Do guys get put off when you send them nudes/lingerie pics?

this guy who I’m talking to hasn’t texted me ALL day and we were kinda sexting last night and I sent him a few lingerie pics

our date is meant to be on the 30th December- this would be our 2nd meet up

he said he enjoyed the pics I was sending him and apparently I gave him an erection but why is he acting so distant the next day?

Starting to think I’ve done something wrong or he found the pics a bit too much and wants a classy girl?
Updates:
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I reached out to him and asked him if he had a good Boxing Day and he said “was busy” and look at the rest of the convo …
https://ibb.co/T1bJKm8
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  • Nope not usually.

    saying that some guys can be weird.

    You come over as a really lovely girl and does seem weird for him to be put off.

    ideally a guy should be happy and open with a girl if she is happy to send to him.

    unless you had a ton of washing behind you lol.

    Is he definitely single?
    That could be another reason,

    • Look at the update on my question

    • Yeah that’s what I mean, you are obviously trying to chat to him, he’s giving you cold shoulder and saying busy, no doubt busy for every day. With how you look and come across a guy should be looking to change his plans for you

    • He saying he doesn’t get why I’m getting upset because he didn’t text me for ONE day. But I’m a clingy girl. I like texting everyday

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  • I think girls should wait until a relationship has been established and there is fondness. Then nudes are like giving a guy flowers. Before that they seem more like a lure.

    • Thank you

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  • No, usually most guys get turned on by such pictures, which he indicated that he did. It wasn't your pictures that made him go cold.

  • To be honest with you you are absolutely beautiful and any kind of photo you sent to him I'm sure he's in love with for me I like little bit of clothes on girls when they send pictures I don't like clothes that's I don't like completely naked I want to be able to imagine as I look at her body and into her eyes I think you're fine he's probably just busy

  • It's Christmastime! A lot of people are busy the days before AND after Christmas. So, if you don't hear from him, say, by Tuesday, don't worry about it.

    The LAST thing you want to do is come across as needy and desperate because that does put-off many men.

  • What were the pics you sent him? All of the ibb. co links are dead by now, so I have no idea what's going on 😬

  • I would assume they just don't know how to respond or they don't actually think you're attractive. I've never had someone send me nudes so I don't know for sure what it's like, but if I got a nude pic, I wouldn't know how to respond to it.

    • Fair enough

  • Depending on a guy's maturity, nude pictures could be perceived as rather "silly". Lingerie pictures sound better, but - also - are a matter of individual taste...

  • You've done nothing wrong. It's his loss. Find someone that deserves you and appreciates what you share with them.

  • this happened to me kind of, i sent nudes to a guy then the next day he deleted me off snap lol

    • @somegirl678 that sucks, sorry for you

  • Not at all! Send them over!

  • He may be feeling embarrassed or he played you to get the pics.

    • Embarrassed of what?

    • Embarrassed about the erection or the sexting in general and is now feeling sheepish to see you.

  • Of course not.

  • Are you retarded? He well do you know this guy? You want him posting your pictures online or something?

  • 99.99% of guys love it, the 1% must be gay or just don't like nudes.

    • Well fuck him

    • I agree.

  • Let's say that I'm with a girl. If she takes or sends me nudes, I'm no longer with that girl.

  • Nah I think your okay he could just be busy. Just be patient or maybe send some more pics and he will reply.

    • Me and him have fallen out. We don’t talk anymore. He said I was too clingy

    • Too bad. His loss I guess. You seem very pretty and open minded

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  • No why would it most men like seeing women naked or in lingerie

  • nudes ok but lingerie is a spelches subject unless?

    • Check the update on the question pls

  • Wel I sext with three women and I just got bored and asked myself is sexting really relevant or is sex important ever sense then I meet a woman they randomly start sexting sometimes without really connecting or something so I pretty much just ghost them until they realize I don’t really sext with someone I am not really tight with

  • He probably is having regrets that he has been sexting you

  • Guys don't really text that much. I don't know of any guy who wouldn't like those types of pictures

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