What's so important to having sex?

okey so when I was texting my boyfriend, he told me that he wanted to have sex with me, but I told him that he has to wait until I'm ready to have that cause I'm only 15 I don't know why he asked me that even though we are both 15 but what is so important to having sex like what's the point of having it?
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  • Your boyfriend wants to have sex with you because he finds you attractive, and also because he wants to experience what sex feels like. That is a natural biological urge for him. His hormones are telling him to do that.

    However, sex is a 2-way street, and it must be consensual. If you don't want to have sex yet, let me be clear: You Don't Have To! Just because you're his girlfriend, that doesn't give him any right to touch you in any way.

    Your boyfriend isn't necessarily a bad person for wanting sex. However, if you tell him no and he still continues to pressure you, then that isn't cool. You should not tolerate that behavior. Put your foot down; and if he doesn't listen to you and respect your wishes, dump him.

    • Thank you for the MHO!

    • no problem

    • how come i didn't get mho seems like a biased mho, to me

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  • Well you say that he is your boyfriend, what so important about having a boyfriend? :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/SexlessMarriage

    • that there someone that always there for you when you want them to be, and they love you and care for you so much the same as I do

    • well, that's in my oppion

    • girls just like to say they do, because they're all about "status" she doesn't actually have a boyfriend, if she hasn't had sex with him yet

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  • Sex feels good and our society celebrates it to great extents. Arguably too much. But you're right to not be in a hurry and to wait until you're ready. One day you'll have a better understanding. In the meantime, try not to worry about it overmuch.

    • okey thanks for letting me know

  • What's important is waiting for someone special. A teenage boy is a horndog who will have sex with a corpse.

    • okey thanks for letting me know

  • Because its an important part of a relationship, but only when you are ready and old enough to understand the implications and responsibilities.

  • The point of sex is to share love in a deeper way. Good for you for waiting until you are ready. You only get one first time.

    • okey thanks for telling me this

  • It is another way of expressing love and it feels good.

  • Just know this no an I mean no one will wait for to long I don't care how Pretty the girl us or how nice she is looking or acting or what ever.
    God Bless

    • thanks for letting me know god bless you to

    • Not a problem. God Bless

  • some people, profit off it

    • also, how do you know you have a boyfriend, if you haven't even had sex yet LMAO

    • I'm way to young to be having sex lmao

    • then you don't have a boyfriend, LMAO

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  • I think the point is to increase connection and feeling good

    • what do you mean by that?

    • I think the point of sex and why it’s important is it has the potential to increase connection and it feels good

    • oh okey

  • Sex feels good but by law u have to wait to 16

    • wait to 16 what the heck xD

    • i think it should be older than that lmao

  • Better bond I don't know

  • If he gets full erection and you are too hot, then No problem, you can

    • im only 15 though lmao

    • @xmayax, then use medicine to cool down your sex

    • okey I'll try doing that to see if it works.

  • Care of him
    Dont opay him

  • You are much better off to wait.

    • ok good cause I'm way to young to have that anyways

  • He's probably be happy with making out and playing with your boobs a little.

    • umm okey o, o

  • It feels really good but yeah you shouldn’t be having sex at 15

    • yeh ik I'm way to young to be having that

    • There is a lot of responsibility involved in that because the chance of bringing new life into this crazy world

    • yeh that's what I'm thinking to

  • Sex is very important. But so is respecting sex. If he continues to try and have sex before you are comfortable, especially while you are under 18, it'll be time for you to dump him because he's showing you no respect.

    • okey thanks for letting me know this

    • You're welcome.