Wanna know what being a "plus size" woman is like?

[BloomingCutie]

It sucks. We aren't the most desired. Seems we get the discounted men too. Though yes many fit guys don't want a woman with a belly and flabby butt...

The plus size community needs to stop deluding themselves.

Though the big girls with big chests get by...

[LaMiSch]

For me the opposite is true. i feel more attracted to women who have more body. Sure, sporty women are attractive, but thick women do something to me 😅 And I know a lot of guys who feel the same way. so don't let yourself be stressed, live your life as you see fit. The main thing is that you are healthy, well-groomed and satisfied.😊

[Seangreen]

Do you think that the in shape women want out of shape men either it works both ways it's not a gender thing

[kyleelyn199723]

I disagree with this. If anything people in 2021 have became more accepting of plus sized as it’s becoming more and more common. It’s to the point where VS no longer uses skinny models to advertise their clothes

[BloomingCutie]

Yet I attract below average guys lol

[kyleelyn199723]

@bloomingcutie no offense, but those may be guys in your league. I’m not quite sure how you look to form my personal opinion, but most girls will attract below age men only if they don’t up keep how they look, which goes beyond weight.

[BloomingCutie]

I mean like waaay below. Im not that picky but many look like they smoke 24/7, and dont groom.

[kyleelyn199723]

@bloomingcutie do you not upkeep yourself though? I am not the skinniest girl ever by any means, but I go to the gym, eat fairly healthy , wear nice clothes here and there etc. and my man is attractive. We are into the same things though. Maybe who you are attracting is a reflection of how you seem to be treating yourself. Maybe I am wrong, but that’s the only thing that makes sense.

[BloomingCutie]

I do Groom and walk. I bathe every night and wash

[kyleelyn199723]

@bloomingcutie most people bathe everyday, walks etc. doesn’t seem like you are going the extra mile for yourself, which most men are attracted to. Most men are attracted femininity

[kyleelyn199723]

@bloomingcutie most fit guys will go for the girls that choose to be fit amongst those that don’t. That doesn’t mean skinny, but it means getting up, going to the gym and caring about your looks.

[Shaggy_KW]

Stop eating unhealthily and work out, don't blame your obesity, blame yourself

[BloomingCutie]

😂 .. reread my post again

[Shaggy_KW]

Damn missed that middle part, sorry bout that

[Cowboy6666]

I have dated 2 plus size women in the past,
You are attractive if you are open minded lady ;)

[Anonymous]

I am sure whether you are a BBW or not, you are a stunning woman either way