Do you feel orgasm directly through intercourse? How do I achieve that?

[Shadow_yours]

My husband doesn’t last as long and I also take time to reach orgasm.
when he rubs me with hand, I do orgasm. Multiple times even

and we did that, and before I could orgasm, he went in but I still didn’t orgasm.

i only feel the pleasure rise for 3 secs the first time he goes on
but after that it dies
and my orgasm never happens through his pe**s

i feel so heartbroken

i really hate having sex because of this because i only feel full orgasm through hand or oral sex only :,(

[all_hayl]

So……were you afraid to write penis? If so, maybe you have some growing up to do (?). Here, I’ll help you out.
Penis. Testicles. Erection. Vagina. Vulva. Labia. Orgasm. Fellatio. Cunniligus.

What you’re describing don’t sound uncommon. Men typically orgasm more quickly. Women often have trouble orgasming except via oral or manual stimulation. Maybe you and your husband need to educate yourselves a little bit on the ins and outs of sex. (?)

[Shadow_yours]

Pe***s

[bowenw]

Some women I've been with are the same. It's nothing to be hard on yourself over. It may help if you use a small vibrator or finger yourself during intercourse. It can be extremely sexy to watch a girl in cowgirl fingering herself. If you prefer to be more discreet, finger or vibrate yourself in doggy style.

[Dargil]

There are no sexual protocols. If fingers or his mouth do it for you, lay back and enjoy it.

[imjustadude]

You are normal. Keep rubbing that clit.

[Mr1derful]

I'd start with oral, my hand and or a vibe toy to warm her up while kissing etc. When she's good and ready then sex is awesome. I'd continue to rub her clit and suck her nipples etc to ensure she orgasms while inside her. Or a vibrating cock ring toy always does the job too and she can be in cowgirl and ride me with it vibrating on her clit and I'm hands free to use them on her body.

[888theGreat]

quit reading all the female BS magazines. They are lying about all that stuff half the time.

[Waldoe]

he gives you orgasms the way that you enjoy, so you should do the same for him... he likes Pussy... and you like fingers... so both of you can have what you like... don't be selfish

[Freespirit777]

Only one third of woman are capable of having a vaginal orgasm. But if you want your man to last longer, have him masturbate about one to two hours before you have sex. Tell him to slow down with his strokes. He can also edge himself by stopping before he cums and letting himself cool down before starting again. These are tried and true methods I have learned through the years.

[Shadow_yours]

He doesn’t like masterbating himself so I will perhaps do that for him And we will see hopefully that will work for us

[Shadow_yours]

I do feel sad about that. One of my friend gets orgasm through intercourse and she told me it’s best feeling ever and said what’s the point of sex w my husband then if i can just do it w my own hand 😭😭😭😭 i am a little upset by that. I wish there was something to cure this

[Anonymous]

Try drill machine

[Opinion Owner]

Or even better try jack hammer

[Anonymous]

"i really hate having sex because of this because i only feel full orgasm through hand or oral sex only"

What?

[Shadow_yours]

Are all guys this mean on this site?

[Anonymous]

Most women don’t just from intercourse.

[Anonymous]

I always make sure that my partner has several orgasms through me using my hand, a vibrator, going down on her, or some combination. In my experience, after the first one or two orgasms, the next orgasms are much easier to achieve and my partner is more likely to orgasm when I enter her and engage in PIV sex.

Does that not work for you?

[Shadow_yours]

We tried that and no That means thus going to be my sex life forever 😥😥😭

[Opinion Owner]

Is he willing to give you lots of oral?

[Shadow_yours]

Yeah he is willing

[Opinion Owner]

It could be worse. . .