Is his reaction normal?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing a guy for few weeks and it was going really well. Last time I saw him we had the best time but we also drank a lot and without proper pacing and he was insisting I keep up with him. He was saying really nice things how he is comfortable with me and I’m the best sex he’s had he wanted to spend the night. So all was great!

Until during sex my intoxication level became higher and without realizing at all I threw up around him he was laying on bed and I was on top so got some on him he acted fine but wanted to keep going but probably we should’ve stopped a bit because unfortunately it happened a second time. That’s when he snapped and decided to leave I was so drunk I tried to convince him to stay not sure if what I said helped or made it worse but I was v embarrassed and feeling bad as this never happened to me. The next morning I sent messages apologizing and asking if I could make up for it. And his response was that he blocked me without saying anything! I tried to reach out again explaining my position and trying to apologize more but he blocked again.

I know what I did was bad and traumatizing but is his reaction normal? Is there anything I could’ve done?

[Seangreen]

I probably would have got pissed off too depending half the time I'm a fucking raging asshole but for him to just block you for that he probably wasn't That Into You and was probably just wanted to get laid and then since that got ruined he figured what's the point not that that's right of him but if I really like a girl and she puked on me and I'd be pissed but I wouldn't block them and stop talking to them

[Asker]

He was also drunk but not intoxicated. I understand it’s a turn off but wasn’t expecting the block didn’t know it was that traumatizing for someone yo take it personally it was def an accident no girl would want a guy to see her like that!

[Seangreen]

I'm with you I think he's a jerk for blocking you just for that especially if it was cuz of alcohol I'm sorry that that happened to you. Just move on the best you can and realize he obviously isn't worth your time

[Avicenna]

It was somewhat unfair. You should have stopped drinking much earlier.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know very weird

[Asker]

What’s the weird part?

[Iron_Man]

The whole complete story

[Asker]

This is really what happened I didn’t miss or change any detail. I’m shocked that I dir that with someone I liked and it never happened to me before I don’t even get sick usually. Also can’t work out his reaction. So I know what’s normal or what’s not and who is more on the wrong here. What would you have done?

[Asker]

*don’t know what’s normal…

[Iron_Man]

Just try not getting drunk the next time you have sex

[Asker]

I’ve had drunk sex before but this never happened to me and def won’t again. Just trying to understand if this is usually a big red flag for guys that’s worthy of a block,

[In_Trance]

why did you ask this twice?

[Asker]

I couldn’t access my account for some reason so had to do it again sorry. Why do you think it’s not an accident? It was def I was completely intoxicated I had no control over myself why would I want him to see that I liked the guy.