Is it normal to think about someone other than your partner when masturbating?

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  • Well no matter if you're married or if you have a partner you always going to have fantasies and I don't think there's anything wrong with having that fantasy about a person I'm single I have fantasies and just by answering this question since I've already answered 20 sexual questions I'm horny so I'm probably going to have a fantasy about you

Most Helpful Guy

  • Fantasizing does not harm anyone, and one is also not responsible for spontaneous feelings. We're human first of all. Your partner may not always be happy if you're masturbating alone without involving him or her, but sure he or she doesn't need to know you think of someone else, except if you both love and trust each other. Still, yes, it is normal if you just feel that way about the person you're thinking of. No need to upset your partner for no relevant reason. A thought is not an act.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I ment to say no i would hate my boyfriend for that if ure his women he should always think of you

  • I think it’s disrespectful but I think people have different opinions

    • Yes whores like katleen will masturbate to guys she sees in speedos

    • @kevin202020 yikes didn’t even spell my name right and my username is literally above. Nice one 🙄

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Not only is it normal to think about someone other than your partner, it's also normal to think about things that are more extreme than you have done or would ever do.

  • Of course. You can think about whatever you want. It's fantasy.

  • Thoughts are free. Don't worry about this.

  • If I can't get over the top, I may "stream" a fantasy but she doesn't have a name.

  • It is but not all the time

  • Yes, I guess it happens but not all the time

  • Variety is th espice of life.

  • i have done it, but i feel like it isn't an ok thing to do

  • Monogamy is NOT normal or natural !

    Read "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan

  • It's not abnormal. I think it would be abnormal to think of no one BUT your partner for the rest of your life, when you're fantasizing!

  • The question is whether it's right, not if it's normal. And obviously no.

    • no the question is whether it’s normal, not right. i’m trying to figure out if this is something that happens to people often.

    • however both questions are relevant to you, the answerer. only the first question is relevant to me, that’s why I asked it.

  • Meh, just don't ever tell her.

  • I don't

  • Yes ofcourse! Who do you think about?

  • With sex in your mind, there are NO RULES!

  • Yes it is

  • Normal yes
    Borderline cheater I don't know... i would say to my woman go ahead as long as It's me only you are getting the real thing from!

  • I only think about myself while masturbating.

  • Yes others

  • Very normal

    • Who do you think about

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