How to get more relaxed when masturbating?

So I masturbate a reasonable amount, and though I do have some vibrators, I never penetrated myself with something besides my fingers. I just bought my first dildo, but I'm still nervous to use it. Any tips on how I can finally please myself with a doildo?
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  • Use plenty of lube and start slowly insert just the tip of your vibrator and gradually insert a little more if your not comfortable go back a step. I'm sure it'll be fine you won't find much chance a vibrator will cause any pain.

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  • It took me years before I can be very relax while I'm masturbating. I'm always very tense and nervous.

    The tthing is what work for me is that I had to feel very comfortable in my body and very confident in the fact I enjoy masturbating that much to then come in tune and enjoy myself to an orgasm while I'm doing. I hope you get through with it

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  • Be as relaxed as possible, and always be naked.

  • I would like to say something about the movies I watched, but they are not realistic either.

    • What did you want to say about them?

    • vibrator and finger together

  • You definitely just have to be relaxed, don't make that out of necessity. lie down comfortably... I can't write everything here as I would like, but relaxation and pleasure are the most important things

    • If you want send me ne dm. But of course you don't have to 😅 I have a few tips from my ex. had the same problem 🙈

  • I would suggest a little lube and warming it up before inserting it... then just do whatever feels best

  • Use a lube such as olive oil or moisturizing cream or something similar and that’ll help a lot

  • I know some tricks for that but I can't say that in here..

  • Dildos are safe, they are made for thatease it in and enjoy


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  • Why would you be nervous? Just use some lube and start slow.

    • I guess I'm afraid of it hurting?

    • Just make sure you use some lube and insert slow. To relax, don't most ladies use scented candles or aroma?