Your question asked about guys not being able to make their gals cum. That would be a terrible blow. But then your explanation was that normally he can and it was just one time you were talking about. Completely different. Once in a while happens to most people who have long term relationships. No problem.
Yes and no, the short version is that it's really upsetting to a guy (maybe damaging to a guy's pride?) if he can't make her come. It just makes us feel like we aren't satisfying the woman and it makes us think in the end that we aren't good lovers/partners/etc and that sucks to think about.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!For many guys, not being able to make you orgasm makes them question their ability as a lover.
No, all that matters is that I have my fun.
Most of us guys care about it. It sounds like he was in sort of an insecure mood when he kept asking you if you were OK. And if you had a massive orgasm the night before, that is awesome!
For me, it's always a slight feeling of inadequacy. Like I should have got the job done. Then I put my ego aside and communicate with her to see if she needs something else etc
Sure. It's about pleasing your girl. Sounds like he actually cares which is good.
I just ask her what works for her. I had a partner who rarely climaxed from intercourse. She enjoyed it, but never quite got there. No problem, when I was finished I used a vibrator on her. Best sex ever.
He’s very unrelated too sometimes. I don’t know what I can do to help that really
Do you know what you need? Is he generally willing to do what it takes? Or is it not important to you?
No it is important. I guess he was a virgin and if only had one boyfriend who used to know exactly what to do. Oops I meant to say relaxed!
I am disappointed and work to improve my game. For me, her orgasm is the central purpose of sex. My coming is secondary to that.
It would concern me. It wouldn’t upset me. I’d want to explore the reason why she couldn’t climax and try to find a way to get her there but, it wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me.
Yes for me if I have to work a little harder than I usually do I think there's something wrong with me. I've never not been able to provide orgasms though.
I would not be upset but I be a little worried like if I was not good enough or she couldn't achieve one with me. I think I be okay if the next day she did but at the moment I be little worried.
The ego of a man is as fragile as an egg. Once broken, it does not fix well.
We want to make sure you enjoy sex as much as possible
It should. making her come means you get to come more frequently.
Sometimes it happens. Just be honest and not try to fake one.
Never had that problem. And it’s cum
As long as she’s still getting pleasure from what I do to her, it doesn’t upset me if she can’t orgasm.
If you couldn't with him, would you be ok? (asking because when it's reversed, women often think it's personal, and don't realize it's the same thing)
It's upsetting in that I hope she does and that I can do that for her. But I know it sometimes just doesn't happen (as with us guys), and it's NOT personal. But I think it's also human nature to take it a bit personal, so it never hurts to reassure them I think.
I have never had that problem.
and no, they aren’t faking it
No I believe this. My last boyfriend could make me come easily through being inside me but that’s never happened with my current
He has to use his fingers
Yeah I would be a bit upset and disapointed in me lol
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