My experience is the same, for the same reason, seeing another man's penis size in my wife or girlfriend
I have been in a threesome, twice, one time, up in Fullerton California with an experienced couple. The man was bisexual, which made me uneasy at first, and I was not 'crazy' about the neighborhood we were in. (I ran Google Earth to see)
Not surprisingly, I could not get a hard-on with the wife, as I was really nervous with strangers, but the husband's penis was VERY hard and VERY stiff, but it was very small compared to my penis, although I could not demonstrate it by not getting hard.
On looking at it, I would describe it as about the size of an adult male's thumb, the length and girth. I did not look closely, but had only been with one other man with a full hard-on. He put his hand on my penis, and I took it off immediately.
He held his wife's legs straight up, and penetrated her, (I could not see the penetration, as his back was to me, but I would have liked to have seen him in her) He ejaculated all over her stomach and breasts, and she was furious, and I can't blame her!
The other, first time, was with a "hot girlfriend" back in Ohio in my 20's. She and I too, talked about the experience a lot b4 doing it. My BFF was well hung, as he bragged about, and my girlfriend was curious. I really wanted to see him fuck her, as I wanted to see her reaction to his longer, thicker penis. We had all been 'friends" since our teens. She got as 'wet' as I have ever seen her, but the only part that kind of turned me off, was him ejaculating in her. I will never forget that, as I have never been hotter than that night and have jacked-off many times thinking about it.
I wanted to 'thank' you for the MHO with a "message' but could not, so I asked for a "follow' anyway. Appreciated your being so 'candid' about the 'hot wife' experience and glad your hubby was open to it.
Nope according to my understanding of the subject. Once I heard from a psychologist that this might be as well as the Don Juan syndrome, a desire to be in the position of the woman, that is, to be there having that experience. It's not an homosexual fantasy as far as I can tell, but a subconscious desire to be a slut. Most men will never have the chance of being promiscuous in their lives because they aren't enough appealing so through their wives they fulfill the fantasy.
Another reason might as well be the the desire to be with a sexual liberated woman. Every men agrees that it's a really turn on to be with a woman willing to do fulfill her uttermost animalistic desires, but these women are not trustworthy, so they marry a decent woman just to corrupt them later one.
In both cases, I have to say that once the pandora box is opened, you will not be able to close it anymore. So be careful, once you have sex with more than one person at the same time, you'll never be satisfied with your husband anymore and this might destroy your marriege.
Seriously, what is with all the penis questions? lmao
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I lived in San Francisco Bay Area for many years and was a Bull for many couples (especially Asian Couples). The Asian Couples especially were not only obsessed with wanting a hot Caucasian male with blonde hair and blue eyes like me, but the main reason was for her to try a Big White Cock like mine. I would always compare my cock to the Asian dude's cock and never once did they have a bigger one than mine. Most of the time, it was half my size! NO SH! T
I suspect it will corrupt you and eventually bend your mind so much that the woman that got married to him will no longer exist. Good luck with that.
Not not always. Money can play a big role.
Have you experienced bigger sizes?
No. insatiability
Maybe its just their fantasy, or they want to see their wives with younger or dominant guy with higher sex drive ;)
Wow. Good luck in divorce court.
There are plenty of reasons to hotwifing. It's all about wich one (s) appeal to you.
For me it's all about the power dynamics.
yes this sounds normal
Every couple are different in what they get from it, from my experience as a Bull it can be anything, yes some are there for the size others like to see their wife being pleased by me and might join in. Everyone is different 😊
No luv I don't think the size is the only reason, it also involves other reasons like lack of confidence in their own sexual prowess or thinking that they can't satisfy you.
Yes one of the most important factors.
What does Hotwife lifestyle mean?
Ya most of the times it's about the size... but not always
Go for it
What do you thing about penis size... İs your husband uncircumcised or circumcise
so are you looking for a lover?
Cuckolds are the most pathetic men on the planet.
Your husband sounds more like he is into the cuckolding aspect of sharing, if he is concerned with those things.
In a proper "hotwife" the guy is not submissive, he is not "getting cucked".
The dynamic there is that the guy enjoys sharing his partner because she is sexy, desirable, makes his friends excited.
He is "proud" that she has a woman who excites other men, and mostly enjoys the fact that the guys are enjoying themselves because that's what is validating for him.
A guy in a hotwife dynamic will hold her legs open for them, point out how the guys are enjoying her, coax her to "make him feel better with her mouth" and then ask the guys how she was.
That sort of stuff.
Never experienced that. But how was it for you?
Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Most Helpful Guys