How can I stop being so sexual?

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Don't get me wrong I dont wear revealing clothing but I can't keep my hands appropriate when I have my boyfriend in private. Laying down and cuddling is a huge struggle. I can't just tape my hands together. He comes near me and I want to rip his clothes off. Tips?

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Anonymous
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Have him tie you up until he's ready for another round. It will probably turn both of you on. If he takes him too long to be ready for another round, tie him up and force him to watch porn while you masturbate in front of him to help him get horny.
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- Asker
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  My god 😍😍
- zaharuh
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  The first part sounds really fun

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shanshu Explorer
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Why should you? If he doesn't mind then be as sexual as you want.

But if you want to tone it down a little then find a hobbie to pre-occupy yourself.
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Somegirl678 Xper 5
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oml i have the same issue i feel like feeling all over a guys arms and chest and putting my hand underneath their shirt lol im glad to know im not the only one
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- Asker
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  Definitely not lol its like an addiction
- Somegirl678
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  yeah like right now im so horny lol
- Asker
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  Me too! Its killing me
zaharuh Xper 6
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Doesn't really sound like you're that sexual that sounds normal to me lol
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- Asker
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  I just want to be able to spend time with him without fucking all day lol
- Somegirl678
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  can't you just give him head then if u can't actually fuck
- Asker
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  @Somegirl678 not really.

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slatyb Master
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Why do you thnk it’s a problem? It doesn’t sound like a problem to me.
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- Asker
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  I think he's getting insecure about performing and I feel annoying.
Londi73 Xper 1
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Why not just do it? I'm sure your partner would like it.
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- Asker
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  I do but its literally all sex. I think he gets annoyed
- Londi73
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  Most guys wouldn't. By all sex? How many times a week/day?
- Asker
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  We live separately but when we do finally see each other its 4-5 rounds one day over about 7- 9 hours. Its one session after another. Maybe once a week. But I can't just lay with him and watch a movie. I have to drain him
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- Londi73
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  That's pretty intense. But I mean, most guys would be cool with that. Ask him yourself.
- Asker
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  I think he's having insecurities about performance. He will be drained and im ready for more
- Londi73
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  Most guys would die for a girlfriend like you though. It is very rare to find girls that into it. For most girls, it is a chore.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Definitely not for me. I feel like a drug addict and tbh he's not very blessed but his hands just running down my body makes me shake and then I can't get enough. Makes me feel horrible
- Londi73
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  You're not at fault. Your needs are different. That's all. Just know you are a blessing. Girls with high needs are awesome. Just work it out with your boyfriend and find middle ground.
- Asker
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  Awh thank you! I hope so. Might have to tape me to a chair lol
- Londi73
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  Just a suggestion. Maybe make the relationship open or consider another partner if it matters to you a lot. It'll be better for the both of you.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm way to jealous id go Insane but thank you for trying to help
- Londi73
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  I meant in your case. Since your drive is high. But sure. :)
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm not sure i could lol, ill bring it up
- Londi73
  +1 y
  Why not?
- Asker
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  I'm picky and I like the connection. Id feel horrible and scared he would go cheat. I think I'd feel dirty honestly
- Londi73
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  Yup then don't. But consider your options anyway. Just know, you're awesome. Girls like you are a dime a. dozen. It is not your fault. I had a similar issue. I would want it like 10 times a day.
- Asker
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  Ugh I love that thank you so much. You have no idea how much that just helped me.
- Londi73
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  Yup. You're not alone. At least you have someone who tries :) Let me know if you have a twin sister with the same drive. I'll ask her out 🤣
- Asker
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  Lol I dont 😂 sorry
- Londi73
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  Calling dibs on you in the next life then. 🤣
- Asker
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  I'm okay with that lmfao 😂
- Londi73
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  Score. 10 times every day. Next life. All set deal. I'm set already. Next life, here I come. Gonna get milked dry.
Anonymous
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I assume your boyfriend was the one who pursued you or hit on you
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- Asker
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  Yep lol
- Opinion Owner
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  Why am I not surprised
- Asker
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  Right. He said he had a high drive but apparently not