One of my friends of benefits of 6 years sent me this today what does it mean?

[bbylovess]

SB: We are always on and off and always cutting each other off then crawling back to each other

[FlutteringFeelings]

I mean he called it.. he doesn’t take your cut offs seriously because to him you say it in the heat of the moment and you take him back no matter how many times he’s done you dirty. Think about it, friends with benefits for 6 years? You cut him off and keep crawling back to him but I don’t necessarily think he’s crawling back to you. If you decided to cut him off it wouldn’t make him lose sleep at night because he will find new cat 🐱. While you guys are on he’s getting his nut then when you decide you don’t want to deal with him he’s continuing to entertain the other females in his phone.


He had his fun with you and the ultimatums you give him is unrealistic because he knows you’ll be back sleeping with him. He’s basically saying that you’re wrapped under his spell and whether you tried to move on years from now you would be back texting him if he texted you for sex only or if you fell weak and texted him. He has you wrapped around his finger.

[acooke-13]

I'd assume you've tried to end things with him before and gone back to him? He's being cocky because of that (if that's the reason) you could just stop seeing him.

[virtue2332]

He obviously thinks his dick is enough to hold you. That maybe you are too weak and shallow enough to pass up something more genuine and real for his magic dick. Lol I can save you the guess work. There are guys out there and most certainly girls out there that are way better at providing you pleasure than he is capable of. I say this because what he texted you was out of fear and insecurity. He wanted you to validate his sexual abilities. And man that is putting down that good wouldn't need verbal validation. The proof would be soaked in his sheets. Enjoy what you have I guess just you don't have to settle for ok or good when there is soo much more than that when it comes to relationships. 6 years of practice and figuring out what you like and he still needs validation? CMON

[djmzes]

Simple

It means that your bwf is a shit and you have chosen a shit.

[DaveJord]

You seriously don't know what this means?

It means he thinks your so attracted to him physically, and especially to his dick... that you will never want to stop coming back around for the sex.

I mean it pretty clear what he means... so I assume you're smarter than door nail.

[Chrysanthee]

His cocky asf omg 😭 anyways girl get that dick. But stay committed to a relationship if you were to get married. Don’t just think about yourself

[BeMuse]

Sounds like he comes from a long line of rapists.

[Heartache0405]

Seems to me like he’s telling you that you’re his bitch

[Dargil]

He's a sociopath.

[Hangry06]

It means you can't live without his dick

[chriscdi]

He feels like you are always gonna keep fucking him no matter what (I think)

[Raidernation01]

It means he thinks you belong to him without making a commitment. He's saying that if you get married that he will still be the number one penis that you please.

[TheBigGuy9]

The married part is fucked up. No respect for you or himself or God. Sounds like someone that is full of himself.

[bgreek]

Why are you on and off with this guy?
Even women need to learn to grow a spine
If you say something mean it
Or, a guy won't respect you

The best advice end it, and move on
I personal don't believe in on and off, on and off, on and off
Fuck that
I'd rather move on and find someone that respects me

[Juxtapose]

"One of" jfc lol.

[noohair]

He thinks he owns you and you are his bitch.

[cookiecrusher]

You guys should get married after 6 years, that's longer than a lot of people in regular marriages.

He just feels cocky around you, doen't know his feelings for you but might also might love to be in control of you etc.
Maybe show your new lovers bigger tool pic to him, to calm him down😅 As a joke you know.

[Nahid1707]

Are you married then?

[Paul09]

Well that's on you. He think he is a sex god around you. Seems like he still hasn't matured. Or that is his very bizzare sexting? Don't give him too much power

[PeterSmith1983]

How many friends with benefits do you have?

[Honestguyopen]

It means he feels you will keep coming g back to him for more no matter what

[TsAubreyKate]

I think you know what it’s means (you’re gonna come crawling back)

[jimmy2]

If you get married he expects to still screw you

[Anonymous]

It means you've both fallen into the trap of lust. You've spent 6 years wasting your feminine energy, youth, fertility, emotions, connection and soul and he has spent 6 years wasting his seed, soul, and masculine energy. You've both been seduced by societies lie. His comment is purely ego driven with lust as the foundation. Only God should be our foundation.