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Do you care about How many sexual partners do your serious partner have before you?

What do u think? (They can lie about it tho)
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  • I don't care.
    I asked my wife when we began to date if she was a virgin or not. Just to know how careful should I be with her on our first time with each other. Just for that. She said she wasn't a virgin and I didn't ask anything else. Didn't care if she had 10 or 100. I was just happy she wasn't a virgin, sex with them is kinda boring and they need to be taught how to do things.

    • Asker ignore some of the answers here. No decent guy will care about how many partners you had before him.

  • as long as they have no

    1. std's
    2. kids
    3. legal trouble
    4. Current S. o.'s (cheating)

    I could not care less, otherwise

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  • No, I don’t ask and don’t care to know. Past is the past. So long as they are free of STDs and tested, the rest doesn’t matter.

    • If past is past what if you are about to start dating a guy and your close friend says that your partner is a player will you still able to trust that guy?

    • @Rahul8124 i can not trust players. They are not trustworthy for serious relationships i think.

    • @Rahul8124 I’m referring to the past being the past in terms of the asker’s question of amount of sexual partners. If there are character flaws, of course that will matter. I’m only answering based on that I don’t care how many previous partners. Now, if by player you mean someone who is likely to cheat, yes that matters to me.

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  • Yea that could be a "Just out of curiosity" question for a partner.
    Anyways, anyone could lie.

  • Nope not at all, it’s their past.

    as long as the past does not cause problems in the present while I am in a relationship with them, I’m not overly bothered and would not ask.

  • I never cared looked Our pasts are our pasts.

  • If marriage-minded, the less the better. A woman can lose her pair-bonding ability with too many partners, and then she is divorce bait.

    If just dating for fun, recreation it doesn't matter.

  • I don’t.

  • I care more about the circumstances in which they had partners. If they were promiscuous having casual sex/ONS/friends with benefits/hook ups that would matter a lot.
    It shows her morals and if she had casual sex then she doesn't think of sex as part of a special bond between two people. And people that have a past of casual sex have difficulty of pair bonding for long term. They will never have as strong of a connection/attachment to someone as someone that didn't do casual sex would have.

    So even if they stop that behavior they can never change their past and will never be as good as someone that didn't do that.
    And the truth eventually comes out even if they lie initially. People will recognize them either in person or online, they would have to be very careful of their conversations for the rest of their lives and always worrying if someone finds out.

  • Nope.

  • I care much more about how my serious partner treats me and who she is at heart.

  • No. I want to be her last lover. Not the first one.

  • I don't care as long as it's not a crazy high number.

  • I think if someone has a high body count, playing is more important to them than a relationship.

    • What is high body count? How many for example? I think like you too. But some people say that they can change themselves.

    • Some people think anything over 5 is a high body count. If a woman is 18 with more than 5 then it seems high, if she was 35 and it was 5 it would seem less. Maybe people can change but it shows that love didn't mean too much to them. But there is a sayin that people don't change.

    • It is valid for men too not just for women i think. But How can we know? Sometimes people lie.

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  • If asked, most all women lie about the number of their sex partners. Perhaps men lie too in the opposite direction. We know that because all surveys give a lower average number of same sex partners for women then for men. However, that is impossible since the number of males is approximately equal to the number of females.

  • No I don't care but I just wanna know for some reasonif u make me think about it only.
    God Bless

  • nope

  • No, but you prob have to match it at least partly. It’s a different type of person who has double digits vs single digits. Just my thoughts…

  • I don't ask i don't care

  • Nope don’t care

  • Don't ask don't tell.

  • Then there’s no point Bc they can lie

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