Your sex duration?

Question 1. How long it takes last a real penetrative sex / real duration of intercourse
Like all the heating things, foreplay, roleplay all are done!

I'm a virgin and really curious about it seen lots of porn & search on internet & found Pornstars take numbing or pile kinda things...
Curious because according to internet there's big difference in orgasm time of men (short time) and women (long time)

---}Question 2. So how women got satisfied before getting out of the bed?

If all of you non virgins men or women give me a satisfying answer, it'll give a little peace to my mind!
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  • Well yes you are correct porn is not realistic, and they do use performance enhancing aids, not to mention clever post production editing techniques.

    In reality everyone is different and what everyone wants is different. Some women like a long session up to an hour of sex or more sometimes, and others get bored or sore after more than 20 minutes of actual sex.

    Foreplay again can be wildly different, from a few minutes to 30 to an hour. All depends on the womens likes and both partners desires. Some many spend hours building up to it via roleplay.

    Yes many guys do cum quickly and in those situations they must focus more foreplay on the women to make sure they cum during it, rather than during sex. Additionally some women struggle to cum with penetrative sex and find clitorial stimulation the only way they can cum.

    On average a couple will most likely spend around 20 minutes on foreplay and 10 to 15 minutes on penetration.

    But again this can vary wildly depending on the people and the situation, some of those that night have quick sex one night, might have a long session another night.

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  • Three guys before me had given good answers and I'll try not to repeat.

    1) porn is like Hollywood movies, made for $$$ only. Hence think of porn as "Fast and Furious", exciting to watch, but will land you into serious accident if you were to follow.

    (Conversely if porn is like Traffic Police safety Video, how many will watch?)

    Hope you get my point and not trust porn.

    2) a virgin to sex is like a blind trying to describe a color. No matter how much he read and heard, he can never describe say Red.

    Only after the blind can see, even with one eye, then the color say Red is experienced.

    Hence, don't be "too prepared". You may get disappointed if your First Time is below expectation. (Much like a blind think Red is hot like the Sun, then discover after seeing, has no heat and is not the sun, he may get disappointed.)

    3) duration for man? Read other opinions.

    4) how to satisfy a woman?
    Answer: orgasms.

    There is no secret. Pleasing a woman is determined by How many orgasms her man can give her.

    It could happen before entering the bedroom; during foreplay like cunnilingous; clitoris stimulation; and during PIV intercourse.

    To do that, help her relax, help her feel desired and loved, help her "feel" the intimacy and non physical connections.

    Doing these may make her wet, then foreplay will enhance them and finally climax at orgasm, PIV or not.

    To conclude, stop counting time. Instead make time count. Count her orgasms instead. Then your experience with her will be intimate and pleasurable.

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  • it Can take from 10 minutes to up to hours !

    Your sex duration?
  • It takes around 2-5 mins for the roleplay and heating things up. Maybe this time can be longer for others who like more of roleplay.

    • Okay foreplay & roleplay are done But what about duration of intercourse/penetration According to internet mens feel orgasm really fast as compare to womens How they got satisfaction before getting out of bed?