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How do I handle my boyfriend who only likes sex really rough?

I do like rough sex but not every single time. I don't know what to do since he says that is only way he can cum so I don't know.
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  • Make sure you sit him down before sex and explain some ground rules.

    it’s all about Tea.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/oQbei5JGiT8

    You are the one in control, just remind him that just because you did it last 3 times, it’s not okay the 4th time.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Suggest you start slow and build up to what he's after maybe switch to wanking him off after you have got what you want from it then you can be aggressive and rough without him being rough on you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well, you have to see if you can find a way to compromise, if not this this relationship might not work in the long run.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Just ask him next session how rough does it have to be for him to enjoy it >.> and go from there. Communication makes life easier.

    • I told him already but he gets into it so I like to make him happy and him to cum

  • The only way he can cum? Bit of a red flag!

  • It sounds like you have told him and he doesn't care. Maybe find a more considerate boyfriend?

  • Watch rough sex porn while having gentle sex. The roughness is a fetish that can be satisfied by fantasizing much like how he would get off the same way masturbating.

  • I'm Not Sure !

  • Tell him no, establish some boundaries and come up with a solution.

    • What fuckwit downvoted this 🤦

    • @ChrisMaster69 That's a good question. Probably someone who wouldn't take no for an answer...…

  • Maybe tie him up or hand cuff him so you can control the pace but do it very seductive and sexy way and he will like it and want to do it more.

  • He doesn't -have- to cum every time.

    • Try telling him lol

  • If you are really needing help talk and make him understand u do not like it... if he doesn't get it either get habitual of pain or change ur guy.

    • Rest I may help u with tricks for easing it and lubricating urself to help ease for you.

  • What about what you want or need. If all he cares about is his orgasm, you might have a problem.

  • Find out why and coax him to step outside of the box. My girlfriend did.

  • Say you don't want it every time

  • Be honest and tell him

  • Dump him before you really get hurt

  • It's not good for you vagina.

  • You break up with him

    • Really? lol You put no thought into it. Move along old timer.

  • Run run away

  • Try smacking his ass

    • He love that

  • So sad
    U can't

    • I just do not want rough every time

    • Its hurts ur pussy and its wrong for u But he won't do soft

    • He tries and sometimes starts soft then he goes to rough so I want him to cum tho

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