Can you have sex without foreplay or is foreplay a must? Does foreplay always have to be associated with touching?

Both questions are related as they both have to do with the mind and it's erotic nature.

I mean not everyone has an erotic nature, but for those that do, can merely thinking about and anticipating a sexual interlude provide the foreplay stage for you and allow you to then go right into a sexual experience, or is the touching part of foreplay necessary to get you were you need to be in order to get physical and then complete the experience?
Can you have sex without foreplay or is foreplay a must? Does foreplay always have to be associated with touching?
Can you have sex without foreplay or is foreplay a must? Does foreplay always have to be associated with touching?
Yes, I can get right into sex without physical foreplay as long as I am mentally stimulated and build into it that way prior to the physical intimacy
Vote A
Can you have sex without foreplay or is foreplay a must? Does foreplay always have to be associated with touching?
No, I must have some physical stimulation prior to sex, the mental thing doesn't work for me
Vote B
Can you have sex without foreplay or is foreplay a must? Does foreplay always have to be associated with touching?
OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Foreplay" Survey
Vote C
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Foreplay are the best, but I cum so fast that I also love a quickie - rough and wild.

  • Foreplay is very important. Better to be dripping wet than dryer than a desert

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  • I enjoy physical foreplay and I prefer to have it the majority of the time, but there are times when you just look at your partner and you know you both want it NOW.

    I also figured out early on that if you get in your girl's head and you give her mental and emotional stimulation - give her things to anticipate - then she's going to be ready, even without foreplay, anytime you want her. You can keep her at a constant state of low-level arousal, such that a kiss or a squeeze or a few dirty words means Niagara Falls in her panties and her enthusiastically pulling you to the bedroom.

    • quagmire he's quagmire quagmire you never really know what he's gonna do next he's quagmire quagmire giggity giggity goo i sure hope nothing can spoil this fancy dinner party quagmire rips off clothes and starts dancing on table giggity giggity giggity goo who else but quagmire he's quagmire quagmire you never really know what he's gonna do next he's quagmire quagmire giggity giggity giggity lets have sex

  • I picked A as yes I can have sex without foreplay, it's not as intense or as fulfilling as with foreplay.

  • Foreplay can be really wonderful, but it's not a must. Just the sight of her is often enough to make me ready for action.

  • Foreplay doesn't always have to be touching. It could be an onion ring on your dude's thing. Could be a corn dog dangling from your stuff (stick first?).

    Point is, whatever y'all are both into. Hot. Tasty. Sexy.

  • Foreplay is the best part of the sexes foreplay is the best part of starting sex foreplay is what pushed two energies together and without foreplay it's not going to be hot I mean that you can be hot but I like to make it red hot I like it to be so intense that she loses control I was in bed with a girl one time and I got into bed and she's just crawled on top of me she didn't want to kiss you didn't want to do anything except for fuck I said Slow Down and I swear I thought she was a 800 lb grizzly bear just an oz of pork chop I finally got to the point I said hold on for a second I have to go to the bathroom I got a grab my clothes walk to the front door put on my pants and I walked out to my car and I left I don't even think she wanted sex I think she wanted to eat me for lunch do you have to have foreplay that's all there is to it at least I do I love it

  • Foreplay is a must for me but we can dive right into a quickie without physical foreplay. The thought that he's about to fuck me gets me wet anyway. But, I'd rather go through the motions if we have time.

  • I think guys can jump into sex without as much foreplay as girls. However getting naked and having some fun foreplay is fun!

  • Not the biggest fan of foreplay since I'm alway crazy horny and ready to go. Afterplay is more important to me

  • 90% of all the times! There must be stimulation. I can't get into sex just like, i need touching and foreplay in order to get physical.

  • For me (and perhaps for all) foreplay is necessary because it helps getting the partners aroused, as well as oneself.

  • I do feel foreplay matters especially when I have deep feelings for a girl , and honestly the only girl I will sleep with to be honest , I can’t just bang a girl for the hell of it , just not who I am , I have to feel a connection with her and feel that she values me like I value her , Why I could never bang an escort or a prostitute or pay for sex , it honestly would not do anything for me , I was offered a few times from girls and I turned them down , it’s just dirty to me , I know there are a lot of guys that can do that but for some reason it’s just not me , it has crossed my mind as to why I can’t do that and it crossed my mind as why a girl can actually let herself do that to herself But again that’s his and her’s life not mine. When I have sex with a girl I am the type that wants her coming back for more , sex to me is best when 2 people have a connection and it’s going somewhere , So yes foreplay to me is important , not rushing anything and getting lost into each other and feeling relaxed to me is the best sex , once in awhile getting down and dirty is fun to but I prefer making love to her cuz it’s not even really about penetrating her it’s more just enjoying each other and feeling comfortable with each other and exploring each other’s bodies , instead of just wam bam thank ya ma’am lol My biggest turn on is knowing I got her off , when she cums I cum , if I finish before her , I feel like a failure and sadly that has happened a few times not to long ago and something I was very concerned about and yelled at my penis for and said what the fuck you doing dumb ass lol , The penis is a very sensitive. part of our body and the vagina can easily make a guy bust a nut cuz of how good it feels , It honestly is a skill to hold back from ejaculating before she does , Most girls don’t realize that and instantly get upset if he busts a nut before she finishes and takes it the complete wrong way , that he only cares about himself , and the fucked up thing is that could be true if he doesn’t try to improve himself in bed with her then that shows he doesn’t care but don’t always assume that. The few times I failed I went to my doctor to get checked up on , and found out stress was playing a big factor as to why I was having trouble , Losing my Mom and my older brother this past year within months apart took a big toll on my nerves and shocked my system 2021 was a horrible year for me and this year hasn’t really changed yet , Going to my doctor and Learning that nerves can play a big factor in a guy’s penis , So word of advice girls don’t jump the gun if your man starts failing you he might be under stress or suffering from ED , My doctor gave me viagra and I am not going to lie it’s the best male pill ever , it only works when a guy is turned on it doesn’t just make a guys dick hard for the hell of it , he has to be aroused and turned on for it to work , another thing girls get upset about with guys lol Cuz a girl assumes the pill is what is making him hard and that’s not the case at all , it only works when he is turned on , So girls word of advice give your men viagra if he starts having troubles down there , you will not complain lol

  • Sometimes, 🦜 dirty can get things going. I personally get turned on by a woman in gymnastics outfits or figure skating costumes. The blades have to come off her feet before getting frisky, though🥴.

  • Foreplay isn't absolutely necessary, especially if there's a high level of sexual tension already between partners. Foreplay does enhance the experience for both partners, though, and is highly recommended.

  • Physical foreplay is usually a must unless I’m really horny. But sometimes we just enjoy mutual oral to climax (usually one then the other not both of us at once).

  • Sure can!

  • foreplay is a must to me. I take some time to get aroused and turned on. sex without foreplay to me means dry sex and I would eventually have to fake it. sad but true.

  • I have done this but it is a lot better with foreplay. Part of the process is the journey.

  • When i am doing it for my own i always want some foreplay first as i like to get wet a little n set some grounds before actual fun but when i am at work i can set my mind to either ways coz most clients like to do a little foreplay but some just get into sex without any play at all

    • What made you want to get in that business?

    • @cookiecrusher well its our family business plus i always wanted to be a porn star but my parents and brothers didn't allow me n instead suggested to join my brother's club

    • Never would have quessed it🤔 Have you thought about phub, a lot of people enjoy doing porn from there? Even a woman from my hometown is now world famous, just phub and with her partner and maybe a girl on the side.

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  • Foreplay is the proper way to preheat the oven and make the overall sex better for her on the macro and specifically during actual sex after foreplay because all the sensations and feelings build up from it. We can be antsy and skip foreplay too soon or altogether which isn't fair. I think I've disappointed multiple partners by ignoring foreplay.

  • I think foreplay and sex are part of a continuum. Like appetizers at really good restaurants, the foreplay can be the most experimental thrilling part of the entire experience. I like the forplay to turn into edging her up until she is almost coming and then backing off and doing sgain, even more intesely each time until she is dying to cum and then getting her off. So that's foreplay seguing into what many would consider the main event.

    So glad to see you posting again, your questions- as well as your photos- are always a turn on

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