Guys how soon do you expect sex in a new relationship?
since i am a virgin, i am honestly kind of scared. i don't want to get any potential STDs from the guy, or get pregnant or hurt. i am so unlucky, so i will probably end up having triplets my first time. i love babies, but ideally i would like to be married and have a good established career and home before i have babies because i want to give them the best opportunities in life.
so the idea of sex after 1 or 2 months just grosses me out. i want to wait at least 3 or 4 months before i get intimate with a guy. would you guys lose interest in a girl if she made you wait? of course, the same guys that expect sex after the first date to see if there's "chemistry" are also the same guys that find it extremely shocking when a woman has had sex with more than 1 man.
look, i need to know that i can trust a man before i get intimate with him. i need to make sure he isn't a fuckboy and just using me and i need to make sure he isn't crazy. is that too much for some of y'all to understand?
****i am not saying all men are like this, it just seems that most are. like when the heck did it become the norm that you have to have sex with every person you date? maybe you have 10 dates with 10 different people, but can't you just be intimate with 2 of them?
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