Should a horny man get castrated if his wife no longer desires sex?

[Charliefretz329]

To keep him from straying?

[dustybiker]

A healthier environment is needed. I would personally leave, my friend. You can reach a point of being so unhappy you get sick. Nothing is worth that. Kids need both their parents strong and happy. ((Warm hugs))

[Charliefretz329]

Ugh 😑 yeah… thank you! 🤗

[cookiecrusher]

It's your wifes duty to please you sexually as is yours to her.

A monogamy comes with responsibilities that both should follow. For some reason we see it very often, women not wanting to please their men sexually, while still wanting a healthy monogamous relationship/marriage. That's just BS.

Would tell you to end it, that woman doesn't care for your totally valid needs. And any woman who is in the same boat with her guy should do the same.

[hafinjun]

Do you really want to make love to someone who's just going through the motions

[G5TWA1]

@hafinjun some people pay for that sort of experience

[cookiecrusher]

At that point the relationship is over. Sexual desire should be there for both. Or the very least, desire to make your partner happy

[Charliefretz329]

Truth

[lucas262]

I'd say you need to invest in her and she should in you. Neither partner should be left hanging sexually. She fucking up there but if your thinking of cheating that's you fucking up.

Both should work on their sex life

Your a husband you have needs and expectations she's a wife she does too.

[Charliefretz329]

I don’t want to cheat. But I’m a man with a sex drive. I bust my ass to give her the things she wants. She should at least appreciate me enough to want to give sex. Begrudgingly allowing sex is shit too. Wanking is better than that!

[Jazziqueen98]

When married people marry each other they give each other dominion over their bodies. So if the woman doesn't desire sex anymore she better get to slobbin and bobbin. If her husband is having desires and she is not fulfilling them then she is not fulfilling her role as a wife. It goes both ways! It is far more likely the man will lose desire at a certain age and to suggest that we mutilate women because of it would be very offensive.

[Charliefretz329]

Good answer

[ilovesunnydays]

Slobbin and bobbin, you're just amazing lady.

[TruthBringer]

Finally a woman with common sense. @CasaNorba Come see this. @subarugirl Take lessons.

[CasaNorba]

wow you are not originally from America are you?

[DaveJord]

This literally is the dumbest question I have seen asked.

[Little_Bumblebee]

If there's a partner that has lost the desire for sex, then it's worth working through. Talk about what the issue might be and eventually get help from a professional.
Often there's a deeper issue that causes it.

[whirled_up_girl]

No that’s terrible, have you two considered seeing a marriage counselor or sex therapist or both?

[TrueConfection]

Nope. That won't stop the desire nor the need for intimacy.

[Charliefretz329]

😔 ugh

[Charliefretz329]

That’s probably so correct

[jahaims]

Yes it would. Your testicles produce your sex hormones. If you have no sex hormones you have no sex drive.

[Charliefretz329]

Sex drive should be gone but desire for intimacy probably not 😩

[jahaims]

Your drive for sexual intimacy would be gone. Your sex hormones are what makes you crave intimacy.

[Charliefretz329]

Or is it the 🧠 brain?

[Charliefretz329]

Maybe a lobotomy and a castration is what is needed… 😑

[jahaims]

Your hormones affect brain function. Your brain is just a chemical interpreter.

[Charliefretz329]

I hope so

[Lionman95]

@jahaims Probably it will also take away in the interest in his wife.

[jahaims]

So will no sex

[ohshee]

So what you're saying is if I don't want to drive my car no more I should just drive it off of a cliff makes sense to me hell no, dude come on better questions

[Apple1996]

No definitely not

[Lionman95]

No because that would also make you lose interest in your wife. It would probably your interest in any female.

[Charliefretz329]

Sounds like a solution and not a problem then

[Lionman95]

if you want to lose all motivation to spend time with your wife and probably all motivation to do anything at all.

[Charliefretz329]

If it involves women in general, yes! I need less drama

[TruthBringer]

Castrated? For who? A trash woman who doesn't live up to her vows & responsibilities of being a wife? So on one hand, she decides to get married to a man with a high libido, but then refuses to give him the sex which marriage (for a big part) was intended for, in the first place? Over my dead body. Just get a divorce and let him find someone who does have some integrity, or she shouldn't complain when he finds someone else who fulfils his desires.

What I find funny is that imagine if the horny man ends up cheating, he will be demonized. But just reverse the roles and it still will be the man's fault because "he didn't satisfy me" or "he didn't do the things he used to do" or "he wasn't making me happy" etc. Love the hypocrisy and double standards.

[slatyb]

No, he should get divorced.

[MelonSoda]

Yes, they should

[Charliefretz329]

The man should get castrated? Can you explain why?

[MelonSoda]

I was joking smh

[AviatorTom]

He can always twiddle his carrot.

[FunkyMonkee]

That's kinda stupid!
What he SHOULD do is just find another girl!

[CasaNorba]

dont women desire sex as much as men do? and isn't sex a main element in marriage?

[TruthBringer]

If he ends up cheating, he will be demonized because he "needs to control hiimseld (SO @subarugirl". LMFAO) If the roles were reversed, he would still be demonized because "he didn't keep her happy & satisfied". Love the double standards.

[Subarugirl]

Well if sex is the foundation of your marriage then it’s doomed anyways. NO ONE is obligated to have sex with someone if they don’t want to have sex. If someone forces you to have sex when you don’t want to that’s called rape.

[TruthBringer]

@Subarugirl Keep deliberately missing the point, love. Just pulling red herrings left and right. Obviously what you're good at.

[Subarugirl]

@TruthBringer not not really it applies to the topic, when your married you figure your shit out, fix the issues, your you get divorced and go separate ways. Even if you’re married, that doesn’t mean you are entitled to your spouses body. They get to say no if they want to, that still isn’t an excuse to start lying and cheating

[TruthBringer]

@Subarugirl Again, clearly going right over your head.

[CasaNorba]

@Subarugirl I guess you are narcissist after all. you expect others to CONTROL themselves while you pretend that you are absolved from things that require control, discipline, and integrity as well and I appreciate that you know decided to say this under my opinion where you're not allowed to delete any comment or call losers that I've blocked for help

[CasaNorba]

also @Subarugirl I never said sex is the foundation of my or anybody else's marriage. all I said was that sex is an important element in marriage, doesn't matter if you do it daily or not. not everybody is an asexual narcissist like you

[CasaNorba]

@TruthBringer you think the roles will ever be reversed when one of the parties is not just a feminists but an asexual narcissist who thinks only men benefit off the sex part of the marriage

[TruthBringer]

@CasaNorba As I said to her, its obvious what we said went straight over her head. She simply sees everything from a "misogynistic" lens. At one hand we are told that women enjoy sex just as much as men, but whenever a context requires a woman to uphold her responsibility, it is the man who has "control himself" because "she isn't obligated to have sex with him". Asif any of us said she was. But did you expect anything better from feminazi ideology? One who is part of the woketard cult? These people see everything black and white afterall And @subarugirl No, a wife isn't obligated to have sex with her husband. But don't sit here acting like you didn't say your vows or sign a marriage contract not knowing you're responsible to satisfy your husband sexually. Sex is not the core of marriage, but it IS a HUGE part of it. Without it, marriages are usually doomed. And I don't necessarily mean YOU specifically, but rather women/wives in general.

[CasaNorba]

@TruthBringer indeed! welcome to the west as I'm pretty sure she's American. since a lot of women here actually have that same mentality. not sure if I should find this sad or not but where I'm originally from its pretty common to hear women confess that they are thankful for the existence of viagra

[kumaradit]

Hahaha stupid question

[Subarugirl]

He should excersize some fucking self control and act like the man he claims to be

[CasaNorba]

oh so now a man has to be asexual now in order to validate himself as man, good one!

[Subarugirl]

@CasaNorba No he needs to exercise some self control, honesty, integrity, and accountability in order to validate himself as a man, not with where he puts his penis. If you vowed to be faithful to your wife , to love and respect her, then that is what you should do. If your sexual needs are not being met that is not valid excuse for infidelity. Abandonment of affection is how ever grounds for divorce. If he wants to sleep with someone else than he should man the fuck up, communicate, exercise some self control, honesty, integrity, and accountability

[CasaNorba]

really and why is a woman preaching about what validates a man as a man?

https://imgur.com/AmExP5v

till then no. and trust me infidelity is the rarely one of the reasons why marriage end in divorce nowadays; we are not in the 1950s. today more than 70% of the divorces are actually initiated by women themselves and infidelity is rarely the reason.

[Subarugirl]

@CasaNorba honey, because those are the traits are important for everyone to have. Am I wrong? way to brush past the issue and change the topic though

[Subarugirl]

@CasaNorba how is telling someone to exercise self control, honesty, integrity, and accountability guilt tripping or shaming?

[CasaNorba]

I dont know, am I wrong for saying "real women are only good at cooking and cleaning?" and yeah I brush past the topic because your topic is terribly misinformed

[CasaNorba]

"how is telling someone to exercise self control, honesty, integrity, and accountability guilt tripping or shaming?" cause everyone has their own definition of those things. lets not forget that expecting to have all those things at one can contribute to narcissism

[Subarugirl]

@CasaNorba because cooking and cleaning are skills, not part of a person’s character. How on earth does accountability, honesty and integrity contribute to narcissism? Why are you making it sound like having those character traits is a bad thing? All I am saying is that real men, have integrity and don’t cheat on their wives. What do you think @chrismaster69

[TruthBringer]

So a horny man who is married should just cope with absense of sex and according to you "be a real man" and excersize self-control. Jesus, and you wonder why so many marriages end up destroyed. Or when the man starts getting his piece from someone else because his damn wife who vowed to be with him decides to not giving it to him, but still likes to take advantage of the benefits being of married to him. So on one hand the man has to "act like the man", but you don't dare to question why she no longer desires to have sex with him at the very least. I can also say she should act like a REAL woman and start giving her HUSBAND that which marriage was intended for, in the first place. @CasaNorba As usual, flawed feminist mindset and double standards. You should "man up", provide and basically live up to your responsibilities as a husbamd, but don't you dare expect the same from the wife. "Equality" at its finest.

[Subarugirl]

@TruthBringer he needs to either work things out in his marriage or get divorced, infidelity isn’t a valid option.

[TruthBringer]

@subarugirl They both need to. Cheating is never an option. However, that's not the premise of this quetion. You keep saying he, but it is she that apparently denies him sex directly or indirectly. So they both have to work on the marriage or get a divorce. But it's clear you're shoving blame to the man's side.

[mattissebfan5]

What no sex is important and if a wife dosen't give sex they should agree on a arrangement such as being able to have sex with a prostitute or something as long as the wife agrees and if man too vice versa

[Charliefretz329]

I agree

[Seangreen]

No that's insane but he better start collecting pornography or find a hooker

[Luopio27]

No. Castration is permanent. If your marriage ends in a divorce and you find a new partner, you wouldn't be able to do anything that feels good for both of you in the bed.

[Charliefretz329]

True, 100%

[joeldalton]

I think a side bitch is a better option.

[Charliefretz329]

Jump from the frying pan into the fire?

[jahaims]

Marriage is a commitment. Sex is an important part of marriage otherwise you are just roommates. Reframing from sex is a breach of commitment.

[Charliefretz329]

But she’s just too tired and sore to ever do it… fella I agree 100%! Emotional and physical neglect fucking sting

[MelonSoda]

Men are selfish pigs smh

[jahaims]

Bet you will get far in life with that outlook.

[TruthBringer]

@MelonSoda Says the person who is part of the sex notorious for having an unrealistic laundry list of requirements of what men should be and what men should have. And yet we're the "selfish pigs". Gotta love the irony. Women like you make me appreciate my girlfriend more and more.

[MelonSoda]

@TruthBringer I mean, I was just joking, but okay. 😂