Why would you want to 5 minutes before he had sex with that girl he might have thought about you and that was it he said fuck that I'm going to fuck this she will never know so right then and there he knows that it's wrong because he thought about it he goes ahead and he fucks that girl and then he comes and he sees you like nothing has ever even happen because he's smarter and he wanted to do it because he thought he could get away with it basically he said he doesn't give a fuck the moment he started fucking her do you are nobody in his life that girl is more important than you and then he treated you like a dummy because who cares you will never know well it never turns out the way that the guys thinking LOL why would you want to get back with a guy that premeditated fucking a girl when he was going out with you he said he didn't care right then and there the moment he stuck his dick in her he said I don't care about my girlfriend that's the bottom line why would you want to love somebody that doesn't love you
So basically he's telling you for a whole year after he would get them fucking her he would come home to you as if nothing happened just so he could get a candy bar or some bubble gum or something this is how smart guys really are my God I would think that you would be happy to be away from him that's up to you 12 year old boy would say well I hope you give him some free stuff too get some free advice get the fuck out and stay out
Why would you want to forgive him bro you pee slap you in the face it doesn't sound to me that he was using her to get free stuff I think it was the other way around he was using you to get free stuff
Well that would make me want to leave and even more because look what he does use the people to to take their money why doesn't he just get a job he's supposed to be supporting people not people supporting him especially when it's a big lie so that means she's not only your cheat but he's a thief too it's just a fucked-up situation but it is what it is and if you like the guy I guess you'll have to find out your own way I see nothing good coming from him you deserve something better
There is a difference between forgetting something and forgiving it. Going through the rest of your life being angry about it won't punish him and it won't help you, so you need to find a way to let go of the anger. This is more easily said than done, and it usually requires some time.
But you should never forget what he has done. If trust is important in a relationship (as it is to most people,) this is the ultimate relationship sin. I know that there are people who have this happen and who carry on their relationship, trying to salvage the pieces that are left, but I think that is impossible for most people. You will never again be able to trust him completely and that means you will never have the basis for a satisfying relationship. Try to make sure that you don't overgeneralize about this experience and assume that ALL men act this way; we don't.
Response to update: So he is not just unfaithful. He is also a male prostitute.
So he slept with another woman for a year while being in a relationship with you?
Why do you want to forgive him? Why do you want to stay with him?
Yes he did
Then why stay with him?
Sadly because I love him
Guess it depends on all the variables & context. Either you do, or you don't.
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You can't you just move on
it's true he doesn't love you
Well you are a woman, so you might be able to forgive that.
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In my opinion at that point you can’t. Honestly that’s when you need to cut your losses.
Don't if you don't want to
When?
Dump him , you can forgive him but you will never forget , When someone can cheat on you they don’t value you or love you, they only love themselves and the convenience of you , Value your self worth and realize you deserve better than that , never settle for someone that can’t just settle for you , and if you do end up taking him back you will never be happy , you might eventually cheat on him , and the thing is 2 wrongs don’t make a right , So honestly you are best to dump him
So money can buy his love from you? You have a real winner there
I doubt you will be able to forgive him, and if you do you’ll probably not be able to trust him.
I’m so sorry you are going through this. Did he tell you why he did it? Is there a particular reason why you would stay with him after that? Is he remorseful?
He said he used the other girl to get money out of her. He said he love me tho.
Is he like a male prostitute? Your relationship doesn’t sound very healthy sweetie. Did he tell you he was going to do that before he did it? If he hid it from you, then he knew that what he was doing was Wrong. If you were my daughter, I’d advise you to break up with him.
Nah he didn't told me. I have 2 small kids not by him. But he do still stay with me and my sons and they really like them. So that's why I didn't broke it off.
Don't, cheaters don't change and they shouldn't be given second chances. We should discourage it as much as we can, leave him for the streets
dump him.
You don’t that’s what
why do you even want to?
another troll. is cheating.
It is hard but you should think about it.
I think you need to either divorce him or live with it and forgive him for it leat he doesn't do it again
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You have to figure out that for your self.
Send him packing
Cheated? Dump him
Why? Just dump his sorry ass.
I wouldn’t. Just move on. I was a cheater. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Very very few people are able to change 100%.
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