short guy that he needs to be taller. Really. A short guy has zero control over his height but yet women still judge him for it. I am tall by the way but l still I feel for some of the shorter guys. But they are usually feisty smart asses anyway.

    Anyway shaving is an inconvenience for women, yes. But it’s an easily maintained one. Look into getting electrolysis for permanent hair removal.

  • most men are willing to return the favor. it just happens to be the case that women prefer men hairy.

    • also, we don't expect her to be percect. just reasonably groomed like you expect from a guy.

    • Who’s downvoting me? FUCK YOU ALL

    • @Neosporin the heck? I didn't xD

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  • I don't expect it but I actually do remove most of my body hair and as long as the woman shaves her legs the rest I could care less about me

  • I personally prefer a little trim up and for it to all be generally clean.

  • It’s true often times but some reasonable men out there recognize and disapprove of the double standard. But do women actually want us to shave our pubes off?

    • Who’s downvoting me? FUCK YOU ALL

  • Because we are dominant and will do what we want. Women are service oriented. They like to serve so they will do more for men in those ways.

  • If he expects you to be clean-shaven ALL the time, then he's not worth it. If he simply expresses a preference for it but isn't demanding anything that's absolutely fine. You have the right to do the same to him as well. Then it's up to you to decide if and when you shave.

  • I do my legs and armpits so must they, and I don't care if a girl has pubes (but if she wants head, she should trim it pretty short down there.

  • here we have a woman un-ironically talking about double standards.

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