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Why would a guy spit In you’re mouth during sex?

Without asking and him being on top of me.
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  • Because he saw it in a porn movie and thinks that you will think that he is sexually advanced and will be impressed. But mostly because guys are stupid. I'm like way older than you. Let me give you a tip. Always ask if your partner likes something first before you do it. I know what that sounds like, but I mean even simple things. Because the goal is to keep the communication going. Thats how you find out what turns the other person on! Everyone is different.
    I don't where we (men) got the idea that we should make women think we instinctively know what every woman likes. Duh! They are all different. It's kinda like men not asking for directions if we get lost. We're Men. We should know. So we do this trial and error guessing game. And end up with a lot of error.
    Think about this ladies. Wouldn't you like it if a guy took his time and asked you what you like. It doesn't have to be an interview. You do it in a more suave way--- "oh you like that? Do you like this better, or this. Oh, ok that must be the spot". Not trying to be creepy. Just something like that. Also that communication keeps things playful and not dark and serious. Thats bad.
    Also if you don't keep the lines open then we tend to stay in our own heads. And that is poison for sex. Because everyone feels vulnerable during sex. Actually thats part of the beauty of it. But we start thinking too much. Women start thinking, "Do I look fat. Am I sexy enough. Etc.."
    All bullshit. Stay out of your head. And women need to know. When a guy gets quiet and stays in his head, 2 things are very likely to happen. 1. He can't maintain an erection or 2. Premature ejaculation. .. oh nooooo!.
    That's my advice

Most Helpful Guy

  • It's a dominance thing. Some girls love it, most don't, and it's totally fine if you don't. It's your job to set boundaries and expectations. Maybe his last girlfriend loved it - there's no rules, just individual tastes.

    In the BDSM world, this is understood, and people are used to talking about it. Many people have profiles that list their kinks and their "hard no"s. That's actually a good idea, and more people should adopt the practice of communicating their likes and limits up front.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Spitting is somewhat gross !!!

    That said, I find having his tongue in my mouth to be real sex !!!

  • He watches way too much porn.

    Tell him no next time.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I'm more interested in what your reaction was.

  • It’s a kink,

    however it’s abuse without consent.

    every time, it’s about consent, without it, nothing at all happens.

    For every new bit, then consent is required,

  • Not sure, probably something he gets a kick out of, maybe it makes him feel more dominant over you.

  • That sounds awful. It sounds like he’s been watching too much porn. That’s definitely something you talk about beforehand, and makes me gag even thinking about it. Hope he does better in the future!

  • Yuck...
    Probably saw it in some raunch pron video and thinks it is hot. I never have.

    Tell him next time he does that, it will be that last time he gets on top... unless you like that kind of play... blah...

  • He is a moron.

  • Gross.

  • I only did it once, against my better judgement, because she asked me to a few weeks before. But, when I opted to do it to please her, she was sickened by it! Go figure!!

  • That sounds absolutely disgusting.

  • Really hard to say, maybe marking his territory or showing his dominance

  • To humiliate you

  • Porn...

    • I figured

    • Yeah

  • Ewwww

  • That's gross.

  • I've done it B4 and she did it to me, and it was sexy

  • Watching too much porno.

  • Disrespecting and humiliating you, it's a kink some have.

  • Were cameras set up around you?

  • why not

  • Sounds gross... what do you like during sex?

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