Was it an ONS (one night stand)?

[Anonymous]

I made out with a guy I met at the club and he took me to a hotel and we got a room. In the room we made out again, he undressed my shirt and bra, sucked my boobs and was rubbing his gentials on mine (with clothes!!!). He obviously wanted to have sex with me but I did not, he tried to finger me, I didn't let it happen and we did not have any type of sex (like anal sex, vaginal or oral sex).
Did I still have an ONS? If not, what would you call it?
Also, I am actually a virgin but wouldn't it be hypocrite if I called myself that since I did so much sexually things (the making out and him sucking my boys) with a guy?

[SnakeBoop]

very quick question, you call your boobs boys?
normally one night stand does equal sex. and you basically did everything but the penetration of a penis so you may as well just say one night stand and then can elaborate whenever you need to/if you need to

[Asker]

Lol typo... I would not say we did everything yeah we made out and he sucked my boobs but I didn't give him a bj or he didn't go down on me... other people have only oral sex but still claim they are a virgim

[Asker]

virgin*

[MarkyMark77]

@asker have u ever given a bj before to any guy?

[Asker]

@MarkyMark77 no I have not...

[purplepoppy]

No it means your an idiot who leads guys on. Your very lucky you didn't get raped.

[Asker]

I know but my intention wasn't actually to lead him on. I was with my friends at the club and he was with his and we all went to the hotel together. Me being that naive I really thought my friend (girl) and me would stay in one room without the guys!!! and believe me I had a very bad gut feeling but I just ignored it. I was thinking about just going home and then the guy I made out offered me to drive me home but I didn't want him to know where I live and I was kind of scared being in a car with him. Also i did not want to leave my friends alone, even thats what I should have definetely done: leave and go!!! I was 19 back then (happened about a year ago) and I was very naive. I did not even think it would go that far as we went. You are right, I am very lucky to not get raped, but just so you know there's a bigger picture to that story...

[Asker]

And by the way I might not have been raped, but I still feel like raped since I was not in control of my body and he was rubbing his gentials on mine and I tried to make him stop but not a single thing could come out of my mouth... I am still very traumatized!!! and just so you know rape is much more than just being forced to have sex, being unable to say no is rape or being too scared to say no...

[bowenw]

I wouldn't consider it a ONS unless you had intercourse.

[priyakigaandme]

It was