Do guys really take pride in taking "virginity"? If yes, why?

It's a hymen that you broke, it's literally nothing.
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  • Really depends on the guy, personally, I haven't known a lot that do at least as far as seen with the guys I hang with. For the guys that do it's really a pride thing, the knowledge of being the first guy for a girl to have sex with is something that a lot of guys take pride in. Like they got to her first before anyone else could kind of thing.

  • As a man, I don't see the point. My answer is : no ! But the virgin's point of view may be completely different depending upon the circumstances : real love, abuse, rape, drunk, casual, etc. Nevertheless it seems still for many men to be a turnon.

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  • Nope not at all.

    tbh unless a girl tells you or there is a physical barrier then you don’t know.

    The only this is taking care.

  • Yes, they get something first hand, not something that was used by many guys already.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin

  • Not this guy. The whole virginity thing is absurd when people marry in their twenties.

  • Probably

  • I never did. I was just grateful she gave it to me.

  • Some guys do. I usually avoid virgins.

  • Opening Batsman has the priority in the game of cricket.

    Bc he is the best if a girl chooses you as her first then it's worth something.

    Its about bring best or being the first of something kinda like achievement perhaphs!!!

  • Literally nothing? Yeah right more like it is literally her innocence that is forever gone.

  • Meh, some guys do. Its more of an ego thing in my opinion.

  • No not really but it's kinda exciting for us to be your first. Honestly when I had sex with some virgins I was a little worried hoping not to hurt them and enjoy the experience.

  • I was the first guy ahe trusted enough to let me do it

  • Well the hymen was probably broken on accident or by experimenting anyway. The point is conquest! Eh, not a big deal after.

  • Its actually highly important.

  • If he was your first then that means something to him...

  • I feel like this is a cultural thing. Taking the virginity really doesn't really mean anything if you don't stay together.

  • It is control of her mind you take.

  • it is the one time that they can say that they were the best the woman ever had.


  • I've done it with a virgin... and I really have nothing to be proud of

  • We take pride in being the only male who has had you. It has nothing to do with taking your virginity. We are territorial and don’t want some girl who every guy has had.

  • For the rest of her life you're the guy who did it, so that's pretty cool.

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