First MMF with girlfriend and her ex, any tips on what to expect? Is it different from an MFM?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend and I are discussing our first threesome with another guy. We did one with another girl and it was awesome. I got to take the other girl from behind while she was eating out my girlfriend. My girlfriend also made out with her and fingered her so I know she’s not afraid of experimenting. So part of the deal was the we would have a threesome with another girl and then a threesome with another guy. She specifically said she wants an MMF threesome and not an MFM so I’m not sure if there’s a difference but I am up for whatever. We agreed we would try one with her ex because she is comfortable with him and she said he would be perfect because he is bisexual as well. One thing we do a lot when we’re having sex is dirty talk and fantasies and one of her fantasies she asks if I would ever experiment. At first, this turned me off completely but the more I saw how turned on she got, the more I thought I could be convinced if it’s the right scenario. We’ve tried pegging a few times and she got really turned on by it and I thought it felt good too.
Does anyone have any tips or advice about what to expect for my first MMF threesome?

[RobT312]

Yeah well an MMF is different from an MFM.
In an MFM the 2 guys worship the woman for the most part. With the MMF everyone freely touches each other and bi stuff is part of it.
tried an MMF recently and all 3 enjoyed it. As long as all 3 of you are into it it could be a fun experience. Sounds a little weird that the other guy is her ex but I don’t judge !

[Anonymous]

Is your girlfriend a little dominant? She was turned on by pegging you and you liked it too. Her ex is bi-sexual. So your girlfriend is going to want to see some male on male action too. She might participate or just sit back on direct the action.

[Asker]

Direct the action? I hadn’t thought of that. That could be fun, though, if there’s no judgement afterwards.

[Opinion Owner]

If she is a Domme, she will most likely direct her subs. On might be an Alpha and one a beta. She will be teaching you bi-sexuality, the ex already is. Now is your turn to learn. This is what my experience is with a MMF , the female was the Dominant and she directed us.

[Asker]

How was your experience? Do you have any more tips?

[Aurora1010]

Only do it if you're sure and not just to please your girlfriend... you shouldn't have a bisexual sex session just for that reason because you may regret it later.

[SnakeBoop]

... find a dude who isn't related to either of you in any way to have sex with.

[Asker]

Thanks. You think it being her ex might make things complicated?

[SnakeBoop]

for sure. who suggested the ex? cuz thats sus if she did.

[Asker]

Her ex is a mutual friend of ours. That’s actually how we met. I knew them when they were dating. I suggested it thinking she wouldn’t be comfortable with him at first but then she agreed that he would be good for both of us.

[SnakeBoop]

yeah nah... just no

[Asker]

Thanks @snakeboop. I’ll bring that up with her. We might have to find someone else. 😌

[wagsingle]

I'm bi and love them. Are you bi-curious? You've already let her peg you and it felt good. Do you think you would be ok with him fucking you while she sucks you off? It might feel really good to experience both at the same time. by the way, if you do, INSIST HE WEAR A CONDOM!

[Berethor]

Expect a lot of gay shit, but looks like you into it.

[Asker]

You have experience with it too?

[Berethor]

No, I would never agree to pegging and MMF with half a gay guy.

[Asker]

You seem to be overcompensating. You use the word “gay” in every reply. It sounds like you’re in denial. It’s okay though. We won’t judge you.

[DonkeyDan]

The main difference between a MFM and MMF is the MFM is 2 straight guys fucking a woman, a MMF is bi guys fucking a woman and each other.
Other than that they're basically the same.

[Asker]

Oh, got it. Yeah I didn’t realize there was a difference. I probably should’ve searched for it on Google first.

[raj2022]

I would suggest to concentrate on him and make him crazy so that your girl can have a good show as well as he becomes addicted to you, not your girlfriend

[Asker]

Oh, we gave her a good show all right.

[raj2022]

Not only show, you need to suck her boyfriend much better than her. DM me so that I can share more ideas with you

[Twalli]

MMF means that it isn't two guys doing a girl it's twi guys doing each other and the girl

[LegendaryIcon]

threesomes are immoral af

[Asker]

Yeah? What do you mean?

[LegendaryIcon]

what do you think i mean

[Asker]

You said it’s immoral. I was asking for an explanation so you can feel free to share your thoughts.

[LegendaryIcon]

im telling you, they're immoral

[Asker]

What is immoral about it? I’m giving you the opportunity to express your thoughts.

[LegendaryIcon]

im literally telling you, that it's immoral. there's no much more to explain here. it's immoral

[Asker]

There’s plenty to explain. If something is immoral then it violates a specific moral. So which moral does a threesome violate?

[Asker]

If you can give me a definite answer other than “because I said so” then I’ll reconsider this whole thing.

[LegendaryIcon]

thats' the literal point of immoral though, is im telling you it's wrong. if you don't like it, then do it, but im literally telling you, they are immoral

[Asker]

So it violates your laws and commands and I should just accept it because you’re telling me to? Without any other reason other than you say so? Again, feel free to share what morals this violates.

[wagsingle]

Clearly he's a judgmental religious nut. Probably a biblical literalist.

[wagsingle]

Do you also think you have a right to stone your wife if you suspect she wasn't a virgin on your wedding night, unless her daddy can prove she was? Deuteronomy 22:13-21

[wagsingle]

It violates the laws of his asshole sky daddy. The one that orders armies to kill women and children.

[2021biguy]

You should let her direct but figure out if you want to be on the bottom or top with the other guy.

[Asker]

Yeah. We decided in advance that I would be the bottom.

[2021biguy]

Well, do it then, lol

[Asker]

We did a couple nights ago. It was an exciting experience but I think her ex was weirded out after fucking a dude. Lol. I enjoyed the penetration and my girlfriend completely got off to me bending over for her ex and letting him creampie me.

[2021biguy]

Oh cool, sounds fun :)

[Asker]

Yeah. We’re gonna try with someone neither of us know since it seemed a little too familiar when he was calling my girlfriend by name.

[Jmmmfi4]

Yuck

[Asker]

Do you have anything to add?

[Anonymous]

You should try to find someone other than her ex

[Anonymous]

You are going about it the right way by openly discussing it with each other. It's important that everyone respect each other's wishes. For example if you're not comfortable having a dude suck your dick, make it known either beforehand or when it's happening. In the MMF scenario, you may have feelings of jealousy so it's best to let her know to avoid hard feelings down the road. You may not feel jealous until you see the two of them together, for example her blowing him and swallowing his cum, so plan ahead.

[Asker]

Yeah, we went through the list of possibilities together and I didn’t really find anything that wasn’t off limits for me.

[Opinion Owner]

Is the MMF going to become a reality?

[Asker]

Yeah, we got a dinner planned at 9 tonight then back to our place.

[Opinion Owner]

Let us know how it goes.

[Asker]

Will do. Just stocked up on lots of lube.

[Opinion Owner]

👍👍

[Asker]

So we went for it a couple nights ago and it was interesting. He was average sized like just below 6 inches, which was good because it wasn’t painful at all. My girlfriend really got into it directing us then calling us names. She called me the most names given what position I was in, which was a huge turn on. I got in doggystyle position so I felt the most submissive and her ex was slightly apprehensive about it but soon got in the rhythm and I could tell he was getting close to cumming. That’s when my girlfriend told him to fill my slut ass up, as she put it, which shocked me. But him cumming in me felt awesome and I was dripping for a couple hours after that. He ended up finishing me off while sucking me. He stuck his finger in me while he did it, while his juices were still in me, and I came right in his mouth. My girlfriend told me after that she was surprised I let him completely dominate me by cumming in my ass but I told her I got caught up in the moment and I would’ve done anything.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for sharing. What's next for you and your girlfriend?

[Asker]

I think next time we’re gonna find someone neither of us know. It was kind of weird that he knew my girlfriends name and I knew while he was fucking me that he had also fucked my girlfriend. And when we were cleaning up, he was having an inside conversation with her so I’d rather it be strictly about sex next time. We were supposed to have an FFM next time but I might suggest another MMF because it was a lot of fun.

[Opinion Owner]

Very nice!