Doesn't a girl who doesn't send nudes deserve to live fantasy?

I can't understand some people. Yesterday I asked a question about my arousal from gaslighting. Someone said I don't deserve it because I don't like sending nudes. Is that person right? :/ don't I really deserve it?
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  • Gaslighting has got nothing to do with nudes kiddo, don't listen to that guy, you have your wishes live with them

    • Thanks so much

    • Thanks for the MHO kiddo

    • You're welcome

  • People deserve more when they don’t send nudes. Don’t pay attention to him.

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  • No they are wrong, never feel compelled or pressurised to do that.

    fantasy is simply that and does not involve what he said.

  • he's gaslighting u lmao, ofc u dont have to send nudes to have kinks and be sexual.

    • Maybe I will never find someone like that again. 😭

    • hopefully u won't run into some1 so rude but your 16 so i hope he wasn't asking 4 nudes

  • I don't understand your connection of arousal with gaslighting. But that aside, you are entitled to your fantasies whether or not you send nudes. They are just putting you down for not sending nudes. Stick by your principal of not sending nudes and enjoy your fantasies.

    • I talked about this in another question. I want it done to me.. My only problem is that I couldn't find anyone to do it.

  • Do not ever send nudes. You don't owe internet strangers anything if they try to manipulate you into it they're automatically untrustworthy and worth talking to at all.

    • Not worth*

  • F them. Don't feel guilted into sending nudes.

  • Ridiculous. Don't ever send nudes what show your face.

  • People that don't send nudes are better people and the ones that don't like you because of it are jealous because they aren't as good as you.

  • That’s crazy!

    • What is crazy

    • You can have all the sexual fun you want and you don’t need to send nudes. I did before I gave that up.

  • Nobody should tell a girl that she can't have fantasies. It's up to you if you want to send nudes. If you are comfortable with your body, you could show it to people. If not, that's okay.

  • Just because you don't feel comfortable sending nudes doesn't mean someone wouldn't screw the whole football team behind closed doors. Best example i could think of. There is no manual on sex preferences lol

  • Someone is trying to get nudes from you and most likely a pedobear and girl who doesn't send nudes is a good girl trust me stay away from these trashy guys on here

    • Yes girls deserve to live a fantasy but don't send nudes @humeyrahaktanir

  • Don't listen to them, do what you gotta do

  • You deserve it. Don’t listen to them

  • What does it mean when you say arousal by gaslighting?

    I mean who gets aroused by hearing complaints 🤔😸

    • I am the one who gets aroused lol. I talked about this in another question. I want it done to me.. My only problem is that I couldn't find anyone to do it.

    • This is a new concept I guess, maybe the a new konda kink 😂 people are yet to get aware of this will catch up soon. Give me an example as in how you want to be gaslighted is it against your partner or from your partner

    • And what I can make from the data provided the person whom you are talking is confused with your gaslighting theory I think he said about nudes maybe and I am saying maybe there is degradation kink some people like being insulted and degraded maybe it makes them to feel submissive and powerless not sure how it works but they get aroused by being verbally abused so maybe he or she thought that

  • Of course you deserve to live your fantasy. Don’t send nudes.

  • Of course. He's just bitter 'cuz you wouldn't show him. You can still be horny and not enjoy sending nudes.

  • I agree with you, but what is your definition of a live fantasy?

    • A person who fulfills her desires by herself/himself or with whomever she/he wants.

    • Thanks

  • You’re 16. Focus on school. You will have plenty of time for fun in college.

    • I don't care about school. Am I not worthy to experience this just because I am under 18? Oh whatever. No matter what I say.

    • You sound highly emotional.

  • No one deserves anything, just do what you want.

  • You do not have to send nudes at all and as for as arousal goes everyone has that right to get aroused.

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