He does it because it turns him on to know that there's more than one way that he can make you cum. And if you think about it he is not cuming himself so it's more of a mental and emotional connection he is trying to connect with you in. A sexually emotional and sexually mental connection. He is attempting to have it more than just sex.
Unfortunately you're close minded due to what you've experienced down there. And it can be grossed out. But as long as it's clean, there's no harm done. It's just that you have not been able to overcome that fact that all that goes on down there. And unfortunately for him you don't want him to go down on you because you cannot take that image away from your head.
1. Ask him if he has time to talk to you about something important with no distractions.
2. When you guys find time to talk, tell him about the issues that you have about him going down on you. This time it's a healthy conversation instead of you voicing out how grossed out you are about the idea. You are opening up your heart to him about the subject instead of being biased about it.
3. Ask him why he would want to do that with an open mind. And listen to him and let him finish.
4. Get understanding to why he would want to do that for you.
5. Talk to him if it's okay with you after having that understanding.
Note: if you tell him you're willing to do it once to see how it's like prepare your mind. Meditate. Tell yourself you can do it over and over again and have an open mind, and ignore all the things that gross you out about it. Remember that the man enjoys it for a reason. He wants to make you cum more than one way and he wants you to think about him sexually and fantasize about him in more than one way. It's about an emotional and mental connection.
6. Talk about the emotional and mental level of sexual connection between both of you in a healthy open-minded manner with no criticism and no judgment. He is after all your partner, and who else is he going to share his desire for you in his heart with? Nobody else. So be open-minded. And tell him what you feel in an emotional and mental level.
7. Come to a conclusion. Sometimes there's needs to be compromised between the both of you. Remember that his body does not belong to him alone but also to you. In the same way your body does not belong to you 100% but to him as well because he is your partner. And you guys both are one. And that's a beautiful thing. And in a healthy manner, make a decision using compromise so that you can give both of each other the fair opportunity to complete each other's wishes. and maybe there's other things that you guys can do besides him going down on you that can create that mental and emotional sexual connection.
I know what he is going through because I also like going down as well. That's how I know. I like to go down because the thought of me making my woman come in more than one way gives me a mental and emotional connection in a sexual level and it turns me on and it feels like I am connecting with my woman sexually and physically in a mental and emotional level. And it's not a disgusting thing, it's a beautiful feeling I have between me and my woman.
Pity. You don't know what you are missing.
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What the hell you got going on down there that every other wonen who loves recieving oral doesn't have going on down there?
I am a guy who loves (loves!) giving oral. My desire to do it has been a driving force since I first gave it at 16. When I see a beautiful girl, that's the first thing I think of, not sex. I believe he is driven by this desire like I am.
"Why would you wanna go down on me and do stuff with you're mouth knowing what goes down over there. "
*Thats part of what that desire is. What happens there. The other part is his wanting to show you love by pleasuring you. This is hard to explain further.
Don't hesitate to let him go down on you.
I had one woman who had been through some kind of sexual trauma and her childhood that she never opened up to me about. She would never let me go down on her for that reason and it was very disappointing because that is pretty much the thing I enjoy most about sex.
I like doing that so you are not for me.
Very kind for him to offer but if you dint want he doesn't not seeing the issue here
give it time. society has taught you to think it impure. once the orgasms get better you'll forget that crap.
Beacause he wants u to but at least he asked
Learned response? Retro vs metro?
That's how oral sex works
Sure stuff goes on down there but if you clean it very well it's exciting. People love giving and getting oral sex, it's erotic. I love licking a clean, shaved pussy.
If you're worried, let him try briefly right after you shower to see if you like it or not. If you think about it, many body parts can be gross at times, for example the mouth when you vomit. They all can be cleaned including dicks and vaginas.
Have you ever given him oral sex?
Like other guys sperm?
Every guy want enjoy taste and scent down there.. it's amazing..
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