If your partner said they want a threesome what would you say?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

When this happened to me, I told her that before I could even consider an answer, we would have to talk through all of the possible outcomes, and all kinds of other things about it. I told her that I'd much prefer to not have one than to screw up our relationship because we rushed into something unprepared and with unrealistic expectations. We spent 4 months talking about it before I agreed to it.

[Paige90]

Threesome as in a MFM?

[MrOracle]

@Paige90 No, she wanted another girl. She already knew that there was zero chance in there ever being another guy, but she is bi and wanted another girl anyway.

[Aerissa_Jade]

This already happened, he wanted an MFF and I did it so long as he agreed to an MMF later.

We did both and while they were okay, the quality with the MFF just sucked, he wore out too fast. I'm not sure I'd ever do that again though as it lead to relationships problems.

He ended up being super resentful and blamed me for it, that somehow I wasn't suppose to have a issue with him being in another woman but it really bothered him for another man with me and it ultimately ended things.

I no plans of doing this ever again.

[jayyohh]

My partner and I have had very honest open minded conversations about this. I'm bisexual so I didn't want to loose that part of my life. So weve had threesome's. He recently came out bi too so I'm sure there's more to come. It isn't for every couple , takes a lot of trust and communication, brutal honesty. But it can work.

[AimeeKyle]

Talk through what he wants and/or is thinking. Don’t rush into anything. Make sure you are both on the same page and understand each other’s limitations/boundaries. Don’t push previously discussed boundaries. Create a safe / stop word. And have fun (if you decide to go through with it). Also, don’t be afraid to bring up any of your fantasies (if you have differing ones).

[RearEntryGuy]

My heart says yes, but my mouth no because of the potential risk that our relationship could be destroyed.

And if really happens, I would only want FFM, never M2.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I'd say its fine after getting to meet the person and seeing if I like her.

[Gurdy2816]

Sure. But they are in charge of finding the woman/ man that's gonna go with us

[Kate090]

I would show him the door.

[Daniela1982]

Oh my aching head! A brand new year and asking threesome questions to start the year off with and every day after that.

[OlderAndWiser]

It's been good knowing you

[SnakeBoop]

no thanks.

[ChrisMaster69]

Had a conversation earlier about this.

to me it’s about consent, boundaries and limits.

There should be no asking for one?

It can be talked about as in seeking views on it etc.

Once however it is mentioned and a no, then that’s it.

if it’s a yes but with limits and boundaries, then you have more to discuss.

It depends how much you need a massage at times lol

[RobT312]

Sure. MMF

[erandal]

With another girl. Yes please. With another man, no. I've had a MFM with an ex and it ended badly.

[pineappleliver]

when my ex mentioned ffm as a fantasy i said ok but only if we can also do mmf 💀 it was never mentioned again

[pineappleliver]

what happened though?

[erandal]

@pineappleliver The ex couldn't mentally handle seeing me enjoy another man.

[MrCommodore]

I'd talk about it, and if she was adamant about it, I'd probably finish with her.

[ohshee]

I would say go find Curly Moe and Larry

[Daniela1982]

I see you've seen some of my threesome answers before.

[ohshee]

Hell I thought I was unique I thought that was a good answer never can tell I might have heard it from you good answer by the way then

[ohshee]

@anonymous you have to go a little bit more than you know tell him how you feel tell him how it hurt you

[ohshee]

And then just to see what he says tell him okay you'll do it but only if you have a threesome with another guy first and see what he has to say about that I guarantee you it what you will say no

[desidoll]

I am okay with it as long as he allows MMF too but we talked about it and he disagreed 😂 which I knew from the beginning.

[integrale77]

I'm fairly open minded I would say if she isn't joking it would have to be a stranger probably an escort.

It would be someone chosen with no emotional attachment and would be used for our pleasure.

[Tamera952]

Why don't you research the term "3-some" (threesome) on here before you RE-ASK this same question that has been asked 50,000,000 x's on here?
In summary, it's a bad idea.

[Daniela1982]

Come on! 50 million is a stretch. Maybe 40 million is more accurate.

[Roguehoneylife]

Depends on with who honestly

[SaoirseS]

No thanks, I don’t play golf.

[Dinklex3]

"No."

[Paige90]

My college boyfriend loved watching me with another guy so we did several MFM's.

[slatyb]

Another woman or a man? Anyway knowing my wife that will never happen.