Is it normal for me to think like that, what should I do?

For me, gaslighting is arousing.. I would like to have sex with the person who gaslighted me. Most likely that person wouldn't want it, I don't know. Even if he didn't accept me, I would have satisfied myself. I wonder his reaction at that moment.
I would appreciate it if you could comment without judgment.
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  • It's a kink kiddo, but be careful once you grow up it can leave an emotional scar sometimes

    • It could be, do you think it's so hard to find someone like that?

    • It's not hard kiddo but I think you should wait for sometime

    • Until I'm 18?

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  • If I had a girlfriend and she wanted me to Gaslight her I would do it with harming her

    • Oh my god, really? So have you done it before?

    • No , I'm still new at it and trying to figure what it is sorry

    • Thanks for Most Helpful Guy :)

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  • It’s pretty much just a kink you have found early on in life.

    however be very careful with it, by virtue of age, experience people leave themselves open to emotional issues.

    it is relatively common but can be masking other issues (not saying you have).

    depending where you live, I would talk to a counsellor about this, which might seem strange, however I am fairly restricted in what I can say.

    • I am in Turkey. The main problem for me is that I am afraid of not meeting this person.

  • Maybe you like critcism and value someone who could help you improve?

    • It could be, but gaslighting and criticism are not the same thing

    • Both sort of reveal flaws, maybe directly or indirectly

  • Sounds more like you wanna be dominant then gaslight.

    • How did you come to this conclusion? I mentioned there that I wanted gaslighting done to me.

  • You have mental issues i assume

    • How?

  • how does one do this? and how do you get off from it exactly? this is the first time i heard of gaslighting used as an arousal thing

    • Yeah even I'm confused but I can't help myself.. It doesn't matter to me how he does it, it's important that he does it in a way that fits the definition of gaslighting

    • well is there an example you can offer at least? something you can point to?

    • I like it when he surprises me and lies to me to hurt my feelings. I am seduced by the idea that he can easily manipulate my emotions and that I allow it completely. I can clearly give such an example.

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  • can i give you my opinion in dm?

    • Sure.

  • Gaslight is a movie where the husband tries to make his wife thing she is losing her mind. How it became something else is strange to me. You want to have sex with someone that is trying to make you think that you are losing your mind?

    • Yes, I even wanted to be the man's wife while watching the movie. Maybe I'll never meet someone like that..

    • Do you think it's so hard to find someone like that?

    • Wait until you grow up.

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  • eh, you're young and dumb, im sure this is just a phase

    • Thank you, you are very kind. 😑

    • no prob.

  • I’m wondering if you have a humiliation kink

    • It could be.. Do you think it's so hard to find someone like that

    • Someone who will gaslight you? Without being abusive…. Probably

    • I know it's not gaslighting without being abusive

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  • Okay, you like emotional masochism. It's an elaborate form of roleplay which requires an unusually understanding and creative partner. Or alternately a guy who's a complete douchebag. lol

  • yes its fine if u have that kink

  • If you meet someone you care for and explain it to him I'm sure he would do what makes you happy.

    • Whoever I told this to was afraid of doing it..

    • It's because it's seen as extreme behavior.

  • Do you have boyfriend

    • What does this have to do with the question? 😑

    • I understand you... May be it s your fantasy

  • Inbox?

    • What

  • I go hard for women. They call me clingy

    • What does this have to do with the question?

    • I duno sorry mam

    • Go increase your xper elsewhere.

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  • I am into feet n like girls feet

    • What does this have to do with this question? 😑

    • You like gaslighting and i like feet

    • Yeah, but I asked, "Is this normal?"

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