What can I do about my boyfriend that cums before I do then stops?

So my boyfriend cums before me and I'm starting to get annoyed. After he is done he stops with me. I had other boyfriends do this too but it is only one sided almost every time now like he does not even think about making me cum anymore.
What can I do about my boyfriend that cums before I do then stops?
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  • Before he enters you, he should go down on you and get you half way there. Of you are capable of having multiple orgasms, maybe he can get you off at least once and then get you half way there again.
    secondly, you should be on top and control the pace and rhythm. Your boyfriend sounds either inexperienced, uncaring or both. Under these circumstances, he’ll drive at a pace that will get him off asap leaving you unsatisfied. If you control the pace, you can interrupt his buildup and slow him down. Finally, use your fingers (or his) to stimulate yourself while having sex. That will get you there sooner than just by his penis.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Well i have the same situation i cum before my girlfriend so now what i do that i make her cum before me like i give my dick some reat like i fuck her when i feel like im close i stop i eat her out finger her and stuff and i make her cum when she finish i fuck her again and i cum thats the best thing try talking with ur boyfriend tell him what you feel and what u want

Most Helpful Girls

  • I guess he needs to find a way to get you to cum before he does with oral or other things. Most guys will not do oral after they cum in you

    • Some guys would do oral after :)

  • Sounds like my first ex who was a narc who only cared about himself in other aspects too. Girl ditch that dude

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  • I’d say stop having sex. Until the message gets through to him that you need to be finished as well. As it stands right more. He’s being selfish and you’re allowing him to get away with it.

  • More foreplay and don't rush things.

  • Have you talked to him about it? What does he say? If he's unwilling to change his behavior, they you will have to change boyfriends. Sex is an important part of a relationship. If it's not working for you, then he's not the man for you.

  • Get a side guy for after he leaves

  • Ask him for oral every time you have sex. Let him bring you off or near to orgasm before he mounts up. That way, he can rush all he wants and you will either have already cum or will before he does.

  • Can he go a second round? If so You guys going to make a habit of letting him cum immediately, then 5 minutes later he's rejuvenated and making you cum.. This is how one woman I dated liked to do it. She said it's cuz she wanted me to last longer but I think she was really just into control because there was never a shortage of orgasms for her.

  • numbing cream.

  • Wut a Dick!!!🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • Get a new boyfriend

    • That is dumb lol

  • You are dealing with self absorbed boys. Find a man.

  • It's not always easy to make a girl cum. Also guys can't continue after cumming.

    • So... maybe they should just have sex with themselves then?

    • @Nazgol no, but girls can't expect guys to make them cum by sex that often. Foreplay and sex, but not sex alone.

  • Double up the condom. Or tie him up

  • tell him. at your age we don't know much about how gals orgasm. If my gfs didn't tell me...

  • Tell him to start licking your pussy for a long time :)

  • Push his head down between your legs.

  • He's gotta go down in you

  • Find less pathetic men.

  • Selfish lovers don’t last, tell him to wait for you to cum or you’ll find someone else that does

  • Find a boyfriend that isn't totally selfish?

  • If he's not interested in giving you pleasure and making you cum it's a red flag. If you've spoken to him about it and he won't change, it's time to move on.

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