By the literal definition of the word? Well yeah, it's very weird. But obviously if you're going with a different definition, as in, is it a bad thing that you've only had sex with one person, by that age, I'd say, that's completely subjective, and up to you to decide.
For women, it's uncommon to have only had one partner by that age. Even for the average man, who typically has fewer partners, that's probably on the lower side. Not a bad thing though, unless you feel like you've missed out.
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Thank you. I find that very sweet. My ex boyfriend told me ''you're not ready for it'' and laughed. He made me feel degraded as a woman, as a person.
I don't think it's weird, just not that common. I think it's good if you're selective with who you sleep with
No, it's fine. Nothing wrong with it. Infact less the better
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think it is absolutely beautiful and I applaud you for having that much strength for me there's no way I could have done that there's no way that I would want to even do that because if you know what you're doing with making love it is the most beautiful thing in this world and the guy who you're going to be with I hope that he makes it all about you so you enjoy it and you crave it you want it all the time after that because it is such a beautiful thing
Who cares if it’s “weird”. Society might think It’s weird. Society is made up of selfish, irresponsible idiots.
True. In the end the only thing that counts is how I feel and being happy to be in a new relationship.
No. It's unusual, but not weird. You value yourself to be with people you care for.
yes and hopefully I'm right about my new boyfriend this time. Unlike the previous one whom my mother hated, with this one I have approval from my parents, my friend and other family members. They all like him and think he's decent for far. Lets see how it goes. Like stated I'm taking things at a natural pace.
Good for you. All the best.
Not weird if you have a taste and you are choosy
I am 23 and my body count is 0. You should be proud of yourself. Sleeping with lots of men is cheap.
Not at all. No guy will have a problem with that.
Maybe, but not enjoying the experience of being with someone kind of defeats the purpose of having sex in the first place, doesn't it? 🧐
Honestly there is nothing good to even remember about my first. Everything was a lie, even the friendship, his age, the emotions involved, the intimacy, the false hopes of one day getting married. He faked it all. My first turned out to be a sociopath. I hope I get it right with this current relationship.
Sounds unhealthy at best, toxic otherwise. You should keep your options open and talk to guys you enjoyed being around with common interests to talk about. Dating shouldn't be an ordeal. It's O. K. to have fun with a guy who respect's you enough to be honest with you.
Take your time. You will be some man's treasure.
Thank you. I feel valued with my current boyfriend. My ex boyfriend used to pressure me into believing in god and would speak over me. If I tried voicing my opinion and disagreeing in something, it felt like nothing I said was right so I would pretend to agree with him at all times to avoid upsetting him. If I upset him then he would give me the silent treatment (not speak to me for days) or scream at me over the phone to the point of I was feeling degraded. I could never understand why on earth he would start screaming all of the sudden when I voice a disagreement or told him he was doing something that bother me. I wasn't even arguing. I used to cry at some point. He would go from sweet to yelling all of the sudden. It was a good day and then suddenly I was in tears and thinking ''what the hell happened''.
Aaah, but, how many TIMES did you fuck him?
My count is only 3, but I've had sex at least 100 times.
I don't know but it's something I just want to forget. He's one of the most disgusting people I've ever had the bad luck. He was a real life sociopath. It's just that he's the type that doesn't commit violence but scams and plays with people and has zero to little compassion/empathy.
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It is not weird. Everyone goes at their own pace. You may someday be glad you do not have a big body count.
Thank you and I agree. My current boyfriend and I are taking things at a natural pace, not rushing into it.
I wish you the best.
It's not weird. There is no normal. Everyone's situation is different.
hmm I may have to slide in and steal your azz from #2
I am 31 and haven't slept with anyone you are doing great cheers 🥂
No it’s not weird, but others might see it differently
True. Some can see me as selective and others as whatever. I fall within the ''I'm reserved and kind of shy'' crowd.
Nothing weird or wrong
Nope.
Strange.
No. It is good. You valued yourself. What happened with the first guy? Was it forced?
No it wasn't forced. This is a horrible person (a legit sociopath and narcissist) that used me for both sex and money. When I met him (I was then 19 and he told me he was 21/22 years old), he even lied about his real age. Many years later, then he tells me he was really 30 years old. Ewwwww Then he was after my grandma's rent and money to. He kept asking questions about my father's earnings and was informing that my father has to already include me and my younger brother under his living will.
He kept delaying coming to my country to visit me (we were on a forever on-off long-distance relationship since 2007) and marrying me. That was the purpose... to marry and have kids with my first. But he used me. He wanted to marry me for my wealth and future status (I want to built a restaurant in the future) and didn't care one bit about my limited reproductive years to bear a child.
Well you made the choice to sleep with them then. Women are generally in charge of sex and men in charge of relationships.
Not weird at all.
My girlfriend is 35 and I've been her only sex partner
That's sweet. Make her happy. My first was a truly bad person I now detest.
A legitimate, real sociopath to be exact. Someone no person ever wants to meet.
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