Why can't I orgasm?

[Anonymous]

I'm so horny all the time and I masturbate a lot but I hardly ever orgasm. I still find it enjoyable tho

No I will not dm you. Just a genuine question bc I'm sexually frustrated

[Dargil]

The locus of orgasm is your clitoris. Even your G-spot contains branches of it. You might want to look at a change in technique.
Pervy TMI ahead. This is part of my fingering technique.
Insert your first two fingers into your vagina. Clipped nails, please. Let your fingers follow their natural curve above the cervix and lay the tips on the back side of your pubic bone. Thats where your G-spot is. A little hunting and you will find it.
At the same time, slide your thumb up between your lips until it lays on your clitoris.
Play on your clit and G-Spot together with a little action of closing your hand rhymically should get you where you want to go. I have had very good results.

[mark000h]

You should, if you already haven't, try different things. Most girls orgasm from clitoral stimulation, some need insertion. Buy a vibrator, they work best for girls and your hand won't get as tired. Also, try arousing your body in different places like your breasts and neck.

[laurieluvsit]

Connect with a female sex therapist.

Without asking a lot of questions, it would be hard to determine if it is a physical issue or a psychological one.

Good luck!

[kyleelyn199723]

I typically don’t organs from masturbating either. It’s not because I don’t know what gets me, but because it’s just not really enjoyable to me

[dustybiker]

Relax. The key is to relax.

[PositiveNote]

You may want to consider checking nutrition. Most these things fade because of diet.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Maybe you are masturbating too fast and in the hurry to get it over with
take your time explore yourself, go slow while you masturbate then
go faster when you masturbate, try using some lube that feels good

[Sophia001]

Watch porn
Usually I do

[seanscoopers]

Oh really😲😲😲

[Sophia001]

@seanscoopers Yeah Why

[seanscoopers]

Just asking

[Sophia001]

@seanscoopers good

[Iron_Man]

It’s all in your head lay underneath the water faucet in the tub

[Wise4myage]

Are you relaxed enough and taking your time?

[Asker]

I usually don't really take my time bc I imagine how it looks from another person's pov and it just gets awkward

[Wise4myage]

I suggest you try blocking out all that pov stuff and focus on relaxing. That is what is making you feel awkward and its a distraction.

[In_Trance]

Do you mean alone or with a partner or both?

[Asker]

Alone. I'm a virgin

[In_Trance]

Are there people around when you do it? Are you afraid of being seen or heard?

[Asker]

Yeah I live with my family

[In_Trance]

Is that part of the problem?

[seanscoopers]

Enjoy it till the climax
You have to be relax and slow
Maybe that helps you❤❤❤

[Mcluven]

Try dirtier fantasies. Something taboo.

[RosieRides]

I had this issue for a long time. I solved it when I bought a womanizer toy. It made me cum so much that I learned how to get myself off in other ways.

[Jackpot7s]

Wow you're bad lol.

[Anonymous]

Try solo sex therapy. It involves some exercises and getting comfortable with your body. If you want to know more I can help. Mostly it is related to hormones and muscles.