Is there a medical condition for not being able to have/feel pleasure or have an orgasm?

As a Woman, the only thing that seems to turn me on is giving myself a wegie or the shower hose on full blast.
I don't know why that is, but for some reason it is. I have tried everything from using my hands to the end of my brush 😂. Penetration, rubbing, etc.
And I don’t think it’s bc I’m a Virgin, since a bunch of plp have obviously masterbaited before having sex for their first time.
Not a lot of plp obviously (which isn’t a bad thing), but a lot of plp have.
So I’m not sure if I’m just too stupid to understand how my body works or if there’s something actually wrong with me. I have seen a Gynecologist, and they said my vagina was fine. But like they obviously can’t show me how to masterbaite bc eww and laws. Anywho, let me know what ur guys thoughts are.
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  • There are, but I wouldn't be jumping to that conclusion.
    There can be a quite bit of variance when it comes to masturbation and actually doing things with other people.
    Psychology plays a big role and then, of course, sometimes people just don't do things quite right.

    Especially when it comes to penetration.
    Every virgin girl thinks she has experienced "penetration" because she fumbled about a bit with a finger or a hairbrush, but in reality they have achieved little more than tickling their hymen.

    Girls are, understandably, scared to "lose virginity" or they think it doesn't feel quite right so they stop at the first sign of pain or discomfort, usually well before any proper penetration (and thus stimulation) happens.

    I've known girls who shared a similar sentiment, but then they had sex and realized they were actually the type that will start weeping within the first 2 minutes of someone having fingers inside them.
    So I wouldn't worry lol.

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  • I don't think there is anything wrong. You just have to understand how your lady parts work and what they need to get over the top. You might try this masturbation technique. When I have fingered a girl, I have had very successful results.
    The locus of orgasm is your clitoris. Even your G-spot contains branches of it.

    Clipped nails, please. Insert your first two fingers into your vagina, palm facing the mound. Let your fingers follow their natural curve above the cervix and lay the tips on the back side of your pubic bone. Thats where your G-spot is. A little hunting and you will find it. At the same time, slide your thumb up between your lips until it lays on your clitoris. Play on your clit and G-Spot together with a little action of closing your hand rhymically should get you where you want to go, massaging both your clit and g-spot at the same time. I have had very good "outcomes" doing this.

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  • This spring, I decided to get my clitoral hood pierced. I’m not really into piercings there, but the piercing is so pretty. After healing, I can’t believe how much more sensitive I am from my clit nerves down to my anus! It has made a huge difference for me for orgasms! Look into it. It cost me $200 Canadian and included a spray and the jewelry.
    Only go to a fully licensed piercer. It is so important.

  • Some women only orgasm from clitoral stimulation and not from vaginal penatration alone or the need some combination of penatration and nipple or clitoral stimulation.

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  • I am sure there is some medical term... but it would be a phycological condition not physical one.

  • Yes there is a condition in women called Anorgasmia, where it is very difficult or impossible to achieve orgasm, or requures extreme stimulation to achieve orgasm. There are also other reasons that could be responsible or play a part, such as psychological issues or medications.

    • Would taking aderal be responsible?

    • Yes i certainly could be responsible.

    • *it.

  • Hmmm... I would have thought your gynecologist might have some suggestions. Have you considered sex toys? A dildo or vibrator? I dated a woman who couldn't climax from intercourse and generally needed a vibrator to finish. Nothing wrong with that. It was the best sex ever.

  • Yes. It’s called anorgasmia. Is the question for a man or woman. Different genders have different reasons for it and different solutions.

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    • Sorry. I hadn’t read the full description before I commented. There is a small percentage of women who can never have an orgasm. But that percentage is very small and unlikely that you are one of them. Are you on any kind of anti depressant? Medication may have an effect on it. You should know that women’s orgasm happens a lot more in the brain than on her genitalia. And if you worry that you can’t have an orgasm, then the worry itself will make it harder to have one. My guess is that you are not fantasizing while masturbating. Do you have access to porn? Try watching or reading erotic materials while masturbating. Don’t worry so much about technique. Masturbation is not all that complicated. But you must relax. Otherwise, the more you stress out about it, the less the chances that you will have one.

  • First of all, leave all anxiety aside because anxiety about anything is the killer of happiness.
    Pleasure doesn't come to a mind full of worries.
    Relax yourself.
    Have good food.
    Go in the nature.
    Feel free.
    Sex in any form be it masturbation, penetration, fellatio, cunnilingus, anilingus... All are pleasurable to a relaxed mind.
    Feel the pleasure of being alive.
    Enjoy the fun of being touched, caressed, cuddled and just play with yourself as a fun... But no pressure.

    You'll get to know yourself better.

  • Yes there is. I don't recall what it's called.

  • Yeah. Google is your friend.

  • Most definitely. Your gynecologist can help you explore this further.

    • Thanks. Feel free to follow me

  • No some women just can’t orgasm you tried doing the shower head or or constantly giving yourself a wedging

  • Probably i feel the same

  • No honey you still have your Hymen

    • What’s that?

  • I got a lot videos for my best friends doing masturbate
    I can send u it just to show u how to masturbate safe!! (Not lose virgin)
    Can show u some tricks make u orgasm fast too..
    Lol just if you want to...
    I dont care if you or not tbh but i think i just can help

  • Bro you need to get better at trolling

    • Wdym

    • This is 100% a story made up by a horny virgin male.

    • As shocking and apparently Funny as it is, it’s actually been a prob of mine for awhile

  • Have you tried a solo sex therapeutic thing? You don't need a partner to have orgasms. You can dm me if you wanna talk about it

    • I don’t have a partner currently and have never tried with someone.

    • Dm me? I can tell you how it helps you to understand your body

    • Also I can’t dm u since ur anonymous lol

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  • Well, I know its mental.