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Would/Do you struggle if not sexually active for a while or is it quite easy to distract yourself?

DizzyDesii
Like does it hurt to go some days, weeks, months, years without sex or are you quite content? Do you stay distracted by partaking in other sexual activities like oral, sexting, masturbation, etc? Or do you just focus on work/school/hobbies and manage quite well? Or are you saving yourself for marriage?

—MY ANSWER—
If i have sex outside of marriage, i end up feeling religious guilt and struggle to stay sexually active. So what helps me get by instead is occasionally having my tits sucked or getting fingered or having phone sex. I honestly need to be mentally and aurally (not orally) stimulated as well as emotionally attached rather than physically. I dont even like to masturbate myself. So the struggle isn't too real to withhold from sex as long as i partake in the mental stimulation.

I work like 7-6p most of the time and then i watch shows 7-10p daily, so thats also a good distraction. I don't know the sex itself doesn't cross my mind as much. I do love to joke dirtily and discuss sexual things but I think my sex drive is quite low UNLESS im legit having sex. When i start, i struggle to stop. And i hate that feeling. I hate feeling addicted outside of being married. Once im married, then of course I won't mind doing him all day, every day.
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Would/Do you struggle if not sexually active for a while or is it quite easy to distract yourself?
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