Girls some questions about sex based stuff?

[Anonymous]

Girls would you be okay dating a guy who wouldn't want to get BJ's but would be happy to go down on you?

Would you be okay if they couldn't do positions from behind or things like spanking?

Would you be happy to cuddle with your partner after sex like the half spoon where one is laid on therw back and the other is cuddle up into there side? I kinda like the idea of being able to cuddle up to my partner like that.

What would you expect a guy to do with his pubes?

If they asked you to not shave or whatever would you be willing to try leaving your pubes be if they wanted to see what it's like or found it hot? Just if they asked but left the decision. To you.

Would you be willing to try anal and pegging? Including if the pegging went first do the guy could know more what it's like for you?

Where would you be okay with a guy finishing?

Would you be happy to have sex without removing many/any clothes?

Would you be okay with the guy not taking your underwear/lingerie off during sex but like moving them aside, so pulling your knickers down but leaving them over on leg, or pushing your bra up so that access can be got but the guy can still see you in your underwear?

Would you be willing to wear a. swmisuot/bikini to bed of the asked?

Would you be okay with a guy if they have a thing for women's underwear?

Would you be happy to let the guy shower with you and wash/soap you up or bathe?

Would you enjoy if the guy gave you a massage and then oral and that being it in terms of an evenings activities?

Would you enjoy a guy slowly kissing, lickign and suckling and crassesskng all over your body and continuing while slowly strippig. your clothes. off before sex? To me it sounds like super hot. type of foreplay also teasing by skipping certain areas at first.

[Aerissa_Jade]

1. Absolutely, I'm not a fan of giving BJ's, but if he wanted to go down won't stop him. I don't expect him to though if I'm not going to.

2. Not a fan of being spanked or any kind of pain. If you mean no doggie style, that is a great one, but if others could compensate.

3. I like to cuddle afterwards, any position is usually good.

4. He can do whatever he wants with his pubes

5. If my boyfriend asked, sure.

6. I don't do anything anal on my self, but if he really wanted me to peg him, I'd do it.

7. Anywhere not on me, unless we are planning to take a shower together afterwards to wash up.

8. Done that a lot already, in public.

9. Done that a lot already too am fine with it.

10. okay sure.

11. What guy doesn't, seems like most do.

12. Done that before, kind of like it. Especially after messy, sweating sex sessions or potentially before to get things started.

13. Sure, I'd enjoy it. Might want more though after all that.

14. Foreplay is critical to good sex, the more the better as far as I am concerned.

[Asker]

Firstly I would like to thank you for taking the time to answer my questions. 1) So for me going down on a woman is quite the desire if mine but I hate the idea of recieving. 2) Any positions where we aren't facing are a turn off for me I would love to be able to look into her eyes and kiss and that. 6) I'll be honest I go back and forth on both I'm not against but not wanting to at the same time. However I do believe turn about is fair play and also well if doing it to her it seems wise for me to know what it would be like to try to ensure she can enjoy it. 7) I always wondered what to do. I only know what's okay with a condom on. The rest is confusing as I wouldn't want to make a mess on her and degrade her that way. And I don't know what happens for clean up if inside. Tho I would gladly always shower with a partner after sex being able to wash each other sounds fun.

[Asker]

8) isn't actually about public sex on this like tease her through her clothes. All the way from her ankles up under her dress to go down on her. Kiss down her chest and neck. And trying to kiss and tease as mcub bear skin as possible without moving/removinf her clothing. Maybe a bit of moving and maybe every so often like exposing her chest of something to give attention to her nipples. But mostly througb clothing gentle feather light 10) you don't think it's odd or anything 13) it's am idea of mine that's to give her a nice night all about her pleasure it's not to do with me getting off. If she wanted more then yes but if she was happy with it that would be it. 14) yeah that makes sense tbh this kinda links back to what I've said about 8. Maybe kissing, licking, caressing and sucking every but the underwesr covered parts. After doing the 8 over clothes for a while. But then start to slowly move the underwesr gently kissing places that have had no attention and that. Sorry for the lots of information I wanted to explain a touch more and I hope you don't mind. Please feel free to ask any questions

[Aerissa_Jade]

Doggie style hits the G spot well, that is why I like it. Keep in mind if we are facing and its going well, my eyes are usually closed as I focus on it. To not get too distracted, not saying they are closed all the time, just when things get really close, I close them without thinking about it.

[Asker]

I get that but to me seeing her face, kissing her lips and neck and well being able to see her boobs are such turn ones for me. Seeing she's enjoying it would be very hot and well also to me stuff from behind just feels impersonal

[Asker]

I hope you don't mind my reply and hope it was something helpful or interesting.

[Anonymous]

1. I mean yea but i dont love guys going down on me

2. Dont like spanking anyway and i can live without positions from behind

3. THATS A MUST PLS

4. Whatever he prefers

5. id consider it but i dont like hair there on me

6. thats gross, not for me

7. uhmm i dont mind

8. yea sure

9. im fine with itt

10. sure !

11. i feel like if i didn't i wouldn't have much option

12. yES

13. i mean id rather do it to him but im happy for a massage

14. sounds nice yea !

[Asker]

Could I ask what you mean by number 11?

[Opinion Owner]

id assume most guys have a thing for women's underwear

[Asker]

That makes sense I originally thought that was for 10. Sorry miss counted. my own questions. But that makes sense. So you wouldn't mind wearing swimwear on occasion instead of like lingerie?

[Opinion Owner]

i dont like lingerie im happy to wear swimwear

[Asker]

That makes sense. I'm just surprised I didn't think many would. I just kinda find then sexy. But also sleeping with a partner in a swimsuit or bikini. The next time you go out and she wears that at a pool or a beach you kinda have like a naughty secret which seems kinda fun and hot as well.

[Opinion Owner]

yea I've never thought about that sorta thing- the secret thats fun too

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I thought like just knowing that just seems fun and a way to bring you closer to your partner. I'm just asking as I'm curious you see. I've never dated or anything and just trying to figure out if what people think of some stuff. I do have fantasies but they are all around her pleasure not mine and all sensual and roamtnci with cuddeling as that's whats important to me.

[Opinion Owner]

i love cuddlingggg but im like i prefer prioritising my partner's pleasure usuallyy

[Asker]

I'm the same. And I just love the idea of pleasing a partner, gently carressing her, kissing, licking and sucking all over her body. Some teasing with hands beneath clothes before slowly undressing and continuing. Going down on her stuff like that to me is really hot. But the idea of a woman going down on me is a massive turn off. As well a guys thing and stuff is just ugh also well it just looks degrading as hell and I'm not interested in that. Sex or rather making love to a partner for me is about showing them oleause and how much they mean to me.

[Opinion Owner]

i just wanna like yea its about showing your partner love and trusting them

[Asker]

Exactly, and also I'll be honest even with my fantasies. Whxkh non actually have anything with me getting off it's about making her feel as good as I can and that, I really love the idea of pleasuring a partner so I won't day I get nothing about it as I don't think there is a sight more beautiful then a woman getting pleasure like that. So I do get a little something out if it. But tbh my main interest is cuddeling and I do really like the half spoons one if you know which that is?

[Opinion Owner]

yea i know ! its so wholesome

[Asker]

I think so and tbh I like the idea of sometimes being the one to cuddle up into my partner. I know how it always shows as the guy and woman. But I actually think sometimes it would be so nice to reverse it. And to the the one getting The feelings of comfort, warmth and that. I know how it may say as it's not very manly as most would say but it just looks so loving

[Opinion Owner]

im just small wouldn't feel right being the one in the more dominant postion

[Asker]

I can get that. It would just be nice even being taller then a partner it would just be nice every so often after a bad day or something to be the one that gets held ya know.

[Opinion Owner]

that makes sense !

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your answers when I started the little questionnaire it was 3 questions. I also really appreciate your willingness to answer others that I've asked it's very kind of you. If you have any questions please let me know. It's the least I can do.

[Opinion Owner]

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[Ez-Bri-Z]

¹ yep though going down on me isn't happening either.



² perfectly fine. I don't want sex from him and I dont like pain.

³ cuddling is encouraged! Sex.. not so much.

⁴ dont care.

⁵ meh. Ill try, but probably would still want to keep things trimmed.

⁶ On me? No. Would I do it to him? Meh... not my thing, but I... guess? Iunno maybe not actually.


⁷ wherever I'm not.

⁸ id be happy with no sex at all.

⁹ see above.

¹⁰ nobody should want to see me in a swimsuit.

¹¹ dont care.. dont stretch mine out.. get your own.

¹² sure.

¹³ Massage, sure. Oral, no.

¹⁴ The first half is fine, just nothing going inside me.