Rough sex and holding back?

Kitty_V Xper 4

Guys are you ever afraid of hurting your girlfriend if you have rough sex with her?

I don’t care how rough I am during sex

Vote A

I always hold back a little during rough sex

Vote B

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ohshee Master
+1 y
I like to keep it just a little bit lower than that fine line because I need to pay attention to her eyes the color of her cheeks the way she moans or briefs because she's telling me everything She Wants in that moment and if I know how to read that did I can make her have more than one orgasm and that's my whole goal it's not about me it's about her making her as the best orgasms ever
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- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  Why is the goal about her pleasure?
- ohshee
  +1 y
  Because the harder and the deeper I can get her turned on that's what gets me turned on and making it all about her is about making her just so nuts and that's what turns me on and the more turned on I get the more turned on. I'm going to get her

Most Helpful Guy

DonkeyDan Guru
+1 y
I always hold back a bit or rather have limits as to how far I'd go. I like petit women and I'm a big guy so it would be easy for me to accidentally hurt her if I didn't focus on exactly what I'm doing and control it.
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- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  How do you set a limit?

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What Guys Said

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RobT312 Guru
+1 y
We are aggressive at times but never rough. It’s not fun if someone feels pain or gets hurt. For us it’s 100% pleasure
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- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  How would you feel if you were being aggressive and then you hurt her by mistake?
- RobT312
  +1 y
  I wouldn’t feel good about it. Never happened so far so I guess we are careful enough
StrongMale Xper 7
+1 y
I hold back because I feel that if I went as rough as I really want to, she might get upset and ask me to stop, neither of which I want.
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- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  How rough do you really want to go?
- StrongMale
  +1 y
  If I had my way completely, I would grab her hair, slap her ass, pound her so deep and hard she would yelp... just manhandle her in every way and totally take what I wanted sexually. But again, only if she agreed in advance to all that!
FriendlyDrugDealer Guru
+1 y
Yeah I do hold back for the most part but it’s not a big deal. She makes me happy and still can handle business in the bedroom
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- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  Why do you hold back?
- FriendlyDrugDealer
  +1 y
  Doesn’t have a good pain tolerance
- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  That’s considerate
Fireguy17 Guru
+1 y
Depending on what my partner wanted.
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- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  What do you want?
- Fireguy17
  +1 y
  whatever makes my partner happy works for me, it doesn't really matter much as long as I am having sex, and the happier she is, probably the more often she will want to have sex.
jahaims Master
+1 y
Yeah
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cryptoGuy Xper 3
+1 y
I like rough and hard sex. I am being careful choosing my partners for no surprise after
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- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  What do you mean for no surprise after?
- cryptoGuy
  +1 y
  If your partner doesn’t like rough sex and you like, is this fair for her/him? I mean I have to know that infomercial before going bed..
Avgbrisbaneguy Explorer
+1 y
no not afraid
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- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  What type of rough sex do you have?
- Avgbrisbaneguy
  +1 y
  can I dm you
- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  I think everyone would be interested in your answer
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- Avgbrisbaneguy
  +1 y
  tie her up, pin legs back. hold her against the wall
- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  Which one do you think feels most dominant?
- Avgbrisbaneguy
  +1 y
  tying her down to the bed
- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  What do you like about tying her down?
- Avgbrisbaneguy
  +1 y
  being able to use her how I want
- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  What does using your partner mean?
Anonymous
+1 y
C - we both like it but I d hold back a little at times if I feel like it's a little much for her, especially during anal.
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- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  How do you tell when you think it might be a bit much for her?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  I can sometimes sense it by her body language but more often she says something.
- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  What does she say?
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- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Something like "I might need you to slow down" or "not quite so deep". Just depends on the moment
Anonymous
+1 y
Hold back until I'm really comfortable with her and know what she likes, then I'll bang her as rough as she wants.
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- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  What are you thinking when you’re being rough?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Thinking about how good her pussy feels squeezing may cock, how nice her tits look as they bounce and how wonderful it is knowing that she wants it rough.
- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  Why is it wonderful that she likes rough sex?
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- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Because she's comfortable pushing the boundaries to experience pleasure.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  How do you feel about it?
- Kitty_V
  +1 y
  I want to understand what would make a guy be really rough because the men I’ve been with always tell me they’re not going to go any rougher because they will hurt me.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Well that's something that is individual to everyone. One guy will say one thing and another guy will say something else. I'll do it for fun. Others will do it because they want to dominate, and others don't like it at all.