Is this bad to say on tinder?

Question

If you matched with someone for the first time, and you asked them how are you, but they haven't replied, should I tell them I can suck a dick really good?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Just for perspective. Do you have any idea how many times guys match up with girls on dating apps, message them and they don’t respond? Do you have the slightest clue at all how common that is?

Imagine every guy got all pissed off at every girl he matched and didn’t respond to his message. Then imagine guys always sending pissed off messages when the girl doesn’t respond.

While I am sure it occasionally happens most of the time we just move on. But if we did that all the time you girls would just complain even more (as if you don’t do enough already) complain about creepy/socsexual “harassment”. So most guys keep it cool even when we are pissed off and frustrated.

Anyway I have accidentally matched unattractive women before. When that happens I’ll try to unmatch them as quick as possible to prevent getting their hopes up. I’m sure it’s been done to me a few times but I don’t take it personally.

MrKinktastic · Accepted Answer

Only if you want to be used for a pump and dump. You also come across a bit easy/desperate by escalating like that.

Guys matching and not messaging is more or less the default on matching apps like tinder so I wouldn’t sweat it. If they’re into you they’ll message, if not then just unmatch them after a while if they aren’t replying and move on to the next.

Aurora1010 · Accepted Answer

If you are there just for sex, I guess not. It would seem a little desperate though.

horatiohornblower · Answer

I'd assume that waiting for me is three guys with baseball bats to mug me, steal my car and toss my body in a dumpster when I show up. Not a girl handing out BJs.

LikeALog · Answer

If all you said initially was: "Hi, how are you" I wouldn't respond either.

Shortman70 · Answer

I'll be right over Jesse, I'll be really hot when I get there, so be ready!! Are you making me supper when you're done? Of course you'll be full of protein.

andreea89 · Answer

Most men would love that

Fanfare690 · Answer

Dont be desperate bae

molonski2 · Answer

I wouldn't pursue that as an avenue of introduction , the time for that is later..

AndyOh · Answer

If that is what you are looking for and nothing more, then it should be fine. If you are on Tinder, you are not looking for a relationship are you.

AviatorTom · Answer

I'm pretty sure that would inspire some kind of response.

Shiver · Answer

It works if you want to do easy hookups.

imjustadude · Answer

Yes, if all you are looking for is a dick to suck. Guy may not respect you and may just use you for one good night. Don't expect anything more or you will get your heart broken again.

Kyle-Jackson78 · Answer

bruh no

DaveToo · Answer

LOL! Well, Jessie, it would get MY attention. My hope is that you would also accept reciprocation.

kitkills · Answer

Yes...

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Exactly why I don't use such dating sites; such behaviour would IMMEDIATELY turn me RIGHT OFF!

larry69 · Answer

You could. But what would it sound like if a man says I can eat pussy really good?

kellytheman · Answer

Well you might get a faster replied but I think just be patient for right now. Tinder is a good place to just hook ups for sex if that's what your looking for and you really want him sure tell him other things your good at sexually.