Guys, is it okay for your girlfriend to withhold sex?

Now, when I say this, I don’t mean it in a “weapon” way or doing it as punishment. If I have sex one day, I think having less sex prevents your boyfriend from getting bored of your body faster and wanting to move on to another woman.
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  • I understand your thoughts but is a wrong approach. I'm definitely not talking about myself, but most men somehow consider it a kind of birthright that the woman must always be there for him sexually, which is of course nonsense, that would make them more likely to cheat. Personally, it is more important to me that she really is Wants to fuck with me. And even if she doesn't feel like it for a week or two because the work is stressful or something similar, that's okay. Fazit: He won't find you less attractive just because you fuck a lot, rather the opposite is the case. And if he does, then he is someone who by nature cannot live monogamous.

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  • I can see your reasoning, but I think he's more likely to get bored of waiting and find another woman on those grounds. You'd do better by being more adventurous; willing to try new things and suggest some of your own. You only have the one body, but you can always learn new things to do with it.

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  • The thing is, when you as a woman withhold sex from your boyfriend, he's more than likely gonna think that you are not attracted to him. That is one of the the most effective ways to show your boyfriend that you love, and adore him, and if you withhold that, even when there are no evil intentions behind it, he's gonna think you don't find him attractive.

  • No, it’s not. He won’t get bored and move on. But if you repeatedly frustrate him, why would he stay?

  • You need a compatible personality for a partner to not get bored. Couples that rely solely on sexual satisfaction to stay together don't last.

  • Withhold may be the wrong word. If you don't want to, it is fine.

  • If you're doing it for biological
    Reasons I don't see how this is abusive

    • However, the way you're thinking about it could border on controlling behavior. Why do you feel the need to control him?

  • That's the absolute dumbest thing I've ever heard of in my entire life. Honey... guys don't get bored of sex. Ever.

  • I don't need a girlfriend then

  • She doesn't have to agree to sex every time, but I probably won't stay if she doesn't want it too often

  • Not at all

  • My ex was once every 2-3months and even when she would it was no good. All she ever did was lay there and moan, nothing else. She could generally not even excite me. She is only the 2nd woman that I have experienced like that.

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