Guys, Is all you’re looking for sex?

[hsshannah96]

Like no commitment etc. no relationship just friends with benefits AKA fuck buddies.
guys ages 25-32 in replies only. Trying to prove to my mother that most are only after some good dick in a vagina.

[jaykumar123]

Not at all.
I need a friend, a partner, some one I can text, call and video call.
I wish the desire is mutual and that we both want to stay in connection. That we both want to see each other. If we donot get time to connect we both miss each other.

Sex is a part of bond where we need to calm down the boiling hormones to stay sane.
For me sex isn't everything. But yea it does make me keep my self sane and high spirited.

PS: am a virgin but masturbate when in need and so am just relating.

Let me know your thoughts.
Cheers.

[ADFSDF1996]

I am looking for a woman that is just like me and thus understands me.

• She must have a similar political ideology to me
• she must have a similar religion to me
• she must have similar hobbies and interests as me.
• She can’t be promiscuous
• She can’t be a feminist.

[ADFSDF1996]

You don’t seem to understand men do you? Men and women aren’t the same despite what the Marxists say. Yes we are equal but different. Men have higher libidos than women because men are the ones that impregnate and thus are more visual than women when it comes to sexual attraction. In a sense men desire women significantly more than women desire men.

[hsshannah96]

We don’t desire having sex with you and then you only chatting with us every now and then when you want more sex and lying about not wanting a relationship, or “not being sure what you want” because you really just want a fuck buddy.

[hsshannah96]

Can’t be a feminist means “can’t have her own thoughts feelings or ideas. Must follow male orders” Should’ve known another 25 year old boy would say this crap.

[ADFSDF1996]

You also lack reading comprehension? Unbelievable. When did I ever say anything about a “fuck buddy”? You are just reading what you want to read so you can take things out of context. A feminist is a hypocrite who wants to establish a matriarchy, a world where men don’t have a voice. Guess you still believe that feminism is a noble cause don’t you.

[hsshannah96]

When you say “she can’t be a feminist” means you want someone who is easy to manipulate Sounds about right

[Jamie05rhs]

@ADFSDF1996 You're the one who lacks reading comprehension, dude. You completely missed the context of her point.

[ADFSDF1996]

@Jamie05rhs Right back at you pal. I completely understood her point but you don’t seem to understand what I said. Then again pinko male feminists like yourself don’t seem to have much brains. I simply explained how there’s a lot more criteria men use to determine if a woman is date worthy. Not just how good she is in bed.

[hsshannah96]

Lmao. Rarely do they use criteria besides her breast size. And if you love us conditionally and we have to work for stuff, some of us go find other guys who love us as we are and can be respectful

[hsshannah96]

Y’all are so damn disrespectful but you wonder why women shout at you and get back at you with our insults continually Stop playing dumb

[ADFSDF1996]

I don’t give a fudge about breast size.

[Jamie05rhs]

@ADFSDF1996 Ok, this is where we agree. 👍👍

[LZPanzer]

Sure there are a small minority that that is their sole objective.

If these are the guys you encounter on a regular basis you need revaluate your selection criteria, as you are targeting those (bad) guys.

[hsshannah96]

I did and now I don’t hang out with anybody!!! Lmfao.

[LZPanzer]

I don't think you did it correctly. You should try again. If you are reevaluating properly your group of people you associate with should expand. As you should be considering people you previously discarded. What was your conclusion for your first attempt. What did you identify as a problem. I bet I could guess.

[hsshannah96]

I reevaluated. Now I have nobody because I’m selective

[hsshannah96]

I’m moving out of Minnesota first off Living there is a mistake

[LZPanzer]

Selective how? elaborate. I'm unsure how being in Minnesota changes much of anything.

[hsshannah96]

Minnesotans are VERY reserved and hard to make friends with.

[hsshannah96]

Also I am selective with the looks of people I’m around because I do think people who are coated in tattoos and piercings don’t have my best interest in mind given past experiences with them. Same for people who don’t show up on time, same for people I argue with at all. I just had horrible experiences with people much of the time so I don’t try

[NHI2017]

No.
Not the case at all.


i can hook up with a girl,
Have sex with her.
And il ask her if i can take her out the next day.

sex is nice and all, But i look for a friend, and Sombody i can talk to, and spend time with too.

its not all about sex.

[hsshannah96]

Yeah but you have to have the sex first.

[hsshannah96]

That’s no longer a risk I’m willing to take. That is a gamble that is never worth it for a girl.

[NHI2017]

I DO NOT have to have sex first. I was just saying, If a girl and i did have sex. First, Or just hooked up, It doesn't mean she doesn’t have my respect. a lot of guys don’t respect girls that get around. But i dont think that makes a girl not worthy of dating. Or asking her out. If i like a girl, Idc what she did. Id ask her out. I've had a girlfriend. I asked out and we didn’t have sex til 6 months after we met. And I've. Even hooked up with a girl, at a party before. Guys would just have sex with her and thought she was a slut, I talked to her, For a while. After we got done having sex, Laying in bed, And i really liked her. And she was starting to warm up to me, We talked for a couple hours, I asked her out on a date, she accepted. Years later we are still together to this day. And this is a girl that got around. I asked her out. No sex. No nothing i just wanted to spend time with her because i liked her. For her. I dont judge anybody. But im ok with. No sex also. If i like you, Id just wanna spend time with you. Sex doesn't even cross my mind. 90% of the time, unless. We find our selves there

[NHI2017]

Guys were shocked when they found out i asked her out, Considering she slept with basically half of the guys at our school. And people even made fun of us for it. Especially me. Girls hated her when they found out about me and her. And the guys laughed at me, (All the guys she slept with) But we stuck by eachother through it. And we are still together to this day. We are like 2 peas in a pod. Best friends, And. Lovers

[hsshannah96]

Oh ok

[hsshannah96]

Doesn’t exist

[hsshannah96]

See the six month thing is what I want.

[NHI2017]

Good guys do exist. You need to find Sombody thats your friend first. Then romance grows. They say familiarity breeds attraction. Find Sombody you like, Spend time with him. Get to know him And. See where it goes……… An open minded guy thats open to anything would be your best bet. That way there is no expectations. Just see where it goes. I was once that guy……. If a gurl wabts to date. Sure. If she wants to hook up that was ok too…. Whatever she wants. Im good with and respected. Decent guys sre still out there. You just need to look harder. -and sometimes its right undee your nose even

[hsshannah96]

They don’t want friendship they want sex 😂😂😂😂

[hsshannah96]

Hence I continually ditch guys I’ve talked to

[hsshannah96]

Currently I never go anywhere so I’m never around any guys. I gave up

[NHI2017]

If you do find a decent guy. Thats good to you. You be good to him. Try dating or matching with people online. I know of a few people who met their husbands on a site called. Eharmony. You fill out a personality test. And. Exactly what your looking for. And they only match you with guys looking for the same thing. That your compatible with. Doctors, And relationship experts. Developed the quiz. And its got the lowest divorce rate. Of any other way of matching. I believe its 3%. They say. Almost everyone that joins finds their segnificant other. Within the first year. If your peristant and serious. Id give it a try, It costs a couple bux, But it weeds out the wrong guys. If a guy is willing to spend money to meet Sombody special. You know he’s serious and not just looking for sex. Try it or i can help you if you have any questions. Me and my girl took the quiz. Just for fun a while back, And. We are a 132. Out of 140. On the compatibility rateing. Thats really good, And. Our relationship is super, I've never had anything go better in my life,

[hsshannah96]

I did eharmony match and everything

[hsshannah96]

I was on for a while. I never found squat. Just fuckboys

[hsshannah96]

It does NOT weed out the wrong guys

[NHI2017]

Did you answer all the questions truthfully? Keep trying, Hard Work creates its own luck.

[hsshannah96]

Yeah I did Lmdao hard work has done NOTHING for me

[NHI2017]

Lol if i was single, Id help you out and get to know you. ;p. But i can't go there. I really do wish you the best tho.

[OlderThanILook]

No, I want a relationship with sex being a part of it.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I don't think all men want just sex trust me

[FilmGuy93]

No. I would like something more than sex, I'm just running out of energy to chase it.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Your mother is right, we are not, only the right girl or a good girl who know to seduce us and have a special charm can change a guy/boy/man completly.
A woman can make a man to rise or vanish.

Personal i'm looking for serios girl and look for something serios, because "dick in a vagina" is a whaste of time for both.

[hsshannah96]

Lmfao it isn’t my responsibility to get a man to do anything. F off

[hsshannah96]

A true man knows what he wants and will obtain it in a HEALTHY way. not the way via the blood pulsating in your penis.

[William2198]

Na I want marriage.

[Jamie05rhs]

You should have made a poll.

[hsshannah96]

Just did! Go view it

[Jamie05rhs]

Cool!

[Jamie05rhs]

This one?

Guys, Let’s do this easier as a vote. Sex with someone only and then go hang with the bros or relationship? ↗

[hsshannah96]

Yep that’s it!

[Jamie05rhs]

Sweet!

[convo_king89]

Sex has to be a part of it, otherwise we can be in a relationship.

[hsshannah96]

So in other words you’re going to make the girl take a horrible risk just to be with you. And you just want sex mainly. thanks for your honesty

[hsshannah96]

You’re fine was just waiting on the sexual Pervy replies so I can prove to people you all are just a bunch of wild animals.

[hsshannah96]

Let me know when you have stuck your dick in the next girl and then never ever spoke to her again the day after

[Alexandrubaschet08]

if the girl doesn't know to keep us what you expect. I have some girls that even today i regret i couldn't be whit them (i wanted, they didn't) but we spend time togeder.

[hsshannah96]

@Alexandrubaschet08 lmao. It isn’t our job to do all the work jackass.

[hsshannah96]

@Alexandrubaschet08 entitled jackass. Goodbye

[IncognitoBandito]

It's not the only ingredient, just a key one.

[hsshannah96]

It clearly doesn’t keep y’all around. 😂😂😂😂 so why would I have it when I meet you or even a month or two into a nice relationship when you’re just going to run away

[Jamie05rhs]

@hsshannah96 IKR