Yes, and I do not mind if women hold me to the same standards. Back when I was single, my friends and I developed what we called "The dick stacking contest." Basically, the average penis is about 6 inches long. So if you stacked all those on top of each other, it would be 2 sexual partner per foot.
If she has so many partners that, if she jumped from the dick stacking height, and hurt herself, she was not considered marriage material. As an example, if a woman had 40 sexual partners, she would jump from a height of 20 feet, which would obviously hurt her. Not marriage material.
But, if she only had 5 partners, then she jumps from a height of 2 feet, 6 inches, and she'd be fine. Marriage material.
I'm aware that people may find this offensive. If you do, I apologize, but that is the standard I used, and it led me to the woman I love most in the world.
I've read somewhere that the number of sexual partners affect drastically the chances of getting a future divorce. So if I'm looking for a serious relationship with a woman, I don't mind if she had some experience, threesomes or whatever but if she had like hundreds of men then I'm not cool with that at all.
All women that I've met with more than a hundred partners use sex as palliative to deal with anxiety, stress and depression, they were bad at getting a good conversation going and the only good trait they had was obviously sex.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Men and women don't value these things the same - men and women simply don't look for or value the same things, because it's to our advantage to value different things. Much of that is due to biology and gender roles that, no matter what you do, you can't change.
One of the reasons men care about women's number FAR more than women care about men's is because when humans get emotionally attached to someone, and then lose that relationship, it damages their ability to pair bond the next time - and this damage is cumulative. BUT... men and women work differently. Most women cannot separate sex from love - if she starts having sex with a guy, she's going to start getting emotionally attached to him, even if she doesn't want to or tries not to. Most women simply aren't built to be able to have sex without getting attached.
MEN ARE DIFFERENT - and while we DO fall in love, and we DO have our pair-bonding ability damaged when we're in love and things end - it's also true that most men CAN separate sex from love, and are thus perfectly capable of having sex with a girl he's not in love with, and for him, it's JUST SEX. He can have sex with her for just a single night, or twice a day for a year, and not fall in love with her either way, if he didn't already have feelings for her at the start.
Maybe I can explain this using a gaming metaphor - let's say you have 100 "hit points", and every time you end a relationship with an emotional commitment, you lose 2 hit points.
This means, for most women, if they have sex with 50 men, they are "dead" from a relationship standpoint - they've exhausted their bonding "hit points" and can no longer bond with a man, which means she will never be able to sustain a long-term relationship.
But, a man could sleep with 50 women, but only had feelings for 5 of them, and thus he's only down 10 hit points - he still has 90 hit points left. His body count is the same, but his ability to pair bond is still very strong.
That's one of a few reasons why men care so much more about a woman's "body count" than women care about men's - men come to innately understand that a woman with a high body count isn't going to make a viable long-term partner. He'll be happy to have sex with such women - they're often ideal for casual sex, in fact - but he won't commit to her.
You can call this a double-standard, and you'd be right - but there are plenty of double-standards that work against men in the dating world, and men have to live with those, just as women have to live with this one.
Honestly I don't really care either, I don't ask or want to know her number... unless she feels I should know then... yeah it might get weird.
But the number doesn't matter as much as the skills do... hell she could be a virgin but if she fucks like a natural I would not care... and if she is way experienced then I would expect her to fuck like a pro.
So best just not knowing and seeing if we vibe without expectations.
I find that a woman w hi o has more experiences is a much better lover than one who has no e.
It matters. Like, do I know a good number of them? That would be a turnoff.
Not a concern. I wouldn’t ask.
I want a woman that has fucked a lot. My wife had been fucked by 30 different men and her girlfriend had been fucked by 40 guys.
Nope
I agree with your perspective... what's in the past is not that important, although someone with a lot if experience can teach you a few things ;-)
Yes, I don't want the mother of my children to have been a slut.
Don’t worry I doubt most women would want to have your child anyway :)
Not at all
Well, unfortunately yes it does because some guys feel they won't measure up or do better than ur last experiences.. soo fucks with some guys mentally.. that's why unless you've actually known ogirl ur whole life.. chicks will never tell their true number... because they don't want to be looked at different...🤷♂️ . It really shouldn't matter... it doesn't stay loose!!! ( well kinda)
Yes and no. For the most part I don't really care if the body count is high. I'd be more concerned with the reason for it and that could be a deal breaker. Not the number, but the reason for it whether it's really high or low.
Yeah, I understand you. For most men it would matter, I don't know why it is like that. I have been with only one woman and it mattered to me. But after we separate, I'm sure I have been with more guys than her, hehe :)
Nope except there number will be higher than mine.
Don't matter cause I'm gonna give her the hardest pounding she's even had... or hope to have..
Doesn’t matter to me. I feel the same way you do as long as she is clean. And I appreciate her experience and knowledge of sex.
Yeah
Not at all!
Kinda. With the note of being mine from there on out.
not really , All I want her is to be passionate for me, and open minded
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