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If a guy gets hard around you when you’re lying together does that 100 percent mean that he’s not gay?

My family questions if my boyfriend is gay because he does leave his hair long and flips his hair in a girly manner but he has told me that he’s not and he’s also mire religious than me. But I guess I was kind of wondering if he was gay because when I showed him part of my boob he wasn’t really excited or anything and he kind of I think faked being turned on I was embarrassed lol. I don’t really think he’s gay at all because he always gets hard when we’re in bed
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  • Parents say stupid shit too. I had long hair. I'm not gay.
    Jesus had long hair. Tell them that.
    I suspect that they have a problem with your boyfriend. And it's not his hair. And they probably know he's not gay.
    They might just have a problem with you having a boyfriend period.
    Parents are people too. They get scared because they see you becoming a woman. So they get petty, and make up stupid things like him being gay. They are desperate so they are lashing out and basically making fun of your boyfriend. They are saying his long hair makes him look girly. It's mean. It's shitty. But it's because they are just scared that your not ready to grow up as fast as you are. I went through it. Your grandparents did the same thing to your parents.
    Here's what you should do. Tell your boyfriend to talk to your parents more. Tell him some question he can ask them. Like about whatever your dads Hobby's are. Fuck it. Your boyfriend has got nothing to lose. They don't like him anyway. What will happen is your parents will get to know him and they will see why you like him. Then they will stop all the BS and be nice to him. If you want them to get along, that's what you should do.

    And just cause you showed him partial boob and he did grow a raging hard on means nothing. C'mon you got to put a little more effort into being sexy. Would you get all creamy if he just pulled out one of his balls for 2 seconds? Probably not. You sound young.
    So try this. Especially if you're shy at all. Just make out with him. Leave your shirt on. Take his hands and put them on your boobs. Tell him to touch you. After that he will take over. Keep your clothes on. It's actually way hotter like that. It makes it kinda mysterious and builds the anticipation. See, then you are also taking it slow. And touching you in that way, he will be rock hard, and you will definitely enjoy the way it feels also. Good luck. Don't be in such a hurry. You will have plenty of passionate sex in the next 40 50 years ok? There's no rush

Most Helpful Guy

  • Not 100%, because erections can be completely random and also the body can "react" anyway, but if he "always" gets hard with you, then it's you lol. And for the boob, maybe he's just not into boobs that much. Most guys love them, but there are a few that aren't really into them. He might be more of an "ass guy"?

Most Helpful Girl

  • He could always be bisexual. I used to always question if my ex was. He used to be perfectly fine with a gay man hitting on him at the gym so much that he wouldn’t mind the getting hit on. My ex also used to wear sus attire, and it only got worse as we broke up and he found someone else. Just making assumptions with your boyfriend, but I think what you described is too vague to assume he is gay/bisexual

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  • If you've been in bed together, you should know the answer to this question.

  • No it does not mean he's 100% not gay, guys get erections for all kinds of reasons.

  • That depends on if you're lying together or laying together.

  • Your boyfriend is gay when he doesn't want to have sex with you and only has sex with men that's when he's gay

  • He like you

  • you don't think he is, but you're also wondering if he is

    hun, you need to make up your own mind, lol

    dont' ask us if he's gay, we're not him, fool

  • getting hard is natural for a guy but if he isn't turned on by you then he probably is gay.

  • If you have sex, then he's NOT gay, but he might be bi.

  • Guys can have long hair doesn't mean his gay that's stupid

  • Nope, random erections are quite common, morning erections even more.

  • If he can't get it up or hard he might just me impotent. I can't get it up but m not gay

  • Have you fucked him yet?

  • Maybe bi?

  • No I don't think that means he is gay

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