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Video Games and Porn are more enjoyable than actual women for me now. What should I do?

I actually enjoy video games more then the conversations I've been having with girls. None of them are you interested at in history or philosophy so you get no mental stimulation. Then I get tired of looking at the same face and body all the time. I crave variety now. But I also don't like actually having sex with girls I barely know. Is there any way out? I have a girlfriend too and I'm getting bored of her too
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  • Ditch the games and porn. At least with the games. You can toss your consoles on eBay and any gaming hardware. So, you don't really have an option to play them anymore.

    You also mentioned bad politics and news 24/7 in one of your replies. Block the news channels, dislike/block any of it in news feeds, and stop reading about it. Best decision I ever made. Now I don't have to sit around being angry, all the time, about stuff that really doesn't affect me. My news feeds are just the stuff that interests me. Science, technology, archeology and such. Too much mention of politics and I dislike the article.

    • yeah the news and stuff makes me not want to have kids and if i'm not having kids I dont see a point in a relationship tbh. maybe with time i can change it around.

Most Helpful Guy

  • They might not be interested in discussing history or philosophy, but at least they discuss. Porn a video games don't talk to you at all. I would suggest making your New Year resolution to give up both and see a therapist. That's not a healthy mentality.

    • I'm considering a therapist but I don't know

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  • Keep on playing those games and looking and porn, break up with your girlfriend your bored of so she can move on to a guy who is into her.

    Nothing wrong with video games and porn, if that makes you happy just don't lead her on.

    • But the issue is we're engaged and she's clinging on for dear life. Now I just feel super bad and no way out tbh. I kinda can't back out now

    • Actually you can back out now, otherwise its going to be a miserable marriage that you either both suffer through or you end up divorced. It will hurt, I won't lie... but it will be for the best in the long run.

    • I dont think I can watch her cry. I do care about her. I'm just bored of the sex we have and bored of the specific conversations we have a lot of times. It wasn't always this way though. I do love her but I just need new stimulation.

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  • Wow! That’s a major problem. Throw the damn games away! I think you should detach from everything virtual and only live your life with reality. Your brain has been rewired.

    • You're probably right but I can't just give em up like that. I am seeking help from a therapist though. Tomorrow I'm putting in a few calls. If I can afford one I'm thinking of going.

    • Hey buddy, I wish you only the best. Sorry I’m so blunt, I just wanted it to be clear that there is an urgency there to correct that so you can be happy in life. I’m rooting for your success and a restoration so you can enjoy the real aspects of life to the fullest you were meant to. Sending brotherly love

  • You probably need to experiment with some group sex and swingers , to get yourself over the fantasy life..

  • Sounds like your brain addicted to stimulation…. Dopamine hits. A human cannot keep up with that. Turn off the games and porn or just keep being a druggie and end up like the people driving be vans from the 1960s.

  • Fast from both or ruin your life longterm.

    That's really it.

  • I guess that depends on what future you want. If you want to grow old alone with your video game and porn you can go that route it's easy and effortless.

    • Retirement communities are full of old folks that get along pretty well. You can make new friends

    • Yeah if you got that personality nd live in the right culture for it.

    • People used to describe me as a man's man. I make friends with guys quickly because I'm chill af, share beer, crack lots of jokes, and can relate and an opened about it

  • You need a reality check, unless you want to spend the rest of your life in the virtual world and not in the real world.

    • With all the shitty politics and sad news 24/7 I don't think it's the worst decision to do so tbh. I wasn't always this way either

    • I spent 24 years if my life in virtual reality now I'm bored of it. And I don't wanna live in real life either. I jus want non existentce... Virtual reality will eventually get boring my friend. Real life is probably more entertaining. I jus don't have the balls to experience it

  • play video games and watch porn

  • Then you're not doing it right, and are a boring git.

    • I said nothing rude or bad but you attack me. why is it every single tw*t in the UK always has to be such a c*nt about everything? you all exhibit the same f*cking pattern. Random Guy: "I dont see the hype in women" Brit Men: "To arms in honor of thee ladies!"

  • Kill yourself. Just kidding put down the joystick and take out your joystick and get a real woman before it's too late because you're plugged into the wrong outlet.

  • Leave the girls to us.

    • "to us"?

    • Good. You can read.

    • who is "us", ma'am?

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  • I don't blame you. Girls are all bitch cunts in the head all egotistical full of their self think they're all hit shit. Only thing they're good for is looks but personality wise it would be stupid to get a girlfriend, who wants some naggy annoying bitch?
    Fuck that. Better to jus watch porn and forget about females. Or buy prostitutes

    • I mean my girlfriend is cool and loyal and submissive toe but I get no mental stimulation from her anymore. It wasn't all it was cracked up to be. Having sex with the same person gets old and boring. Always having to cater to her pace makes me lose arousal. I no longer enjoy foreplay and I'm asking why I'm there when we are having sex.

  • self deception.

    • i dont think so. I really do enjoy video games more than talking to my girlfriend and really enjoy seeing different girls' faces. Some nights I can jerk to Asians, other nights blondes, other nights Ebonies, etc.

    • nothing compared with always seeing the face of a good woman in your bed.

    • i mean... if you can find one sifting through the large crowd. But that's just me.

  • You fell in the Trap or maybe you fell out of the Trap think about it. If you don't want kids you're probably better off where you're at

  • You need to invest in your girlfriend, bro.
    How is your relationship? What do you guys do together?

  • Start working out and eating better. You will start to naturally feel better about yourself. You can still play games and beat it to porn. Just don’t overdo it.

    • I actually hit the gym several times a week and watch what I eat. But ty 💪👍

    • I used to get bored with women too. I’d regularly run 4-6 women. You say that none of them want to engage in history or philosophy? You join any forums that talk about such? Meet at any clubs in town…Group meetings? Join a local bike club (if you like that), hiking? You will do just fine. Hang in there.

    • well I live in a small town of 4,500. It's really hard tbh. of those 38% are young singles. We have more girls than guys here by a small margin. The nearest town over is about 15,700 population as well and the next has a population of 12,900. Then you have to go pretty far out. The pickings are rather slim. I have to go out far if I want variety. I think most of the girls who like such stuff are college educated but I think most them in turn want a guy making $$$. It's just frustrating tbh. Like I'm a good looking guy, girls tell me all the time. But it's not like I have the $$$ to keep one that would mentally stimulate me I think.

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  • Enjoy video games and porn, Bella ciao to women.

  • go your own way and stop bothering other people about your decision

    • How am I bothering anyone? I just asked a question.

    • are you gonna go your own way? truly?

    • Go my own way? What do you mean?

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  • You really hit home on the lack of mental stimulation women typically bring to the table.

    Think about it, if it wasn't for the sex, would you guys really hang out with your girlfriends or wives as much as you do? Are they really that interesting?

    It makes me so glad to be bisexual! Women won't work? Just get a hot crossdresser

    • being bi or asexual as a man has got to be the best f*cking thing. I wish i was one or the other sometimes. Alas I am super horny and other men repulse me tbh.

    • What about chicks with dicks?

    • nah they're still dudes to me.

  • Change the positions and locations you have sex

  • Tell her.

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