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Does this mean masturbation satisfies him more than sex?

My boyfriend and I are in our early 20s. When we have sex, he doesn't go to sleep he just goes and smokes a cigarette and watches TV for a long time. I believe the sex is good between us and he says he also enjoys it. But he masturbates while I'm at work and I can always tell when he does it, because he'll fall asleep after doing it and won't answer my texts for hours. Ugh. So if masturbating puts him to sleep but having sex with me doesn't make him sleepy, does that mean masturbating is more satisfying to him than my pussy? Starting to make me self conscious because this constantly happens. He just goes into a deep sleep for hours after he masturbates and is always active after sex..
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  • First don't over think. Sex is definitely MUCH MUCH better than masturbation.

    Next, how do you monitor that he was sleeping after masturbation? By mere no reply after text?

    What if he was tired and was planning to sleep. It's mere habitual for him to masturbate before sleep? (I just think out loud, there could be more possibilities.)

    Yes, it's easy to fall asleep after sex. I slept most of the time.

    But could he be affected by articles in the Internet to resist sleeping but instead to cuddle, kiss, etc?

    And he over do it by smoking, then not sleep at all? Why not ask him the real reason?

    To conclude, I think you think too much. From the fact that he have sex with you regularly shows that he enjoys it. Sleep or not is not the important result, unless you want him to cuddle and sleep with you.

    • Why does masturbating put him to sleep but sex with me doesn't? You just said that you sleep after sex most of the time. My boyfriend never does. And it makes me feel like I'm not satisfying him sexually.

    • I already wrote. A possibility is that he intentionally made himself so because he thought this is the way to please you (articles telling man to stay awake after sex is all over the Internet).

    • And trust us guys on this: When we return for more sex, you're "good enough". Hence stop worrying. It may ruin your relationship.

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  • You've had a kit 8 or so people tell you to stop bugging, and you respond to every individual the same way... Sti. Bugging. From personal experience if the sex was shit he's stop doing it. I once love a girl very much but the sex was just bad... It eventy got to the point. Where we just never had sex at all. Which eventually lead to mistakes happening followed by the end of our relationship. My point is, if he didn't like it he'd either go without it or find it somewhere else. Stop reading into the whole sleeping issue, he could just be an insomniac much like myself.

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  • Maybe he's just lazy and like to take naps. Maybe the sex gets him more excited and he can't go to sleep. Try fucking him again after you have sex. Or tell him to stop being a lazy bum and get a job.

  • No it doesn't mean that. He sleeps all day so he is taking a long nap and then isn't sleepy later when you come home. It doesn't have anything to do with you.

    • No, sex with me just doesn't put him to sleep, even if he doesn't nap that day. What could that mean? I thought good sex was supposed to make guys fall asleep.

    • It means you are hot and exciting and his heart rate is going too fast to fall asleep.

  • masturbating is not as exciting as sex.. it ends up relaxing the guy, sex leaves the guy excited... sounds like he is Loving your pussy...

  • Masturbation is never better than sex with a woman. It is just something to get you by until you can have sex with a woman.

    • Why does masturbating put him to sleep but after having sex with me he doesn't even get sleepy?

  • Most people in relationships still continue to masturbate. It’s a problem is his wanking is replacing sex, he’s probably using masturbating to relax or de stress. Speaking for myself I prefer sex over masturbating

    vagina feels way better😉

    • But why does masturbating relax him so much that he falls asleep after, but sex doesn't make him fall asleep. In fact, I'm ready for bed after sex to cuddle and sleep and he would rather stay up for another 3 to 4 hours and smoke cigs and watch tv..

  • He is addicted with masturbation thats all

    • If I were good at sex, he wouldn't have to be addicted to masturbating.

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  • No, because you are still having sex, otherwise I think he could be addicted to porn. As for watching TV afterwards, that's likely just a quirk of his.

    • But why does masturbating relax souch that he falls asleep after, but sex doesn't make him fall asleep. In fact, I'm ready for bed after sex to cuddle and sleep and he would rather stay up for another 3 to 4 hours and smoke cigs and watch tv..

    • *relax him so much

    • Yeah, you need to ask him that.

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