My girlfriend told me to wear panties? Is this a regular fetish for girls?

[Anonymous]

We have been going out for 5 months now and a couple days ago she told me to wear some panties when we were cuddling together and i did it just for fun but I feel like she was into it. This is my first girlfriend so I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else has an experience like this. I know I need to ask her about it but it's a strange thing to bring up so I'm kind of just waiting until something happens again or the right time to talk about it

it doesn't bother me if she does I love her a lot plus it felt kind if nice, I'm just curious if this is kind of common or not

[slatyb]

I don’t think it’s common. To me feels like a test to see how submissive you are. It could be just the beginning, to see how far you will go to please her. Is she demanding in other ways?

[Asker]

That's what someone else said here too that it's a test and yeah she is a demanding person tbh

[slatyb]

I’m guessing this is the first step in a process of emasculation. She’s really testing you to see if you are strong enough to say no and hold firm when she acts out. But I’m curious to know what happens next.

[Asker]

I never really saw it that way but I don't know maybe you're right, honestly that is one of the things about me I have a hard time saying no to her and she's good at like convincing me. I think about it a lot like wondering what the future will be like

[slatyb]

You need to think hard about what you want and whether she will help or hinder you. If you are submissive and happy to be treated that way, then you should have an open discussion about where this is going to go. If you are not, but just going with the flow, That leads to misery and regret. I know, I’ve been there. What would your ideal relationship look like? What do you want to happen over the next few years? Make a list, then see if she is going to be a help or a hindrance.

[Asker]

I am submissive but I'm new to a lot of this stuff so I really dont know what I like or dislike I guess. Personally she helps me a lot at least so far like we connect really well even though we're kind of like opposites. I'm okay with the way I'm treated she is a demanding person but never usually over the top. You're right I do need to discuss it with her, I'll have to find a good time to bring it up maybe next time she does something like that again. I like those kind of questions, I'll have to think of stuff like that more often but honestly I'm really happy with what I have right now, no complaints really besides some of her family. Appreciate the real advice man

[slatyb]

Great. I hope it works out. You say you are submissive. In being in panties one of your fantasies? Anyway it sounds like you need to have a talk with your girlfriend. I hope it goes well. Do not sacrifice your education or career for this. If she cares about you she won't ask you to do anything that would interfere with that.

[Asker]

It wasn't my fantasies before but it did turn me on so I have been thinking about it more. Yeah I do need to talk to her about this stuff I feel like she's going to initiate the conversation honestly, she likes talking about this stuff. I don't know how I could sacrifice my career or anything for this but maybe I'm not thinking of something. I get the feeling she cares for me so I dont think she'd ask anything too crazy but I know she is kind of freaky lol

[adolfohittando]

she's going to turn you into a feminine man, probably cuck you all that shit and u just going to sit there and take it some guys are some real bitches

[slatyb]

@adolfohittando some men are into that. There are many more submissive men than women that want to dominate them.

[adolfohittando]

exactly that shit is not natural that's why I'm calling him out on it before he turns into a full on bitch for his girlfriend, what is he going to do if she breaks up with him?

[Asker]

@adolfohittando Just because I'm submissive doesn't mean I can't find another girl that would be interesting like your logic is dumb

[Anonymous]

your woman told you to wear panties and u did it? we all know who the bitch of the relationship is.. she is trying to feminize you dude run away before she asks u to do some crazy shit but maybe u will just follow her like a little puppy dog. man the fuck up already

[Asker]

just because I did that does not make me a bitch that's kind of how I felt until she convinced me to put them on she's right it doesn't make me any less of a man

[Opinion Owner]

100% makes you less of a man, listen to yourself, u were convinced to wear panties and you said u liked it who knows what ur girlfriend will make u do next. obviously ur ger little bitch and u let her dominate u so she is taking control.. u got a really small dick or something?

[Asker]

Well yeah if she didn't convince me I would have never worn them and I'm happy I did because it did feel good and it made her happy, what's wrong with that? it's on the smaller side but nothing bad

[Anonymous]

That is not normal lmao, I'm surprised you would even put the panties on but to each their own I guess

[Asker]

Well I don't know she convinced me I was iffy at first but she said it would make her happy and wouldn't think any less of me so I did it and they felt better than I thought they would

[Opinion Owner]

You seem submissive lol

[Asker]

I am pretty submissive tbh

[Opinion Owner]

That's okay most people are submissive like me just dont give her full control of your life because some doms take it to that point and you have to be able to say no

[Asker]

That's true I have a hard time saying no to her she always convinces me lol

[Opinion Owner]

aww lol you seem sweet but yeah she probably loves taking that control over you, if you enjoy it then embrace it!

[Asker]

Well it is one of the things I like about her because she's very bold and confrontational but I'm not im like opposite so it works for us

[Opinion Owner]

That's amazing, dont feel weird about it then ♡ you might miss on something that could be good for you. Let her ease you into things and maybe even talk about things with her so you can experiment together. Are you usually the submissive one in bed?

[Asker]

Yeah she is more experienced than me so she usually leads the way and I am the submissive one usually

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like you know your place 😅

[RobT312]

None of my girlfriends have ever asked me to do that …it’s not that weird but I’d ask her what she likes about it!

[Asker]

She said that she likes me trying new things and likes seeing me in her panties

[RobT312]

👍👍that’s cool. If you guys both like it then that’s awesome

[Asker]

yeah it's fun but it's still weird to me I dont know how to explain it

[JCrockett]

It's a shit test and you failed.

[Asker]

I dont know what you mean like how did I fail a test lol

[humpbackjack]

Not sure if it’s common or not but if she’s into it and it gets her going then who cares plus this opens the door to try other things

[Asker]

That's true it can be good for us both

[275153]

No. It’s not a regular thing.

[Asker]

makes sense I guess

[IveGotNoName]

No not regular.

[Asker]

I didn't think so but she is a unique person so it makes sense

[Massageman]

If it has that effect on you, why fight it?

[Asker]

Well I don't know I like it but it's kind of embarrassing I guess it just feels kind of weird to me still

[adolfohittando]

no shit its embarrassing your a grown man wearing women's underwear

[MysticDevice]

I actually had a girlfriend do this once. She wanted me to wear panties while she grinds on me. I was like sure why not. I don't think its very common though. This is the only other time I've heard of it.

[Asker]

Yeah I hadn't really heard about it before from friends or anything so I didn't think it was common either but I was kind of surprised that I liked it I guess

[MysticDevice]

Maybe it is more common than we think and girls are just afraid to ask their boyfriends to do it lol

[Asker]

I doubt it hahaha, girls are typically the submissive ones but it would be funny to see a world in that timeline

[oldermale]

More common than you might think. 😉

[Asker]

Have you had a similar experience or something?

[oldermale]

Yes I have in the past with ex girlfriend, and occasionally with my friends with benefits's if she's feeling kinky lol

[Asker]

That's interesting lol I'm pretty open to new things so it's cool with me but it still just feels weird to me, I wonder if you can relate in that way

[oldermale]

I can definitely relate with ya 😉

[Asker]

That makes me feel a little better because i know it shouldn't make me feel weird but it just does it would be better if I could just stop those feelings

[oldermale]

Yeah, those feelings should pass soon 😉

[Asker]

I guess since you had a similar experience I must ask, what other kinds of things did it lead to with the girls you did it with? That would make it much better for me if I could just not feel weird about liking it

[oldermale]

Add me and ill tell ya if ya want

[boobliker]

may be it's so she can just to take them off?

[Asker]

I'm not sure what you mean

[boobliker]

firstly are they hers and did take a photo of you in them, secondly she just like to see you in them or think of you in them it's all play in sex fun and games so play along and enjoy.

[Asker]

Yes they were her panties, she didn't take a picture of me in them but it's funny you brought that up because she said she wanted to lol. She said that she liked seeing me in them and that it's good to get me to experiment more with stuff

[LegendaryIcon]

for some

[Asker]

What do you mean for some lol

[LegendaryIcon]

can't generalize an entire gender

[Asker]

Well you're right in that sense but I guess I was looking more to see if anyone else had a similar experience to me since they could offer some perspective

[LegendaryIcon]

nope, they haven't, sorry

[Asker]

Well there was a couple lol

[LegendaryIcon]

nope, they lied

[Asker]

What makes you say they lied?

[LegendaryIcon]

mot of the people on this site, lie

[Asker]

I had a pretty nice exchange of messages on here because of this post and it seemed pretty genuine to me, he gave some pretty good advice. I dont use the site often at all but if the case is that people just lie then why do you use the site personally?

[LegendaryIcon]

boredom

[Asker]

understandable lol, I think I'd rather watch youtube than be on this site when I'm bored though, are you interested in history?

[LegendaryIcon]

yeah

[Asker]

some channels you could check out are -> history with hilbert/ jake tran/ bald and bankrupt/ parable/ simple history/ biographics/ whatifalthist/ the armchair historian/ origin of everything

[OddBeMe]

No but do as she says.

[Asker]

Well I dont always do what she says but she is good at convincing me lol

[adolfohittando]

you sound like her little bitch..

[OddBeMe]

@adolfohittando you sound like you live in your moms basement.

[adolfohittando]

@oddbeme If that were the case, I'd take that any day over being my girlfriends bitch. can do nothing but feel bad for this sorry sack of shit haha

[Asker]

@adolfohittando I never knew listening to my girlfriend made me a bitch

[adolfohittando]

you are obedient and submissive to your girlfriend, you are indeed her bitch 🤣 she tells you to jump you ask "how high?"

[Asker]

@adolfohittando fuck you

[Joker_]

You wish you had a girlfriend

[Asker]

Are you insinuating something?

[Joker_]

Sure

[Asker]

I'd rather not

[Joker_]

Ok‎‎‎‎‎‎

[Asker]

I dont swing that way sorry bro

[Joker_]

Don't kid yourself, mate. If you ain't gay yet, you certainly will be - come 2022

[Asker]

What's going on in 2022 to make me gay

[Joker_]

You'll find out, faggot

[Asker]

Are you going to come fuck me or something 😂

[adolfohittando]

you probably will end up as a faggot letting ur girlfriend bitch you like that

[Joker_]

That's right

[Asker]

@adolfohittando think about what u just said I'm going to turn into a faggot because of my GIRLFRIEND you are off

[Asker]

@joker_ Dont turn me gay man I already have enough problems

[Joker_]

You got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one (because you're homosexual and therefore don't care about women)

[Asker]

@joker_ now that you put it that way becoming the opposite of straight sounds like a good deal 🤔

[Joker_]

Guys, we got him - he's gay

[Asker]

Dont tell my girlfriend

[Joker_]

You don't have a girlfriend, schizo

[Asker]

Are you trying to brainwash me?

[Joker_]

Yes‎‎‎‎‎‎

[Asker]

No wonder everyone is going gay these past years, it's all your fucking fault

[Joker_]

yeah lol

[Asker]

the only way you'll succeed is to do a mass brainwash on the world, start with tv

[Joker_]

You want me to brainwash the tv

[Asker]

exactly if you make the ev homosexual then it will brainwash the traditionalist ideologies

[Asker]

tv**

[Joker_]

I agree

[EaterPeter]

Not common and that what makes each boyfriend girlfriend relationship unique. I think you're on right track.

[Asker]

I agree I really love her so I think it's something special between us

[Anonymous]

Your girlfriend is turning you into her bitch lmao and you just accept it like dude get a grip you are the man here and she is putting you in panties...

[Asker]

Well yeah it's not manly to wear panties but ik it made her happy and it felt kind of nice so I dont know what the problem is but it is embarrassing ngl

[Anonymous]

It's ok to wear panties, some feel good to wear, it just depends on what kind they are.

[Asker]

I put on a thong and some hipsters for her and yeah they felt nice one of them was like really silky made me kind of hard lol

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I got hard when I put some on. My ex girlfriend bought me some, she said they were made for guys where she bought them but they looked like panties. They were animal print bikinis.

[Asker]

I just wore hers she's a little bit bigger than me but they fit like perfect

[Opinion Owner]

I don't see what the big deal is, if they feel good, wear them.

[Asker]

Yeah I know but it just feels weird sometimes so I was wondering if other people feel like this

[Opinion Owner]

Just wear them and you'll like them. Who care what other people think? They aren't going to see. I wear panties, they feel good.

[Asker]

You're right I shouldn't care but I do for some reason 🙃 I'll just do what I like, you're right

[Opinion Owner]

Don't worry, just do it, lol

[Asker]

have you ever felt like I do?

[Opinion Owner]

A little at first, but not anymore, it's just a secret, and you'll like it :)

[Asker]

thank you lol I don't know why it bothers me a lot but I'll get over it and yeah you're right it's just a secret I guess

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome, just start wearing different ones until you find some you like and wear them everyday until you feel comfortable. Your girlfriend likes them, so that's what counts.

[Asker]

I think I'll keep letting her choose them I'm not comfortable to wear them outside the house yet lol but it sounds kind of fun and yeah without her I wouldn't have known that I liked this

[Anonymous]

There is no such thing as normal or regular. If she enjoys it if you wear panties do it on the condition she'll do whatever you want next time.

[Asker]

That's a good idea lol but I'd have to talk to her

[Anonymous]

Yes it is, especially if your girl is a little dominant. This is probably just the start if she is dominant.

[Asker]

She is kind of a dominant person and the start of what?

[Opinion Owner]

She might start becoming more dominant and move on to more things like chastity, feminization or pegging. It might be fun, sit back and see where it goes.

[Asker]

oh okay that makes sense but I would be surprised if it goes that far

[Opinion Owner]

Be happy and hope it does, I would love to have a girl friend like that.

[Asker]

I love her a lot so I wouldn't let her go trust me lol