Who is safer? An escort/sex worker, or a girl you meet online or somewhere and hookup?

[ManOnFire]

Who do you personally think is a safer/better choice? I don't really agree with sex work, but at the same time hooking up with a random girl especially if you met her online can be a little creepy since you really don't know who you're about to meet, or if it's a girl you're about to hook up with one night at a bar or someplace. Hard to weigh the scales on this one. What do you guys think?

[ZackBan]

Personally I enjoy the chase the flirt the convincing that leads to a hookup, it feels earned as opposed to paid for.

As for safety it stands to reason that escorts are way more exposed to men with all kinds of diseases on the regular so that is not the safest option.

A loose girl might also be getting plenty but the media tends to exaggerat the numbers.

Some people will say "a girl is getting railed every night and switching partners every 3 days" I say the number of girls doing that is far less than 1%.
Sure women have easier access to sex there's no denying that but they have fewer choices in the quality department as they get swarmed with desperate guys looking for a pump and have to navigate through them to pick the few decent high value men worth sleeping with so it's a balanced deal.

And men pretend they don't get women but the fact is even men turn down many super ugly women, it's fair but it also reduces the choices.

[ManOnFire]

True points.

[Diodoro]

Depends on the girl and depends on the escort service I guess. I'm sure there are more reputable escort services than others and that they're not all the same.

Whichever one's on the low-end I would consider those girls to be more risky, while the more high-end Services I would consider safer. Not just from an STD standpoint but character of the individual.

Even if you just go to a strip club you'll see the difference across different strippers. Some strippers are low-quality girls that would drug you and take your money, or just try to steal money out of your pocket on top of stripping.

While other strippers have a bit more class. They'll rub their ass on you good and proper for that dollar dollar bill.

[Diodoro]

To me as a general rule if a girl isn't too much of a hoodrat, or giving off signs of not being all there in the head more or less She is safe. And even though I might approach a girl but I'm attracted to for the purpose of having sex at the end, I'm still sorting for whether or not I'm actually going to go through with it

[ManOnFire]

I'm the same, yeah.

[Daniela1982]

You never know, you may run into a serial killer either way. It will be a roll of the dice.
Born: Aileen Carol Pittman, aka: Eileen Wournos

Classification: Serial killer
Characteristics: "I've hated humans for a long time"
Number of victims: 7 +
Date of murders: 1989 - 1990
Date of arrest: January 1, 1991
Date of birth: February 29, 1956
Victims profile: Richard Mallory, 51 / Dick Humphreys, 56 / Troy Burress, 50 / David Spears, 43 / Walter Gino Antonio, 62 / Peter Siems, 65 / Charles Carskaddon, 40
Method of murder: Shooting (.22-caliber pistol)
Location: Florida, USA
Status: Executed by lethal injection in Florida on October 9, 2002

[Jackpot7s]

Ok but give me an example of an actual hot hooker that was a serial killer. Eileen looked like shit.

[Daniela1982]

@Jackpot7s Yeah, but look at the ages of the men. They weren't complaining.

[Guardian45]

Serial killers come in all shapes, sizes, sexes, professions, or unemployed. Escort or Tinder.

[Daniela1982]

@Guardian45 Joke: A hitch hiker gets picked up by a man driving by. He thanks the man for picking him up. "You never know for all you know you could be picking up a serial killer." "Nonsense!" the driver replies, "What are the odds of 2 serial killers being in the same car?"

[Guardian45]

You're a clown, aren't you?😳🤣🤪👍

[Daniela1982]

@Guardian45 The best!

[purplepoppy]

Any decent sex worker will take her sexual health seriously and will insist on condoms, she will also regularly test for stds.

[ManOnFire]

Same thought, yeah.

[DaveJord]

Well I would use a condom with either... so they both would be the same. I only go bare back in committed relationships not one night stands or with randoms.

So I would need a C option of the same or neither to vote.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Many STDs don't show up right away, so even daily checks won't show some for a bit.

I'd say random person online likely has far less partners, sex workers could easily be 500-1000, depending how long they've done it.

If you really want to talk about safer though, as a woman it is super scary to meet a guy for the first time, so many get kidnapped, killed or raped without consent.

Sure we are meeting a guy in person to decide if we really want to do the next step, some times that guy thinks he is getting it no matter what. Hasn't happened to me personally, but I always would meet people in a very public place and go from there.

Like this poor girl, glad she was found alive... go to meet a guy and gets kidnapped. My worst fear about meeting someone online.

https://news.yahoo.com/missing-19-old-college-student-123420572.html

[CasaNorba]

he did not mentioned STDs/STIs once in his post, I'm pretty sure he is talking about who is safer when it comes to trust. if anything you're less likely to get STDs/STIs from escort/sex worker because after all logically speaking its their job so they obviously know how to stay safe, unless you're talking about one of those street prostitutes in the hood. also I dont know if you heard about the STD/STI spike we had in the 2010s thanks to Tinder. "If you really want to talk about safer though, as a woman it is super scary to meet a guy for the first time, so many get kidnapped, killed or raped without consent." no shit! these same thing happen to men too. along with being falsely framed as sex offenders and having that creepy girl they just met going unhinged and following him everywhere he goes to make his life a living nightmare

[ManOnFire]

@CasaNorba Yes, trust is mostly what I meant.

[Daniela1982]

Trust has to be earned. How do you trust someone you know nothing about?

[Aerissa_Jade]

@CasaNorba Okay, I misunderstood the question being in regards to trust. My apologizes.

[DizzyDesii]

The random online person who has unlikely slept with as many people as the escort. Plus you can have the random online person just go get tested

[CasaNorba]

its the other way around. not sure if you heard about that STD/STI spike we had during the 2010s thanks to Tinder. sex workers in the other hand protect themselves far more often. think about it its their job so they obviously know what they're doing

[DizzyDesii]

@CasaNorba but i still find them dirty overall for hooking up with people daily, hourly. At least the random online likely didn't screw half the world

[CasaNorba]

"i still find them dirty overall for hooking up with people daily, hourly." obviously, its their job. "At least the random online likely didn't screw half the world" dude what planet do you live in? random women nowadays will screw any loser in site just for a free drink at a bar/venue

[DizzyDesii]

@CasaNorba maybe gold diggers. But i dont go to bars nor do i hang around women who only want men for money NOR do i care to be around men who are desperate enough to sleep with gold digging women

[CasaNorba]

if you really aren't a gold digger than that is good. unfortunately 90% of the women in today's world do not share your mindset. they really dont care how dirty they get just as long as they get what they want the free and easy way

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Nah, I'd rather not initiate a relationship with a girl that destroyed her morals and shredded her dignity to the point that she decides to make a quick buck by selling her body.

[ManOnFire]

True.

[hafinjun]

How's the weather up there

[Wraith_Cemetery]

@hafinjun Cozy

[hafinjun]

Lol touché

[ChrisMaster69]

You wear a condom and take sensible precautions then both are okay.

[ManOnFire]

Also true.

[ChrisMaster69]

Tbh there is more risk of being robbed etc than catching something One of the latest is using the persons mobile to transfer funds, etc

[ManOnFire]

Yep, that's what scares me about sex workers.

[ChrisMaster69]

I would be more concerned with a random hook up, your average sex worker has an area, you have their contact details, they will be fairly easy to trace. A random hookup could be anyone

[ManOnFire]

True. And more than once I was spooked about some girl I was talking to online who wanted to hookup but I just was not feeling good about her.

[lilyanony1]

I really don't know it's a risk either way. I'd probably trust the random hook up whereas when you pay for a service you may not want or even be a paper trail...
I dunno its risky if someone's a rapist, murderer, thief it really doesn't matter what the situation is they'll do it regardless of the situation. It's about the opportunity...

[jshm2]

An escort isn't necessarily a sex worker. Sure, most moonlight as one, but not all engage in sexual activity - let alone prostitution. Most need to have test certs to keep their careers alive.

Also, age and class demographics are a large factor. Young naïve girls and those from poorer backgrounds are less likely to get themselves tested for STi's and STDs

[Miristheiss]

Girlfriends or wife.

Screw the other gross and horrific options

[aussieguy19]

It all depends on protection and frequent health checks. It could be a risk with either...

[AviatorTom]

With out making any value judgment about either...

An escort/sex worker takes precautions... it's her job and she cannot afford anything that might affect it (ex: an infection, STD, pregnancy).

A hookup is out to have fun, and if something happens (ex: an infection, STD, pregnancy), she'll try to deal with it.

[ManOnFire]

Was thinking the same, yeah.

[t-8900]

I wouldn't know as I've done neither. Well not sure what you mean. As in meeting up through Tinder? Yeah I dont trust that either. I date people after we've been acquainted and I see what they are about. You really need to vet people these days. I dont trust strangers one bit.

[ManOnFire]

Exactly.

[mstbooblover]

Difficult to answer that question, professionals tend to propose a condom and safe sex, while random hookups may be of any kind. Professionals on the other hand have far more clients... Both options involve risks anyway, and so, it's a matter of choice to take the risk or not.

[Razp_Sorbet]

If prostitution is legal where you live then that would be safer.

[hafinjun]

And you probably have a better selection

[CasaNorba]

bro is this even a question? obviously an escort/sex worker!

not only will an escort be straightforward but once you pay her she will obviously leave and keep yours and her identity anonymous and will never try to go back inside your life unless you want her service again.

I dont know where to start with a hookup bimbo. must we not forget that hookup bimbos the majority of them dont even know what hookup actually is. they think one night of sex is a precursor to a relationship and use this mentality to hound and plague you forever after you are through fucking them and then want to accuse you of using them afterwards and then try to get the authorities involves to frame you as a sex offender.

just for a start.

[CasaNorba]

@ManOnFire I can no longer comment on that opinion where we spoke on trust because the OP decided to block me, I guess my comment was worst than a kick to the vagina for her. but I just wanted to say indeed brody, that is one thing that's extremely vulnerable during hookups @Daniela1982 a woman who respects my boundaries, keeps up with her words and leaves out of my life once we are through having has done more than enough to earn my trust; well at least in this department of life

[ManOnFire]

"after you are through fucking them and then want to accuse you of using them afterwards and then try to get the authorities involves to frame you as a sex offender." - Yep, that is the scary part.

[JennaxxD]

I guess that it would have to depend on the person

[Raidernation01]

Escorts are easier, you don't have to make them laugh, pay for their food, anything like that. He can just be straight up from the jump. If you want to pick her up and start talking about sex immediately You can do that with an escort. I have paid for an escort several times, but I'm not really interested in sex with them, I just want them to basically spread their butt while I have masturbate. Dating a regular girl you may never be able to get her to open her butt so you can masturbate.

[CasaNorba]

hey we finally agree on something

[hi_it_is_me123]

Tbh i am not sorry if manwhores get stds. Just have sex with your wife or girlfriend in a committed relationship.

[Guardian45]

Nice if you can get it. Escorts exist for a reason!

[Jackpot7s]

Go with the random girl from online because you don't know for sure that these escorts are even tested plus if they do it for money they probably have done some really nasty stuff.

[genericname85]

statitically, the girl you met online. given that you use the same caution.

[Vegasrunner]

Easily a girl you meet online. For 1 it's a lot easier to control the initial meetup w/ a girl online vs a escort. My initial online meetups are always at a public coffee house, no matter what city I'm in.

[ManOnFire]

True point there.