Personally yes, it worked for me. Here is my story.
I got pregnant in my early 20's to my very first boyfriend (yes he took my virginity), got married and it all went to shit within 5 years.
Near the end of this I was seeing a girlfriend every week (girls night in) and her boyfriend gave me a lift to/from their house. Now I was 99% sure she was spending time with my then husband, and it turns out that is what her boyfriend thought too so we ended up having sex which I thought was the best thing ever (much better than my then husband), one thing lead to another and within a year I was divorced.
I then spent the next few years enjoying myself. I have amazing parents (aka babysitters) so I went clubbing every other weekend, hooked up with somebody, sometimes ended up having sex in the club bathrooms, sometimes at their place, never at mine. My 'body count' was well over 50 by this point and rapidly heading towards three figures.
One day I met up with an old friend from many years previously and we just hit it off. Didn't even have sex with him for nearly a week. We have now been married nearly 20 years. Yes I did wander once, with that old girlfriends boyfriend from all those years ago but on this occasion I regretted it.
So there you have it. Cheated on not just her boyfriend, but her beloved husband. This is why smart men shy from girls with high body counts, we know habits are difficult to break
I fuck around and I think I will have a happy marriage one day because of it. I hope my future husband does too. It's weird there's a future husband out there somewhere and I don't even know him yet.
Many girls do it now and it is completely normal. Some old guys have problems with it because they want everyone be however they like. But it will not be possible. Of course you will find the one 🙏🏻💕
I say if you don't know what you want, you may get what you don't want. There is always the chance that a couple's sexual relationship will turn out to be exactly what each other wants or needs, but it didn't for me. Being married to someone who is not interested or willing to be a dedicated partner did not work.
I'm introverted, so I understand completely how hard it is to have a few relationships before marriage, but to me it's like applying to be a pilot without a pilot's license. Knowing your own sexual libido and needs helps! Understanding how to please a guy when the perfect one walks in really helps! Trying to find a partner who has had sex before as opposed to someone who's never had sex—it helps!
Fucked around sounds very negative but it's good if women has some fun and experience before she settles down, the same goes for men!
Yeah, i mean not ‘’excessive amount’’ yeah i agreeX
Would be shame for any person to have had only sex with one person his whole life!
Yeah of course it is
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't agree. I've only been with my husband and I'm pretty happy with that choice. Don't feel the need to slut around with anyone besides him
I never cared to wonder out for other men, so no. I can be completely happy only having had one good man my whole life, not everyone wants to try different people and it's not even a conservative thing only as you say... some people are just not into it.
I meant that I haven't cared to wonder out for many* men
No, there was a man here who insulted people i just deleted his comment and wrote about him. Of course everyone can have their own opinion.
That's what I would have expected. Experience brings wisdom. Did you know the older boomers (born in the 1940's) had more sex in their 20's than any generation since?
No How they can
Yeah I'd be weary of women want to get married had a young age. If she's 14 and wants to marry you then she's going to cheat on you and she's 16. Damn you start raising someone else's kid.
The opposite is true. A long guest list diminishes a girl's capacity to love, commit and nurture.
I do not read magazine books…. Living it then Speaking about it is better
That's unfortunate, you can learn a lot form others' experiences.
I wasn't aware that was a thing people said.
I think it's the same for both genders
Yeah, some men just want to do whatever they want but they think the girl should not do it is not correct everyone should explore themselves
No, studies have shown that promiscuous people have higher divorce rates if I recall correctly.
Disagree
nope
Actually, the opposite is true. The more sexual partners a woman has in her lifetime, the less likely she will have a happy and lasting long-term relationship or marriage.
Woww men are very happy when they have one partner
Both men and women tend to be happier in marriage if they have fewer partners.
But people say that when you have one sexual partner in your whole life you will wonder outside.
A lot of men and women value someone with a lower body count because it means they value a relationship more than just sleeping around. If it makes you happy, then do it, but it might hurt your chances of finding a good guy later in life.
I think ‘’low’’ and ‘’high’’ differs from people
Yes, women with a high body count should get together with guys that have a high body count, equal numbers.
I totally agree with you. Men who have high body count have no right to criticize women with high body count. Apart from that everyone can be together whoever they want.
some are happy some are not
No I do not
No guy wants some used up cum dumpster.
If that is man is not like that of course He can be someone like He is
Goes for both. I wouldn't touch either. Sluts are disgusting no matter male or female.
I respect what you think
That's completely false. I was married to an Asian woman who had sex with 6 guys before me.
We moved in together at 21. She took my virginity and I was completely loyal and obsessed with her after that.
She ended up being a slut in the long-run because she had a craving for casual sex.
But maybe it is about her character? Not about what she did. I mean she could be virgin when she was married but she would cheat too. It differs.
I don't know, everybody tells me that you can't turn a hoe into a housewife. I loved her a lot and I tried to give her everything, but in the end she just wanted to be single and have fuck buddies. It broke my heart, but she is who she is.
I feel sorry about that. You deserve better i think. What she lived before does not make someone bad (if they do not hurt anyone of course) but when we are in relationship we must be loyal. I hope you can find someone who makes you happy.
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