Why do people think guys are hornier than girls?

i actually think theyr both the same
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  • Because they are.
    Men think about sex all the time and most men would be willing to do it almost at the drop of a hat with a vast majority of women... those he knows or complete strangers just so long as they were willing.
    Just the mere sight of a little female skin can get him thinking and get the motor running.

    Now, I don't doubt that once a woman gets into the mood... with the one guy she is into... he's done all the right things... he has romanced her a bit, flirted, been playful, spent some quality time with her... she'll get turned on and once her motor is running... in that moment she can be just as horny as him and want it just as badly and enjoy it much... but the vast majority of women would do it at the drop of a hat with many different guys... just as long as they are willing... etc.

    Women usually taking longer to get into the mood and they are much more choosy about who they would do it with and they aren't as visually stimulated to wear she gets a little glimpse of skin on some random guy and then she ends up horny.

    MOST women aren't hard wired like that. If any woman are like that they are not in the majority.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I agree with you. That's been my observation.
    I just think that girls have to be more circumspect because of social standards. Even if they think about sex all the time, masturbate several times a day, or fuck like wild little monkeys, they have to act like ladies in public or risk a bad reputation.
    However, girls can be very open in talking, squealing and laughing about sex, masturbation, dildos, etc. with their close circle of girlfriends. I doubt if many guys are that open when talking to their buds.
    Of course, everyone is different and I'm not claiming that all girls are as I described. Not all guys are horn dogs, either.

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  • Society isn't as open with women being horny, it is getting more equal all the time but it is almost expected that guys will be, but girls, even if we don't do anything sexual say we are horny can be flagged as sluts for merely being horny.

    I've been called a slut by guys just for saying I'm turned on. Imagine if guys were called some negative term for being turned on?

    I think it is pretty equal, in the big picture over all but the women keep it to themselves more often. At the same time, imagine being a woman and going into somewhere and just talking with your friend about how that hot guy is making you horny. If someone over hears you, he'll walk right up asking to help solve the problem.

    Must not let guys hear us talk that way for that exact reason.

  • I'm not even sure why it has to be a competition about who is more horny. It's natural for everyone to be horny regardless of their gender

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  • Because they are- the chemical core of the human sex drive is testosterone, and men have, on average, ten to twenty times as much as women do. Talk to a woman who's had to take supplemental testosterone; she'll tell you.

    That's not to say that women DON'T want to have sex; it's just less frequent.

  • Because people are inherently prone to believe in stereo types, and I agree with you.

    But honestly I think guys will stoop much lower to get laid than most women will. That's probably why.

  • Probably mostly due to the fact that men have to be the pursuers, in relationships. Men have to work harder, so their intentions, and interests become more obvious. Women often still hide their interests and intentions, till the guy makes his first move, possibly due to older, societal norms.

  • Maybe you're right - I just it depends on when because it's very situational - I think girls are much more picky and selective when it comes to who/what turns them on - I know dudes who'd wake up feeling like could fuck a wall - I think during sex itself when the is comfortable and turned on enough she definitely ends being much hornier than the dude if that makes any sense - But for example if we'd take on a daily basis as well as on a yearly basis - How much women have masturbated/had sex vs how much men have masturbated/had sex - men would win by a landsline

  • Probably because society conditions us to hide it.

  • Yeah agreed it can be the same for both

  • The fact it's so damn hard to get laid with a woman, but most guys are willing to sleep with a girl, proves men's libidos are infinitely stronger than women's. The fact women try to claim they have equal libidos to men, or higher, when they refuse to sleep with most men who aren't Chads, is frankly, insulting. Otherwise, you wouldn't have 0% of the users on apps like Tinder be men, nor would you have women with crazy-inflated egos on dating apps and social media calling themselves "divas, queens, and goddesses" without being told to sit their five cent asses down or laughed out the door. Hell, femcels and female simps don't even exist.

    Why is this even a question. Just stop. If you're willing to have sex with a respectful man on the street who's only a 6 out of 10, then you're not very horny. Even the most reserved men still have higher libidos than self-proclaimed "slutty" 20 year old girls on their periods.

    • (CORRECTIONS) you wouldn't have *80% of the users on apps like Tinder be men Damn 8 didn't type. If you're *not willing to have sex with a respectful man on the street who's only a 6 out of 10

  • And I agree with you 100%

  • It’s equal. Woman are less emotional about it. 🙃

    • How do you mean? Do you mean women separate sex from emotion more then men?

    • @jerdanro It was a loose joke. Woman are always broadly classified as emotional, but men can be pretty intense when it comes to their fav piece.

    • True

  • Trust me, guys are really hornier than you think!

  • It's not comparable. Women don't tend to have sex because they want sex. They have sex because of what they can get out of sex (for example, deeper emotional connections, keeping their boyfriends interested for them, money, flattery, attention, etc.) That's not a bad thing, but it's not the same kind of attraction as a guy that wants to have sex because it feels good and satisfies his sexual urges. That's the reason why a man will be way more likely to fuck earlier in a relationship than a woman will, and a woman will almost never have sex with a guy that they dont have an emotional attachment with.

  • Because of the overwhelming preponderance of evidence.

    • What?

  • It's a popular myth, but I agree with you. We see more questions on GAG from women wondering why their partner is uninterested in sex..

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  • IMHO, girls are hornier than guys, they just don't advertise it as much as guys do.

  • ok... 4 horny girls on this post vs. 46 horny guys... i have no idea.

  • Possibly because we make a few million sperm a week and you only make one egg per month.

  • Guys are more overt and expressive about their sexuality than women are.

  • I've had sex with over 500+ women and I know they're actually the ones more horny than men, they've just been s! ut shamed because of this Christianized society. It's much different in places like SE Asia Philippines or Thailand, the women are AGGRESSIVE about wanting to have sex with me.

  • simple answer: testosterone.

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