Ugh I have a hard time looking at my boyfriend when we have sex?

[Jasmine2121]

So he gets turned on even more when I look him in his eyes while we’re having sex but whenever I try I get really awkward and turn really quiet. Like i feel like I kinda ruin the mood because he starts asking me if I’m okay or why I look like that and it’s just all around horrible. I don’t know what to do. I guess I’m not comfortable yet to do that yet or get really loud when we’re fucking… like he really be doing his thing but I don’t know why I always keep my moans really down low smh and sometimes he thinks it’s him. Why am I likeeee thisssss

[Waldoe]

as you get older you will be able to express yourself more... some people are more comfortable being "loud" and/or expressing their wants and desires... you might have to force yourself over that hurdle, it will be worth it... because then you will be able to ask for what you want and need

[pizzalovershouse]

Just remember you care or him an if you learn to look at him you can see his excitement an tease him with your faces of excitement

[Jasmine2121]

That’s true I’m gonna try to relax and just be in the moment instead of being stuck in my head

[pizzalovershouse]

Great idea

[RearEntryGuy]

Oh... standard "lovemaking-awkwardness". I think it happens to us all, until we learn to hide it.

For me, I "practice" outside the bedroom with my date via saucy sex convo. I'll make sure we talk openly and establish eye contact when we touch on very embarrassing topics.

It's quite fun actually. Very awkward in the beginning, then after a few dates, it becomes like normal conversations. Finally, in the bedroom, we still feel awkward, but a lot better than never talked.

[cloudnymo]

I don't really think comfortable is d word here I feel like there's a bit of fear. Your body is willing buh ur spirit is not , lol m not trying to quote anything here but d best solution is to embrace whatever is happening at that moment. Just give urself up think about moments with him or something that will make u leave the real world to a place where u find just the two of u. U really don't need to look at him

[bowenw]

Everyone is different. If you don't enjoy looking into his eyes tell him it's a turn off for you and you have to close your eyes, or try doggy style or another position without eye contact.

[Wise4myage]

Stop being so bashful.

[Stevefiveo]

Everyone is different. It sounds like you are trying so he need to be patient with you.

[Jasmine2121]

Thank you

[Stevefiveo]

You're welcome. Good luck.

[jahaims]

Could be sexual guilt or not feely good enough.

[PeterSmith1983]

Just do what your comfortable with! Hope that besides these points you do enjoy sex with your boyfriend?

[Jasmine2121]

yeah I enjoy having sex with him for sure. I think sometimes I get too stuck in my head

[PeterSmith1983]

Yes you do! Just don't think about this and enjoy how he makes you cum

[Guardian45]

How cute!

[Jasmine2121]

It’s not cute lol.

[Guardian45]

When my girlfriend does that, I find it SO ADORABLE!

[Anonymous]

He wants you to moan load scream fuck me fuck me oh baby
your big cocks feel good inside me when you do that he
knows he giving you a good fuck

[Anonymous]

That’s normal. I get distracted if I’m being watched, especially in the missionary position.

[Jasmine2121]

Exactly !

[Anonymous]

You're not ready for sex if you can't be mature enough to look at your partner, have emotions or tell him your preferences.

[Jasmine2121]

I mean that doesn’t necessarily mean I’m not “mature enough for sex” lolll