Is it normal for me to think like that, what should I do?
I would appreciate it if you could comment without judgment.
It's a kink kiddo, but be careful once you grow up it can leave an emotional scar sometimes
It could be, do you think it's so hard to find someone like that?
It's not hard kiddo but I think you should wait for sometime
Until I'm 18?
If I had a girlfriend and she wanted me to Gaslight her I would do it with harming her
Oh my god, really? So have you done it before?
No , I'm still new at it and trying to figure what it is sorry
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It’s pretty much just a kink you have found early on in life.
however be very careful with it, by virtue of age, experience people leave themselves open to emotional issues.
it is relatively common but can be masking other issues (not saying you have).
depending where you live, I would talk to a counsellor about this, which might seem strange, however I am fairly restricted in what I can say.
I am in Turkey. The main problem for me is that I am afraid of not meeting this person.
Maybe you like critcism and value someone who could help you improve?
It could be, but gaslighting and criticism are not the same thing
Both sort of reveal flaws, maybe directly or indirectly
Sounds more like you wanna be dominant then gaslight.
How did you come to this conclusion? I mentioned there that I wanted gaslighting done to me.
You have mental issues i assume
How?
how does one do this? and how do you get off from it exactly? this is the first time i heard of gaslighting used as an arousal thing
Yeah even I'm confused but I can't help myself.. It doesn't matter to me how he does it, it's important that he does it in a way that fits the definition of gaslighting
well is there an example you can offer at least? something you can point to?
I like it when he surprises me and lies to me to hurt my feelings. I am seduced by the idea that he can easily manipulate my emotions and that I allow it completely. I can clearly give such an example.
can i give you my opinion in dm?
Sure.
Gaslight is a movie where the husband tries to make his wife thing she is losing her mind. How it became something else is strange to me. You want to have sex with someone that is trying to make you think that you are losing your mind?
Yes, I even wanted to be the man's wife while watching the movie. Maybe I'll never meet someone like that..
Do you think it's so hard to find someone like that?
Wait until you grow up.
eh, you're young and dumb, im sure this is just a phase
Thank you, you are very kind. 😑
no prob.
I’m wondering if you have a humiliation kink
It could be.. Do you think it's so hard to find someone like that
Someone who will gaslight you? Without being abusive…. Probably
I know it's not gaslighting without being abusive
Okay, you like emotional masochism. It's an elaborate form of roleplay which requires an unusually understanding and creative partner. Or alternately a guy who's a complete douchebag. lol
yes its fine if u have that kink
If you meet someone you care for and explain it to him I'm sure he would do what makes you happy.
Whoever I told this to was afraid of doing it..
It's because it's seen as extreme behavior.
Do you have boyfriend
What does this have to do with the question? 😑
I understand you... May be it s your fantasy
Inbox?
What
I go hard for women. They call me clingy
What does this have to do with the question?
I duno sorry mam
Go increase your xper elsewhere.
I am into feet n like girls feet
What does this have to do with this question? 😑
You like gaslighting and i like feet
Yeah, but I asked, "Is this normal?"
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