Why is it bad that your partner watches porn?

[Anonymous]

maybe i’m too innocent to know why it’s wrong for my boyfriend to watch porn

[zr0bytz]

It's only bad when and if he becomes addicted or a porno creep, porno creeps cannot cum without performing and imagining themselves In the scene they love, and some cannot even cum without masturbating.

Being psych buff I have used this theory to reprogram my brain using porn.

My wife poses and allows me to take any image I want of her or acts we perform.

In the event we aren't having sex and I masturbate to porn, I only edge to it. And when I am ready to finally cum I switch to images and videos of her an I, and the result is an explosive out of this world orgasm while I'm watching my wife do amazing things to me or vica versa. So we have been married 16 years and kissing her still makes me hard.

[EnglishEuropean]

Wow, you fucked up your life in the cause of science! It's lucky you have an understanding wife.

[zr0bytz]

My life isn't fucked at all, I'm still aroused by my wife 16 years later the same as I was day 1, we also watch porn together and create content for other, I've pretty much programed my brain to desire my wife and if that's fucked well then everyone should be fucked up

[EnglishEuropean]

Obviously I misunderstood. Good for you!

[andy530]

It’s not necessarily wrong that your partner watches porn. Some couples enjoy watching it together and others enjoy it separately. Porn is neither good or bad it’s how you use it and your values around it that contribute to it either having a positive neutral or negative impact on your relationship

[Ms_Vanderquack]

It isn’t.

[OlderThanILook]

If you don't think it's bad then don't worry about it. That's between you two. Nobody can tell you whether you should or should not worry if your partner watches porn.

[Dargil]

If it distracts him from intimacy with you, bad.
If it causes him to engage in perversion with you bad.
If he looks at it out of scientific curiosity, not so bad.

[Angelo75]

The thing is that the more he watches porn, the more he'd want to do to you what he sees in the porn.
Many times after a while, a person watching porn will want a slightly more intense/harder porn. So there is a chance of heading towards things like bukkake/gangbang/bdsm etc...
The question is, when he gets to that point, will you like it? And what if you don't? How do you stop him from "wanting it from you" it deep down his heart?

[dumbbuthot]

its not bad

[genericname85]

I don't think it is. Unless he watches porn rather than having sex with you and it makes you unhappy.

[Wise4myage]

Would he rather watch porn than have sex with you? If so, than that's a problem.

[Quidthonian]

For me it is not bad. People do like variety: sexual acts don't always need to happen with a partner. I would support and encourage my future partner to watch porn: to use her imagination to get herself some sexual relief.

[oldermale]

Nothing bad about watching porn and masturbating together

[jahaims]

I only find it to be bad if it is replacing sexual interaction

[cryptoGuy]

I watch porn if my girlfriend is on period

[Twalli]

It isn't bad unless he chooses it over sex

[awesomehairstylist]

innocent? how old are you?

[In_Trance]

It's not

[EnglishEuropean]

It's fine as long as he doesn't get PIED. (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction).

[bananathunder]

i don't think it's bad as long as it's not getting in the way of anything

[Waldoe]

its a normal attraction for men,,, its arousing and fun

[billluc69]

why is it bad?

[Anonymous]

I watch with my girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

False expectations -bad side
Some good ideas when he imitates some of the moves - the small, but good, side