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Is it a dealbreaker if a guy asks his girlfriend to peg him?

So my girlfriend and I have been together for a couple months and started having sex about a week ago. We started talking about different sex positions while we were just casually hanging out, not in bed. She told me she wanted to be tied up and do some light bondage, which I agreed to do some time then she asked me what I wanted and I said one day I wanted to try pegging and she asked what that was (that should’ve been my first sign that this was going to go badly) and when I told her she immediately let go of my hand while we were holding hands and left the room for what seemed like forever. When she came back into the room she was not her usual bubbly self and seemed cold and distant. This was about a week ago and we haven’t had sex since then when we were hooking up almost every night before this. Did I ruin this relationship? I won’t be completely devastated if we don’t stay together but I am wondering if this is completely repulsive to other women.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It depends on the woman- and also on the way it's introduced. You know how a lot of guys seem to feel that they have to react to anything sexual with either arousal or revulsion, with nothing in between and no other options? So if they see a naked guy, they have to recoil and cover their eyes?

    That same attitude is present in women; it just manifests itself differently. The slightest hint of anything gay makes some women think that you have interest in them. If you're lucky, it wears off- she stops at some point to think, and comes to talk to you about it more rationally- but it's possible she won't come back at all.

    • You might be onto something here. She is acting a lot like you’re describing

  • Aww that’s too bad man. Talk to her and hope it works out. There is nothing weird about anal, it’s pretty sexy and erotic, but maybe too adventurous for many. While I don’t have an interest in seeing my girlfriend wear a strap to peg me, she has used a dildo on me and it was really pleasurable

    • Yeah, I already had one picked out for her so it really is unfortunate

    • I also have to be honest I’d never expect a woman to react that strongly. I think you’d find a number of women into it

    • Thanks. That’s good to know. I don’t have really strong feelings either way about her so I’m leaning towards dropping her anyway. She’s a bit of a bitch.

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  • It’s a dealbreaker for me because it would make me question his sexuality. I’m also not into anal myself.

    • Got it. Why would you question his sexuality though?

    • Him wanting to be penetrated in the rear end is what 2 men do together so it’s hard not to. I’d also wonder if he’d end up wanting a real Dick in the long run.

    • Ohhh. Got it. I understand why it would be a problem. What if he occasionally liked prostate stimulation like if he wanted you to finger him? Same?

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  • If you ruined it with that admission then you are better off without her. Find someone more open-minded. She has her fantasies, which you accepted. You have yours, which she rejected. You can try talking to her about it, but if she’s going to judge you negatively just end it.

    • She might still come around to my idea but I think it might be time to end it too. 😞

  • Shrugs just shows she don't love you. So it wasn't gonna be a fulfilling relationship.
    If she loved you, it would work pretty simple she would pleasure you the way you want and you would her. Both getting what they want because they want to make there partner happy cause they love each other.

    • wait until you find real love. Trust it's great.

    • You found someone into pegging?

    • Well i've found that many times. But I've had 2 true loves and they would do all that I liked meanwhile I would do all the liked on them. Love is about going out of your way to make you partner feel pleasure and happiness and them same back to you. It's a 2 way street of wants. Not just a one.

  • Not a deal breaker for me

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